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What Are We? (Patreon Monologue)

What Are We? (Patreon Monologue)

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We unpack how “exclusive vibes without an agreement” let one person enjoy access while dodging the work of commitment, and we share a clear script and decision tree to end mixed signals. We draw firm lines on boundaries, couple privileges, and the difference between romance performance and real accountability.

• ambiguity as a tactic to avoid labels and responsibility
• exclusive routines without a clear agreement
• obligation versus fun and why labels feel risky
• practical boundaries on sleepovers, access and trips
• the “man dance” of performed intimacy without substance
• holiday pressure, social jealousy and non-breakups
• a direct script to define exclusivity and terms
• if it’s not yes, it’s no as a rule
• choosing a clean break over dating while attached
• self-audit on what accountability you are dodging

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