If you could write one thing to the people you love, what would it be? How do you want to be remembered when you have left this earth?

Rabbi Steve Leder, bestselling author of For You When I’m Gone, joins me to explore ethical wills, grief, and the quiet, brave power of telling the truth with love.

We talk about the messy reality of dying and mourning; what people avoid saying, what they wish they had said sooner, and how silence serves no one. Rabbi Leder shares what an ethical will really is, why it is for everyone, not just for those close to the end. He also shares practical guidance for putting your values, your stories, blessings and hard-won wisdom into words. The most meaningful inheritance is not money or "stuff". It is the clarity, the connection and the love that we can share with our loved ones.

This episode goes deep, it’s practical, and it’s very deeply human.

Special Note: This episode includes conversation about death, dying, grief and end of life planning. Please listen with care. This episode also contains some mild profanity, which in my opinion, is the spice of life. This interview was conducted in December 2025.

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In this episode, I’m joined by Dana Chapman, mother, yogi and entrepreneur, for an honest and deeply human conversation about parenting a child with disabilities and what this experience has taught her about undiscovered courage, resilience, and love.

Dana shares what the early days really felt like, how her family navigated the many appointments and unfamiliar systems, and how she finds the balance between protecting her child and empowering him. We talk about the isolation, the fear but also the gratitude that is unearthed on this journey, and the moments of fierce hope that can show up in unexpected ways.

If you’re parenting a child with a disability, supporting a loved one who is, or simply want a fuller understanding of what families carry, this one is for you.

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In this episode, we look to the heavens with astrologer Lady Samantha for a grounded, hopeful conversation about astrology as a living practice; one that invites reflection, meaning, and personal agency.

Together, we explore how astrology can be used as a tool for self-understanding and resilience. Lady Samantha shares enlightening insights for the years ahead, offering perspective on what the skies might suggest about our collective journey, and how we can meet the future with calm, courage, and curiosity.

The learning? Perhaps the most ancient wisdom can bring the greatest light.

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