Why are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emotional disconnection, and missing relational skills.

We talk about:

• why being unbed is not the same as being an incel, and why that distinction matters
• how shame, social skill gaps, and emotional shutdown make sex feel inaccessible
• why many men chase sex when what they are really craving is connection
• how neurodivergence and the absence of male friendship intensify isolation
• where the manosphere reflects real pain, and where it pushes men further from intimacy

Listen in for a direct, to-the-point conversation about why sex feels so out of reach for many men, and what actually helps build connection, confidence, and intimacy.

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