Marriage presents unique challenges because it unites two imperfect people who are still growing in their faith and struggling with sin. Rather than viewing marriage as a path to personal completion or happiness, God designed it as a tool for spiritual growth and holiness. The difficulties in marriage aren't signs of failure but opportunities for transformation into Christ's image. Scripture provides clear guidance for marriage roles in Ephesians 5, where both spouses are called to mutual submission out of reverence for Christ. Wives are instructed to submit to their husbands as the church submits to Christ, while husbands must love their wives with the same sacrificial love Christ showed the church. When husbands truly love sacrificially, wives naturally respond with respect and submission, creating a healthy dynamic that reflects the gospel. Building a flourishing marriage requires intentional daily effort, much like maintaining physical fitness. Most marriages fail not from major catastrophes but from countless small neglects and distractions. Success comes through three key practices: prioritizing your spouse by giving them your best rather than leftovers, protecting your heart from dangerous comparisons and temptations, and continuously pursuing each other through dating, communication, and prayer. With God as the third strand in the marriage cord, couples can weather any storm by focusing on their own spiritual growth rather than trying to change their partner.

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