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When Is It the Right Time? EOTAS, School Trauma & The Fear of Letting Go

When Is It the Right Time? EOTAS, School Trauma & The Fear of Letting Go

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Living in a neurodivergent family can feel like walking barefoot through a dark room full of Lego.

In this episode, I share a powerful metaphor from listener Lindsay Morris, and then take you into something very real happening in my own family right now.

After four years of recovery, support and rebuilding trust through an EOTAS package (Education Otherwise Than At School), my son is considering returning to school.

And I am terrified.

Not because he isn’t capable.

But because for many neurodivergent children, autistic, ADHD, PDA, school trauma doesn’t disappear overnight. Children do not go from “I can’t cope” to “I’m fixed.”

There is no switch.

In this episode I talk about:

• The Lego-in-the-dark metaphor for parenting a neurodivergent child
• Why safe circles matter more than perfect solutions
• EOTAS as structured recovery, not failure
• The fear of losing EHCP support too soon
• Why graded transitions matter
• The all-or-nothing approach many families face
• How to know when it’s time to take the next step
• Making leaps without losing the safety net

This is an honest episode about risk, recovery, fear and hope.

If you’ve ever sat at 3am wondering whether you’re making the right decision for your child, this one’s for you.

There is hope.
But there has to be flexibility.

If this resonates, please don't hesitate reach out, you are not doing this alone.




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I'm Liz, The Untypical OT. I specialise in burnout protection, event accessibility and inclusion, and supervision, with a love of podcasting.

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