What do men really want from women once they hit midlife? The answers may surprise you. Spoiler: it's not about looks or grand gestures — it's about peace, safety, and partnership.

In this episode, Tony opens up about the five traits he craved after divorce, and Dr. Lisa breaks down why these traits create healthy, lasting relationships. Together, they share personal stories and practical insights that will inspire both men and women to see love through a fresh lens.

✨ In this episode:

• Why stability and peace are magnetic to men in midlife

• The importance of creating a safe emotional space

• How balanced leadership works without a power struggle

• Why shared growth and desires matter

• How flexibility (no rulebook) keeps love thriving

Tune in and discover how men see love differently after 40 — and how understanding these needs can transform your own relationship.

Introduction & Episode Overview (00:00:00) Dr. Lisa introduces the episode's focus: what men want from women in midlife relationships after divorce and heartbreak.

Tony's Interview Setup (00:00:26) Tony acknowledges he's being interviewed and doesn't know the questions in advance.

Podcast Welcome & Series Context (00:00:37) Hosts introduce themselves, the podcast, and explain this is part one of a two-part series.

Peace and Stability (00:01:51) Discussion on men valuing peace, stability, and a drama-free environment in midlife relationships.

Safe Space for Vulnerability (00:03:31) Exploring the importance of emotional safety and non-judgment for men to be vulnerable.

Balanced Leadership (00:05:02) Conversation about shared leadership roles and partnership dynamics in relationships.

Shared Growth and Desires (00:08:00) Emphasis on mutual growth, dreaming together, and encouraging each other's development.

Flexibility in Relationship Roles (00:10:42) Valuing flexibility over rigid gender roles, sharing responsibilities organically.

Recap of Key Traits (00:12:52) Summary of the five main traits men want: peace, safe space, balanced leadership, shared growth, and flexibility.

Reflection Challenge & Next Episode Teaser (00:14:48) Encouragement for listeners to reflect on these traits and preview of the next episode's focus on women's perspectives.

Community Invitation & Outro (00:15:34) Invitation to join the podcast community, subscribe, and follow on social media; closing remarks.