Are you stuck in the mindset of "That's just the way I am"?

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner unpack why so many Christian husbands and wives stay trapped in childhood pain and emotional habits—and how to let God transform them.

💬 Learn how to:

Recognize when you're letting pain define your identity

Break free from cycles of blame and emotional immaturity

Invite God into your healing so you can grow and thrive in your marriage

Take responsibility for your mindset and respond differently in conflict

🎧 Free Resources:

👉 Download Five Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells and take our Marriage Assessment at greaterimpactwives.org

Change. Conflict. Courage. Three words every marriage faces—yet few couples know how to navigate them well.

In today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove dig deep into how courageous conversations can transform your marriage.

They unpack:

💬 Why "change" often leads to chaos and conflict

💬 How to talk about hard issues without blame or accusation

💬 The difference between being assertive vs aggressive

💬 Why logic—not emotion—solves problems

💬 How to stay open-minded, manage emotions, and build trust again

If you've ever thought, "I don't do conflict," this conversation will lovingly challenge that belief—and show you that healthy confrontation is actually the gateway to deeper intimacy and lasting change.

✨ Watch now to learn how courage, humility, and truth can heal your marriage from the inside out.

Welcome to What to Say and How to Say It, the podcast that helps Christian couples communicate better, resolve conflict, and build a thriving marriage rooted in faith.

In today's episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner talk about how accountability can heal your marriage — and how truth, grace, and humility can strengthen your relationship with your spouse and with God.

💡 Take the next step in your marriage:

👉 Download our FREE PDF: Five Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells

👉 Take your Free Marriage Assessment at greaterimpactwives.org

If you've been struggling with communication, trust, or emotional distance in your marriage, this episode will help you see how godly accountability leads to peace, healing, and deeper connection.

💖 Subscribe for more episodes on Christian marriage help, communication tips, and biblical wisdom for couples.

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