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We Are Out of Office

We Are Out of Office

By: Jayne Allen Writes and Nikki T
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 The high vibration podcast you know you need is here. Spend your "hour of power" with hosts Jayne Allen and Nikki T and what it looks like as a black woman to unplug, recharge, choose joy, and spend your hard earned free time living your best life ever. Focused on health, happiness, and healing, these two friends offer straightforward and often hilarious commentary about all things we do when we're not doing "that" anymore. So, get into this show and say it with us: "Get some one else to do it!" We are officially Out of Office.Copyright 2026 Jayne Allen Writes and Nikki T Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Social Sciences
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  • Episode 54 - The Radical Joy of Trusting the Process

    Episode 54 - The Radical Joy of Trusting the Process
    Mar 6 2026
    In this week’s episode of We Are Out of Office, co-hosts Veteran Television Executive Producer Nikki T and Bestselling Author Jayne Allen return from a brief hiatus — truly out of office — reflecting on travel, geography, healing, and the lessons that appear when you slow down long enough to see them.Jayne shares insights from a week spent between Los Angeles, Palo Alto, and Stanford, including a striking realization after meeting an Uber driver who moved to Silicon Valley through the green card lottery: sometimes success isn’t just about talent or effort — sometimes it’s geography. Being in the right environment, surrounded by people who believe in ideas, can change the trajectory of what’s possible.Meanwhile Nikki reflects on a packed week in Los Angeles celebrating Black excellence — from producing a Hollywood Confidential fireside chat with legendary actress Loretta Devine to attending celebrations surrounding the NAACP Image Awards, including honoring powerhouse creator Mara Brock Akil.From culture and creativity to healing and entrepreneurship, the conversation explores what it means to keep moving forward — even when you’re still figuring things out.I See You GirlJayne honors Susan L. Taylor, the legendary former Essence editor-in-chief whose “In the Spirit” column shaped generations of Black women. A recent interview reminded Jayne of Taylor’s powerful message: you already have everything you need for this journey — even the moments when you lose your way.Nikki spotlights Wilglory Tanjong, founder of luxury handbag brand Anima Iris, who has launched a bold social campaign asking billionaire philanthropist MacKenzie Scott to invest $1 billion into 1,000 Black women founders. The numbers behind Black women entrepreneurship are undeniable — yet the venture capital funding gap remains staggering.What We’re On Right NowNikki shares how somatic exercises have become part of her healing routine while navigating grief. These small, intentional movements help regulate the nervous system and release stress stored in the body.Jayne breaks down the surprisingly simple routine behind her ongoing body recomposition journey, including daily eggs for complete protein, intermittent fasting, and consistent movement. Her takeaway: sometimes transformation isn’t about extreme measures — it’s about trusting the process and staying consistent.Mindin’ My Black BusinessJayne highlights Genesis House in Sedona, a beautiful Black woman–owned wellness estate created by Genesis Lafourcade. The retreat blends sound healing, yoga, restorative practices, and intentional design into a luxury healing experience.Nikki sends New York listeners on assignment: visit Marquette Restaurant in Chelsea, a Caribbean fine-dining concept by Michelin-starred chef India Doris that deserves far more attention from food lovers and creators alike.Jesus Take the WheelNikki introduces the internet’s newest relationship horror story: “Alpine Divorce.”The viral term describes people who take their partner on a hike or into nature… and abandon them there instead of simply communicating that the relationship is over.The hosts have questions. Many questions.Health & HealingNikki reflects on learning to live in what she calls the liminal space — the hallway between the life you’ve left behind and the life you’re building next. It’s uncomfortable, uncertain, and often where the most important growth happens.Jayne shares a powerful memory of hearing Iyanla Vanzant speak at Agape during a difficult transition in her own life — and the message that stayed with her: sometimes the darkness of the well is preparation for what comes next.Both hosts reflect on the challenge — and the radical joy — of trusting the process even when the outcome isn’t visible yet.What’s GoodJayne introduces listeners to rising neo-soul artist Johnny Burgos, whose smooth sound blends 90s soul with modern R&B.Nikki celebrates Michael B. Jordan and the cast of Sinners winning at the SAG Awards, adding momentum to the film’s powerful awards-season run.Final WordJayne’s closing reminder: Show love anyway.Nikki’s reflection: Sometimes the universe asks you to find peace where you are before it moves you forward.📩 Questions or comments? Email us: weareoutofofficepod@gmail.comFollow us: YouTube, Instagram & TikTok: @weareoutofofficepod🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe and share it with someone who might need a reminder that sometimes the biggest breakthroughs begin in the in-between — when you learn to trust the process.Show Links: Wilglory Tanjong x MacKenzie Scott!Susan L. Taylor Has Always Been That "IT" WomanSomatic Exercises w. The Workout WitchMarkette Restaurant ReviewThe Jenesis House in Sedona, ArizonaAlpine Divorce?!? Brooklyn's Daniel Burgos Gives us NeoSoul Jamiroquai Meets Justin Timberlake
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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • Episode 53 - The Radical Joy of Taking Accountability

    Episode 53 - The Radical Joy of Taking Accountability
    Feb 21 2026

    In this week’s Episode 53 of We Are Out of Office, co-hosts Veteran Television Executive Producer Nikki T and Bestselling Author Jayne Allen clock in with a joy-fueled, culture-first episode that moves from unhinged internet hilarity to a real conversation about accountability, healing, and the cost of “just going along to get along.”

    The ladies kick things off celebrating the chaotic brilliance of Threads (because Black History Month online is truly a different universe), then shout out their recent first-ever interview episode with Candice Marie—the woman behind the viral vertical series “Your Type Might Be the Korean Barista Who Don’t Speak English.” If you haven’t watched Episode 52 yet, they make the case: it’s a must.

    From there, it’s I See You, Girl time: Jayne spotlights Alexis Barber and her real-world “alignment edit” experience blending ambition, community, and goals—while Nikki celebrates Charm La’Donna, the powerhouse choreographer/creative director behind major halftime show moments (The Weeknd, Kendrick, Beyoncé Bowl, and Bad Bunny).

    Then the episode turns—Jesus Take the Wheel is supersized this week. Nikki breaks down why the America’s Next Top Model Netflix documentary stirred up real anger: the show shaped a generation, but the harm was real—and she’s calling out the difference between “it was a different time” and true ownership. Jayne adds her own lens, unpacking a viral roundtable clash as a case study in generational trauma, emotional triggering, and what happens when accountability shows up without safety or context.

    In Health & Healing, both hosts get personal: Nikki reflects on moments she stayed silent in non-melanated spaces to feel “chosen,” and Jayne speaks on growth, past relationship patterns, and the journey of reclaiming full humanity beyond checklists. The through-line is clear: healing requires truth—but truth also needs space.

    They wrap with what’s good (including an athlete shutting down a ridiculous interview question) and Jayne’s joyful Detroit love letter: the Wright Museum social content is giving mockumentary brilliance and Black culture excellence.

    Final Word: “Own it.”

    Questions? Comments? Email us at: weareoutofofficepod@gmail.com or Follow us on TikTok and Instagram at: @weareoutofofficepod

    Show Links:

    Charm La’Donna Interview w. The Grio

    The Real Origins of Betty Boop

    Darnell Davis The Wig Engineer

    Eileen Gu, the most decorated female free skier, claps back!

    Actor Clifton Powell Takes Accountability But Is Interrupted

    Airbnb Does Experiences - Life Edit with Alexis Barber in NYC
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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Episode 52 - The Radical Joy of Not Waiting for Permission (Interview with Candice Marie of @ShyGirlsFly)

    Episode 52 - The Radical Joy of Not Waiting for Permission (Interview with Candice Marie of @ShyGirlsFly)
    Feb 13 2026

    In this week’s Interview Episode of We Are Out of Office, your co-hosts Veteran Television Executive Producer (The Night Agent) Nikki T and Bestselling Author Jayne Allen (Black Girls Must...trilogy) welcome their first-ever guest, Candice Smith (Candice Marie)—the creator behind the wildly popular vertical solo series: “Your Type is the Korean Barista Who Don’t Speak English.” If you’ve been on the timeline, you’ve seen the slow-burn, real-life K-drama unfolding in public—and yes, we’re just as seated as you are. (“If you know, you know.”)

    But this conversation goes beyond the café.

    Candice takes us all the way back—sharing how she first moved to Korea in 2005, what it was like to build a life overseas, and how she’s turned her lived experience into a platform and business helping others move abroad through Shy Girls Fly. She breaks down the difference between leaving to escape and leaving to choose joy, and why many of us don’t realize how much freedom is available on the other side of fear.

    A major theme lands with clarity: permission isn’t something you receive—it’s something you decide. Candice shares a line that stopped us in our tracks:

    “No one gave me permission… they just didn’t give me limits. So I allowed myself.” (00:41:48–00:42:32)

    The conversation moves through community, dating, self-trust, and cultural contrast—especially what it feels like as a Black woman to be in environments where you’re not required to constantly prove your worth. Candice reflects on how energy changes when you’re not spending your life convincing people you’re capable—how that frees you to create, build, and live expansively.

    This episode is about:

    1. Not waiting to be chosen—choosing yourself
    2. The courage it takes to move without consensus
    3. Why transition can hurt even when it’s your dream
    4. Building community abroad (especially among Black women)
    5. A real-time reminder that Black women deserve soft, intentional love—and full lives

    They close with a powerful image: when you stop waiting for permission and take the leap anyway, you may find yourself on the other side in “a whole garden” of freedom, acceptance, and possibility. (01:07:27–01:08:39)

    Find Candice on Social Media:

    @ShyGirlsFly on TikTok

    @ShyGirlsFly on Instagram

    And on the Web:

    www.ShyGirlsFly.com

    Questions? Comments? Email us at: weareoutofofficepod@gmail.com or Follow us on TikTok and Instagram at: @weareoutofofficepod
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    1 hr and 11 mins
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