Episodes

  • 12: Consider This My Christmas Gift

    12: Consider This My Christmas Gift
    Dec 24 2025
    I answered your questions and overshared on purpose — you’re welcome 😌🎄

    This episode is my Christmas gift to you 🎄🦄
    No lessons. No fixing. Just me — answering your questions, oversharing a little, laughing a lot, and letting you actually get to know the woman behind Unicorns Do Exist.

    It’s honest, flirty, funny, and slightly unhinged in the best way.
    Grab a drink, get comfy, and hang out with me for 45 minutes.

    You’re welcome. 😉

    Thank you to @pricklyberry.com for Sponsoring this Episode


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    39 mins
  • 11: Everything Happens for a Reason (Even This Mess)

    11: Everything Happens for a Reason (Even This Mess)
    Dec 18 2025
    In this episode, Vanessa shares the full story of her Mexico City trip — the good, the bad, and the not-so-funny-but-somehow-still-funny parts life likes to throw in when you least expect it.

    What starts as a trip rooted in faith, intention, and joy quickly turns into missed plans, chaos, emotional spirals, and an unexpected loss that puts everything into perspective. Vanessa opens up about grief, missing home, motherhood, heartbreak, and what it feels like when life humbles you in real time.

    This episode is dedicated to her friend Rob — a beautiful soul, a jokester, and the kind of person who showed up for others and quite literally left this world laughing.

    It’s honest. It’s messy. It’s emotional.
    And it’s a reminder that healing isn’t linear, plans fall apart, and being alive is still the biggest blessing of all.

    Listen if you’ve ever laughed through pain, cried through gratitude, or tried to find meaning without forcing it.

    🦄 @Unicornsdoexistpod Come Say Hi
    Tacos, Beer & Lucha Libre Take a trip
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    40 mins
  • 10: ✨ Starting Over Like It’s a Hobby ✨

    10: ✨ Starting Over Like It’s a Hobby ✨
    Dec 10 2025
    If you’re starting over right now — by choice or because life snatched the rug from under you — this episode is your sign.
    Not the soft, gentle kind… the “get up, Doll, your glow-up is calling” kind. ✨😈

    We’re talking:
    🔥 healing after heartbreak
    🔥 starting over as a single mom
    🔥 getting fired and rebuilding
    🔥 reinventing yourself when life falls apart
    🔥 letting go of who you were to become who you’re meant to be
    🔥 the messy, chaotic, magical reality of a REAL fresh start

    This is the episode for anyone googling “how to start over,” scrolling TikTok for healing videos, or secretly wondering if their life is falling apart or falling into place.

    Spoiler: it’s falling into place.

    I’m sharing my own plot twists — divorce, being cheated on, moving out with my son at 9 months old, losing my job on maternity leave, rebuilding my career from scratch, and traveling more this year than I ever did in my old life.

    Why?
    Because starting over isn’t embarrassing.
    It’s evolution.
    It’s your rebirth arc.
    It’s the part of the movie where the main character (you, Doll) stands back up… stronger, hotter, wiser, and probably with better boundaries. 😉

    If you’re in your comeback era, your healing era, your “I refuse to settle” era…
    you need this episode.

    🎧 Tune in now and step into the version of you that’s been waiting on the other side of fear. Your fresh start begins here.

    Follow the podcast on IG: @unicornsdoexistpod
    And hit follow on Spotify Or Apple Podcast so you never miss an episode. ✨
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    23 mins
  • 9: When Choosing You Makes You the Villain (Good.)

    9: When Choosing You Makes You the Villain (Good.)
    Dec 3 2025
    Step into your villain era, Doll — the era where you stop shrinking, stop apologizing, and stop carrying relationships, friendships, and dynamics that drain the life out of you.
    This episode of Unicorns Do Exist is for the woman who’s tired of being the “nice girl,” exhausted from people-pleasing, and so done abandoning herself just to be liked.
    Inside this episode, we dive into:
    ✨ How choosing yourself triggers people (and why that’s a good thing)
    ✨ The shift from victim mentality to main-character energy
    ✨ Dark feminine power + self-trust
    ✨ The freedom that comes with letting people think whatever they want
    ✨ Why your “villain era” is actually your rebirth

    If you’ve been craving a podcast that mixes self-love, shadow work, confidence, healing, and a little dark humor with Latina sass… Doll, you just found your show.

    You’re not being mean.
    You’re not being dramatic.
    You’re not being selfish.
    You’re finally choosing YOU — and that’s what unleashes your power.

    🎧 Hit play.
    🌪️ Step into your villain era.
    🦄 And when you’re done, send me a unicorn so I know you’re listening.
    @unicornsdoexistpod

    And because magic moves fast around here…
    I just dropped a brand-new 7-Day Dark Feminine eBook in my Stand Store — the perfect companion to this episode and the “Damn Unicorn Magic” episode.
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    27 mins
  • 8: Multicultural & Unapologetic: Why Your Identity Is Your Superpower

    8: Multicultural & Unapologetic: Why Your Identity Is Your Superpower
    Nov 26 2025
    In today’s episode of Unicorns Do Exist, we’re welcoming our very first guest — and trust me, she’s a full-blown unicorn in human form. ✨

    Meet Urmi: an Italian-Bengali powerhouse living in Montreal, a corporate finance pro, mentor, blogger, YouTuber, self-published author, speaker, and the co-chair of Women in Leadership. Yeah… sis showed up with ALL the titles and ALL the magic.

    Together, we dive into the beauty and challenges of growing up multicultural, finding your identity when you never felt like you fully “fit,” and turning that exact feeling into your superpower.

    We talk self-discovery, growth, authenticity, and why women who refuse to shrink become the most powerful versions of themselves. This episode feels like sitting with two amigas who have lived a thousand lives and are finally choosing themselves.

    If you’ve ever felt “too different,” “too much,” or like you don’t belong anywhere — this one is your love note. 💜

    ✨ Listen now and discover why your uniqueness is your greatest magic.
    ✨ Follow us on Instagram: @unicornsdoexistpod
    ✨ Share this episode with a friend who needs to remember her sparkle.
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    44 mins
  • 7: Dark Unicorn Energy: The Side of You They Never Expected

    7: Dark Unicorn Energy: The Side of You They Never Expected
    Nov 19 2025
    Doll… if you’ve been acting like a cute little glitter unicorn but deep down you know you’ve got claws? Yeah. This episode is for you.

    Today we’re getting into the Dark Feminine — the part of you that doesn’t chase, doesn’t beg, doesn’t negotiate, and definitely doesn’t deal with bare-minimum energy.

    I’m teaching you how to step into your power as a high-value woman, how to command a room without raising your voice, and how to shift from “pick-me energy” to big, undeniable, magnetic energy.

    Get ready, Doll.
    Your inner Dark Unicorn is waking up… and once she comes out, there’s no going back.

    🎧 Listen now before your future self drags you by the hair for missing this.
    Follow us at     @unicornsdoexistpod
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    42 mins
  • 6: Unicorns Don’t Ghost — They Reconnect 💜

    6: Unicorns Don’t Ghost — They Reconnect 💜
    Nov 12 2025
    Ever wonder how to fall back in love with the person sleeping next to you? 🫣
    In this episode, I dive into “Mating in Captivity” by Esther Perel — and what it really takes to keep the spark alive in long-term relationships.

    We’re talking emotional connection, desire after chaos, rebuilding trust, and how to bring back that “I want you” energy — even after life, kids, or heartbreak tried to kill the vibe. 😅

    Whether you’re healing from infidelity, trying to reignite passion, or just tired of feeling like roommates with your partner… this one’s for you. 💜

    Because love isn’t about finding someone new — it’s about seeing the magic again in the one you already have. ✨

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    36 mins
  • 5: You’re Not a Saint — You’re Just Scared

    5: You’re Not a Saint — You’re Just Scared
    Nov 5 2025
    Let’s get one thing straight — staying in a relationship just to look like the “nice one” isn’t selfless, it’s self-sabotage. 💅

    In this episode, Vanessa calls out the truth we all avoid: sometimes we hide behind kindness because we’re too scared to face the unknown. We tell ourselves we’re staying to protect someone, when really, we’re just protecting our own ego.

    Yes — there are exceptions. If your partner is sick, if they physically need your care, that’s love and loyalty. But staying because you think they’ll crumble without you? That’s not compassion. That’s control wrapped in fear.

    Vanessa breaks down how to stop playing the martyr, start honoring your truth, and finally walk away from what no longer serves your growth. Inspired by the teachings of Esther Perel and Abraham Hicks, this episode is your permission slip to stop calling suffering “love” and start choosing alignment.

    💭 Because you’re not doing anyone a favor by staying small — including yourself.
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    26 mins