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Understanding How Sexual Offenders Manipulate Victims, Families, and Communities

Understanding How Sexual Offenders Manipulate Victims, Families, and Communities

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 This is the first of a two-part episode featuring Dr. Veronique Valliere, unpacking the behavioral patterns behind interpersonal violence and the mindset offenders rely on to avoid detection.About Dr. Veronique Valliere: Dr. Veronique Valliere is a licensed psychologist with over 30 years of experience in clinical and forensic psychology, recognized nationally and internationally as an expert witness, author, and educator in the field of interpersonal violence. She has trained the military, the FBI, the Department of Justice, and other major agencies, and has presented and testified both across the country and abroad, including before the U.S. Congress and in the Bill Cosby sexual assault trial. As the President and Clinical & Forensic Psychologist at Valliere & Counseling Associates, Inc., she specializes in behavioral analysis, risk assessment, domestic violence, and the treatment of violent offenders and their victims. Her work has been featured in outlets such as The New York Times, The Atlantic, PBS NewsHour, and CBS This Morning, and she is the author of multiple books, including Understanding Victims of Interpersonal Violence and Unmasking the Sexual Offender.In this episode, Ben, Jennifer, and Dr. Veronique Valliere discuss:Offender dynamics and the covert nature of sexual violenceGrooming patterns that manipulate victims, families, and entire communitiesPsychological distortions that offenders rely on to justify abuseBarriers to accountability and why juries and systems often misunderstand victim behaviorKey Takeaways:Sexual abuse typically occurs within trusted relationships, where offenders leverage emotional access, secrecy, and intimate knowledge of a victim’s vulnerabilities to facilitate covert offending.Grooming involves far more than kindness or gifts—offenders systematically violate boundaries, manipulate family dynamics, and even shape community narratives to pre-discredit the child.Many offenders derive sexual gratification not from the act itself but from control, manipulation, fantasy, and the ability to maintain a self-image of being “a good person,” which makes dismantling these distortions essential in treatment.Victims’ reactions—such as loyalty, affection, silence, or returning to the abuser—are predictable results of grooming, yet juries still expect “real victims” to behave in unrealistic ways, often harming legitimate cases. "When the allegations do come out, they’re not believed….[because] there's a grooming of not only the victim but the community that we often overlook." — Dr. Veronique ValliereConnect with Dr. Veronique Valliere: Website: https://www.vallierecounseling.com/Email: drvalliere@vallierecounseling.comBook: Unmasking the Sexual Offender: www.routledge.com/Unmasking-the-Sexual-Offender/Valliere/p/book/9780367741242LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/veronique-valliere-b088a73aFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063498971252Connect with Ben Andreozzi: Website: https://www.victimscivilattorneys.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AndreozziandFoote/videosLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/andreozziandfoote/X/Twitter: https://x.com/AndreozziFooteFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndreozziFoote/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreozziandfoote/Connect with Jennifer Storm:Website: https://jenniferstorm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackoutgirlauthor/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JenniferStormAuthor/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXAP8AOfFrlRq-DYCLBSYbAAudio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.
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