This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their fangs into a topic every lifestyle couple needs to hear—how to step up your game in and out of the bedroom. From first impressions that make her decide “yes” or “no” in ten seconds flat, to why looking like you “phoned it in” could cost you more than a date, the hosts share playful but practical advice for both husbands and wives on standing out for all the right reasons. With cheeky metaphors and plenty of flirty banter, they remind vampires that authenticity, effort, and a little polish go a long way toward making connections—and earning repeat invitations. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned swinger, this episode proves that with a few tweaks, you can go from being a commodity to an unforgettable brand… and maybe even become the one everyone wants to sink their teeth into.

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(00:00:00) Top Tips for Lifestyle Husbands

(00:02:33) It feels like some men just phone it in

(00:04:42) A thought experiment

(00:06:33) Lack of care in appearance may carry into the bedroom

(00:08:05) It only takes 10 seconds for her to decide it’s a ‘no’

(00:10:25) You may develop a reputation…make it a good one!

(00:11:26) Being a product vs a commodity

(00:14:02) Spider monkey

(00:15:21) What is a brand and where do you convey (explain, portray)

(00:18:35) First impressions and attractions

(00:20:56) Attracting attention and being authentic

(00:23:48) Authenticity can be scary

(00:26:21) Real people make the lifestyle more rewarding

(00:28:40) Showing your authentic self can take time for various reasons

(00:32:15) Performance and improving your skills

(00:36:33) Being responsive is a skill and is easier with an expressive partner

(00:42:50) Why we created Two Plus Two

(00:48:29) Your ticket to having more fun

(00:50:13) The homework assignment

(00:52:34) Small tweaks may produce better results

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In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into nine of the most common myths about the swinging lifestyle. From the idea that swingers are just “sex-obsessed commitment-phobes” to the belief that every event is one giant orgy, the hosts pull back the velvet curtain and reveal what really happens when vampires come out to play. With humor, honesty, and a few cheeky double takes, they bust misconceptions that scare off the curious and confuse the vanillas. Whether you’re a newbie, considering the lifestyle, or just love a good myth-busting session, this episode proves that swinging isn’t all about sex—it’s about connection, communication, and maybe just a little bit of delicious mischief.

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(00:00:00) Swingers and baby oil

(00:02:05) Myth One: Swingers are just sex obsessed people who can’t commit

(00:03:45) Maybe we’re just more open about sex

(00:05:54) We commit to exploring our sexuality

(00:08:52) We can see why vanillas believe this myth

(00:10:32) Myth Two: Swinging is just cheating with permission

(00:14:26) Myth Three: Swinger events are just wild sex orgies

(00:17:04) The image vs the reality

(00:20:56) Playroom etiquette and orgies

(00:22:50) Myth Four: Once you swing your relationship is doomed

(00:24:43) You can try the lifestyle and later change your mind

(00:26:41) The lifestyle can mean different things to different people

(00:28:59) Myth Five: Women are pressured into the lifestyle to please their husbands

(00:31:42) Men may be more likely to bring the topic up

(00:34:52) It gave the women permission to explore the idea

(00:37:25) Success in the lifestyle is all about your resources

(00:39:47) Myth Six: Swingers will hit on you anywhere

(00:41:11) Every swinger needs a ‘how we met’ cover story

(00:45:48) How vanillas react when they find out you’re swingers

(00:46:23) Myth Seven: Swinging is only for couples

(00:47:57) Myth Eight: Swingers are never jealous or insecure

(00:51:36) What we’re thinking as we look around in a group of swingers

(00:53:36) Missed opportunities occur with lack of communication

(00:54:32) Why this misconception may exist

(00:55:12) Myth Nine: The lifestyle is all about sex

(00:57:41) If it’s not all about sex, what is it about?

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In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into the playful, pulse-quickening art of flirting in the lifestyle. From subtle glances to sizzling banter, the foursome shares their favorite ways to spark interest—whether one-on-one or as a perfectly in-sync team. They explore the idea of a “flirt language” and how it compares to love languages, all while keeping that all-important four-way chemistry alive. With tips on mirroring your partner, striking while the iron’s hot, and blending business-savvy confidence with bedroom charm, these sexy vampires prove that flirting isn’t just foreplay—it’s a skill worth mastering. Plus, they bite into the pros and cons of teasing over text versus turning up the heat in person.

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(00:00:00) Anticipation of what may cum

(00:04:01) Flirting ‘techniques’

(00:07:10) Giving compliments without an agenda

(00:12:24) Flirting in your love language…that wasn’t the question

(00:15:33) Being flirted with in the way you flirt with others

(00:18:59) Flirting is tedious to a degree

(00:20:07) Flirting as an individual while keeping the four way connection in mind

(00:21:47) Dynamics of flirting in the lifestyle as couples

(00:23:55) When the women start things it’s easier for the men

(00:26:06) Mirror your partner’s actions

(00:28:19) Girls are flirting, but your partner’s not interested

(00:30:11) Tag team flirting…it’s an art

(00:33:49) The lifestyle is very similar to business

(00:36:32) There are lots of ways to approach the lifestyle

(00:39:57) Playing to our strengths to create opportunities

(00:44:08) Assertiveness plays a role and is situational

(00:49:34) Striking while the iron is hot

(00:52:08) Flirting over text vs in person

(00:56:00) Takeaways

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In this week’s steamy episode, your favorite sexy vampires — Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany — sink their teeth into a spirited conversation about booze, buzzes, and bedroom bites. From liquid courage to THC-tinged tingles, they bare all about how their drinking and indulging habits have evolved over time. The coven shares tales of blurry playdates they wish they could sink their fangs into again (if only they could remember them), the shame hangovers that bite harder than any hickey, and the sweet spot between loosening up and losing control.

They debate the seductive dangers of “beer goggles,” sip on their differences over whether next-morning regrets are really regrets at all, and dish out bite-sized tips for keeping your pleasure high without going off the deep end. Whether you’re a teetotaler or a tipsy temptress, this episode is a potent cocktail of honesty, humor, and just enough bite to leave you thirsty for more.

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(00:00:00) It’s just social lubrication

(00:01:46) Our alcohol consumption has ebbed and flowe d

(00:04:28) Relying on a substance to enjoy the lifestyle

(00:05:13) It can help slow racing thoughts

(00:05:59) Not remembering things due to consumption

(00:07:24) No one wants to be ‘that guy’

(00:09:16) Guilt and shame associated with drinking too much

(00:12:46) There is a place for alcohol in the lifestyle

(00:14:24) Brad’s dance juice

(00:17:05) Is ‘needing’ alcohol okay?

(00:18:17) Personal boundaries for consumption

(00:21:28) Using CBD and THC for social anxiety

(00:23:31) Some our best sex has been on THC

(00:27:03) How much is too much?

(00:31:12) Stopping yourself when you start to feel it

(00:35:01) Consent can be tricky when alcohol is involved

(00:37:46) Interacting with people who are under the influence

(00:40:54) Getting out of Mommy Mode

(00:42:00) Keeping sex top of mind may keep consumption low

(00:44:25) Image and opinions when you drink too much or don’t drink at all

(00:46:30) Strategies for staying hydrated and drinking less

(00:47:43) Picking play partners with your beer goggles on

(00:51:22) To regret or not to regret?

(00:54:49) Takeaways

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Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany bare their feelings and share their experiences in this episode all about the fine art of letting your partner know you’d like a taste—without sinking your teeth in too deep. They tackle the tricky balance of sharing just how interested you are in a potential play partner, while keeping things sweet, sexy, and respectful for your life partner.

Is it better to spill your level of thirst up front, or does that just stir up trouble? Should you play it cool or let your excitement show? And how does that honesty land differently for him versus her? The Two Plus Two Crew unwraps how they navigate these sticky moments—where sharing can build trust or accidentally bruise an ego.

They get vulnerable as they discuss: Do you even know how much you’re into someone if you’ve only sized them up from across the bar? Does your partner’s vibe turn your heat up—or cool you down? And what happens when someone’s just a little too eager to pounce?

Pour a drink, sharpen those fangs, and join your favorite vampires as they reveal how they keep communication flowing, the jealousy at bay, and the spark alive—without ever crossing the line from flirty to fatal.

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(00:00:00) Fuckable or not

(00:02:42) It’s just a code word

(00:04:35) Brad considers Brittany’s potential interest first

(00:06:16) What is an appropriate level of interest to communicate to your partner?

(00:09:01) Being too excited can turn your partner off

(00:12:29) Does your partner’s interest influence your personal choice?

(00:15:25) Does your partner’s interest in someone turn you on or off?

(00:18:37) Why don’t we have more transparency?

(00:21:58) Creating comparisons and feeling insecure

(00:24:29) Expressing a high level of interest can be a positive

(00:27:57) Never say, ‘hell yes’

(00:30:26) A new strategy!

(00:32:39) We continue to evolve

(00:38:14) Does sharing your level of interest matter?

(00:40:45) ‘Rating’ scales can be useful

(00:43:21) Connect with us online and in person

(00:45:44) This conversation has been illuminating

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Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany bare it all—again—in this deliciously unexpected tale of how one round of Yay, Nay, May or Oh, I’ve Played turned into Josie’s first taste of girl-on-girl fun. Your favorite vampires spill every juicy detail about how a couple of espresso martinis, a few lemon drops, and four best friends in a flirtatious mood brewed up the perfect concoction for a night of naughtiness no one saw coming—especially Josie, who’s always been adamant she was only into men.

When the fangs came out and the clothes came off, everyone found themselves feasting on the moment, savoring a completely surreal play session so organic and electric it rocketed straight to the top of their all-time naughty list. For once, even Zack’s mind stopped spinning long enough for him to soak it all in—every moan, every bite, every surprise twist.

So pour yourself a martini (or three) and listen in as the Two Plus Two Crew relives the night Josie discovered how fun a little girl-on-girl action —with the right woman can be. After all, when vampires mix martinis with mischief, no one’s safe from temptation.

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(00:00:00) A little teaser…

(00:01:29) Flashback to a conversation we had before we recorded our last episode

(00:03:03) Back to the present…

(00:04:32) Espresso and lemon drop martinis…the magic combo for naughtiness

(00:06:09) That’s when her clothes came off

(00:08:30) It turned into a M.A.S.H. unit triage

(00:09:19) It just felt organic

(00:10:18) We were like the Three Stooges running around setting things up

(00:12:39) Brittany goes down on Josie

(00:15:06) Sunday Fun Day

(00:17:17) Zack’s role in Josie’s experience was very surreal

(00:19:39) Why it worked even though it was not a decision we made together

(00:20:53) What just happened?

(00:21:45) I was almost as surprised as you!

(00:23:19) Best foursome by definition I’ve ever had

(00:25:34) It was all gas, no brakes

(00:28:11) I know what to do with this

(00:29:20) There’s one more thing

(00:30:32) What does this mean for me?

(00:31:53) Vampire evolution

(00:33:59) There doesn’t have to be a label on it

(00:35:06) What the lifestyle is all about [for Zack and Josie]

(00:37:11) When your motives for getting in may be selfish

(00:39:13) A different kind of growth

(00:42:25) Breaking the seal

(00:45:22) I made you squeal

(00:46:19) Zack’s big ‘O’ and Brittany’s booty

(00:48:46) Sometimes we get in our own way(00:50:13) Being structured vs go with the flow

(00:55:32) What makes going ‘off script’ work

(00:56:25) From our listeners

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(00:58:46) Parting thoughts on our impromptu play session

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Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into another juicy topic—friendship. In this episode, your favorite swingers share all the complexities that come with lifestyle friendships—from the deep, delicious bonds that form when playmates become true friends to the challenges that level of closeness can create.

They discuss whether it’s hotter to unwrap new treats or savor familiar bites. They tease apart whether playing with friends keeps the sparks flying or risks making those late nights feel like déjà screw. From sexy secrets to group getaways, they swap stories about making memories on the road—and in the sheets—without limiting opportunities for new play experiences.

But even the undead aren’t immune to heartbreak. The Two Plus Two Crew opens up about losing a close lifestyle friend and why those goodbyes can cut deeper than fangs ever could. So pour a glass, cozy up, and let these four remind you why, in the vampire coven of swinging, friends really do come first.

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(00:00:00) Does friendship enhance or hinder the play experience?

(00:04:21) Play experiences shouldn’t feel repetitive…we’re not poly

(00:08:35) We don’t have sex all the time, but spoiler alert…when we do, it’s fucking hot

(00:09:10) Some relationships are deeper, more authentic

(00:13:02) Are close relationships a double edged sword?

(00:15:47) What makes a sexual relationship a FWB relationship?(00:18:57) Keeping friendships sexy

(00:22:27) Lifestyle trips with friends and debriefing in the Sapphire Lounge

(00:27:09) Vampire reunions at Desire

(00:31:43) Challenges with traveling or going as a group

(00:36:21) Receiving judgment from your friends

(00:39:29) Communicating and setting expectations

(00:42:48) Connect with us on Peaches’nCream: Invite code 2plus2

(00:43:53) Vulnerability, trust and deep relationships

(00:47:51) The devastation of losing a close friend

(00:50:12) The naked girl at The Sweet Spot

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The vampires are back for another bite of bold truths and tantalizing tales in Round Two of “Yay, Nay, May, or Oh, I’ve Played.” This time, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into an even naughtier menu of topics—sex swings, butt plugs, hair pulling, ball gags, flogging, virtual hookups, public escapades, and glory holes. No kink is safe and no secret stays buried for long.

Fueled by Josie’s dangerously delicious espresso martinis—swiftly followed by a round of lemon drops (aka “truth serum”)—Brittany is in rare, unfiltered form, letting the confessions fly and dragging the rest of the crew right into the tease. Between bursts of laughter and a few jaw-dropping reveals, these vampires discover that a well-timed cocktail can turn a hard ‘nay’ into a very eager ‘yay.’

Expect unexpected switches, sultry surprises, and a few spicy schemes that have Zack and Brad reconsidering their safe words. From playful spanks to public peeks, this episode is dripping with double meanings and delightfully dirty details that might just inspire listeners to find a swing—or a flogger—of their own.

Naughty, nosy, and deliciously unfiltered—just the way these vampires like it. Sink your teeth in and see where you land: yay, nay, may… or oh, you’ve played.

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(00:00:00) Round Two! Will it be as popular as the first?

(00:02:16) Sex swings…thanks for the espresso martini!

(00:08:04) Sex, errrr, I mean yoga chairs

(00:11:23) Butt plugs…I stuck a finger up your ass and you didn’t like it

(00:18:16) Hair pulling…I like it rough

(00:22:26) Ball gags…bring out the Gimp!

(00:27:37) A rabbit hole about flogging

(00:34:00) Josie’s fantasy about St. Andrews Cross changes the boys’ answers

(00:40:46) Virtual sex and recording play sessions

(00:48:06) Public sex in playrooms; voyeurism and exhibitionism

(00:54:48) Glory holes

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