This week, the Two Plus Two Crew gets real about one of the lifestyle’s biggest questions — can swinging actually make your relationship stronger?

Zack and Josie open up about what it was like being in the lifestyle during their previous marriages — how they got into it, where things went wrong, and what they’ve learned since. They share how, through their evolution in the lifestyle together, their marriage has grown through honesty, vulnerability, and countless deep conversations about what truly matters.

Brad and Brittany bring their own experiences to the table, sharing insecurities and insights that couples everywhere can relate to. Together, the crew explores how men and women often see the lifestyle through different lenses — and how those differences can either pull you apart or bring you closer.

From trust and transparency to authenticity and acceptance, they reveal how the lifestyle can strengthen your bond — if you’re willing to put in the work (and maybe bare a little more than just your bodies).

Because when you can show up fully as yourself — love yourself — and be loved for it, that’s when your relationship truly comes alive.

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(00:00:00) Lifestyle 1.0 didn’t go so well

(00:03:08) Josie was pressured into getting into the lifestyle

(00:05:33) Zack and his wife at the time were both in agreement to try it

(00:09:39) Brad’s first brush with the lifestyle

(00:11:02) We found other swingers on Craigslist

(00:12:41) We weren’t in supportive marriages

(00:14:26) The intimacy wasn’t like it is for us now

(00:15:48) I feel more drawn to Josie than I am to you

(00:18:23) Keeping things from going down a wrong path

(00:20:14) We feared the lifestyle for a long time

(00:22:32) Lifestyle 2.0 is much better

(00:25:50) We know what it feels like to catch feelings

(00:27:41) Trust and open communication helps your relationship grow

(00:28:27) Friends with benefits vs one and done

(00:30:14) Strong couples make playing more comfortable for the girls

(00:33:56) How the lifestyle benefits your relationship

(00:36:04) Men’s brains and women’s brains are very different

(00:40:50) Revealing all of yourself to your partner

(00:42:57) Lifestyle related arguments help you dig deep

(00:45:11) Your partner helps give you confidence to be yourself

(00:47:17) Supporting your partner

(00:49:18) Trust is small promises kept repeatedly over time

(00:54:02) We’re able to work through things faster now

(00:55:39) If you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right

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This week, the Two Plus Two Crew is back together, and things are getting deliciously crowded. Brad and Brittany are fully in their element, fresh from a steamy mountain takeover weekend with 16 lifestyle friends and plenty of spicy stories to share. Meanwhile, Zack and Josie open up about a night they didn’t see coming: their first threesome and a group play twist that left their hearts racing and pulses quickening.

From Brittany’s shibari fantasy coming to life to the electric thrill of meeting new play partners and feeling that spark catch fire, this episode dives deep into the sexy, messy, and unforgettable moments that make group play so intoxicating.

Consider this your invitation to the after-dark gathering where communication, connection, and curiosity collide. One taste… and you may not want to leave.

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(00:00:00) Welcome back to the studio, Brad & Brittany!

(00:02:24) Group play is our jam

(00:03:06) Group play challenges and nerves

(00:06:31) 18 people in one house for three days

(00:09:16) Conveying interest when and how

(00:11:50) It was my turn to be tied up

(00:15:05) Envy and communicating interest to your partner

(00:18:52) Initiating group play

(00:22:31) We turned into exhibitionists

(00:24:19) Our first ‘threesome’

(00:27:24) It was unexpected, new and exciting

(00:30:07) And now there were five

(00:33:47) Getting consent during play…verbal vs visual

(00:37:15) Group play in place of a four way connection

(00:38:08) Communication with your partner is key

(00:40:52) ‘Same’ party, different outcome…we were intentional

(00:43:29) Challenges with communicating interest to your partner

(00:44:39) Putting the right group of people together for play

(00:48:04) Taking time to reflect on play experiences and recuperate

(00:51:08) Some group play experiences get your motor running

(00:52:00) Parties coming up

(00:53:34) Taking care of your relationship is most important

(00:54:31) Looking forward to our next group play experience

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This week, the vampires turn down the lights and turn up the honesty. Zack and Josie welcome Stone and Selene, a couple who first stepped into the lifestyle so Selene could explore her attraction to women. What began as a soft spark of curiosity evolved into a full swap journey—complete with steamy firsts, emotional growth, and plenty of delicious self-discovery.

Stone opens up about his own inner work—navigating the envy and insecurity that came with watching Selene experience pleasure with another man. Their story isn’t about drama or broken trust; it’s about personal reflection, emotional courage, and a deeply supportive partnership. With Selene by his side, Stone learned how shifting beliefs can unlock new levels of connection and play.

From FF encounters to unforgettable threesomes (and that oh-so-important “who’s in the middle?” moment), this episode is a reminder that real growth can be just as sexy as the play itself.

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(00:00:00) Selene finally shared with Stone that she wanted to explore women

(00:04:11) Stone supported Selene in FF but didn’t think it included him

(00:05:57) Selene’s first FF experience

(00:09:02) Their first threesome

(00:12:17) With threesomes the question is who’s in the middle?

(00:14:08) Their favorite threesome position…it’ll make you hot!

(00:17:27) Bliss was their first lifestyle experience

(00:20:18) Selene’s mindset shift changed her experience

(00:23:14) Being a little naughty was her favorite thing

(00:25:20) The first time she had sex with a man other than Stone

(00:28:24) Selene had to work through her feelings

(00:31:18) A supportive spouse makes a huge difference

(00:34:02) He was handsome and he fucked her brains out

(00:36:28) It was fun but it was difficult to work through the feelings

(00:39:06) Stone had to stop the play session and that can be hard

(00:40:54) He had to go to work on himself

(00:42:50) He felt insecure and had a lot of feelings to work through

(00:44:19) Reframing experiences and changing core beliefs

(00:46:08) Selene was heartbroken watching Stone struggle

(00:48:28) Brad and Brittany helped them turn a corner in couples play

(00:50:44) Judgment around number of play partners

(00:53:14) Reconnection sex is the hottest sex

(00:54:39) These are normal feelings

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This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into the little turn-offs that can make a big difference in the lifestyle. From endless talkers who don’t know when to zip it, to naughty pics that miss the mark, to distracted dates and space-invading flirts, the hosts share their own pet peeves while weighing in on those shared by listeners. Playful, cheeky, and just a touch wicked, this episode proves that sometimes the sexiest sparks come from knowing what not to do.

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(00:00:00) We asked our listeners

(00:01:53) People who dominate the conversation

(00:07:10) Good listeners may be more responsive in play sessions

(00:08:21) Dick pics

(00:11:50 ) It’s a numbers game

(00:12:48) Naked Man - flashback to Episode 9 at 00:32:00

(00:15:47) Pussy pics

(00:16:15) Pics the ladies find sexy

(00:18:04) Ignoring DM’s, ghosting and communication etiquette

(00:23:39) Distracted dates

(00:25:54) Cock shock collars and pocket pussies

(00:26:19) Halitosis and smoking

(00:31:38) Interrupting closed conversations

(00:36:06) Lifestyle culture

(00:38:36) Posers

(00:39:30) Personal space

(00:40:43) Being too handsy or overly friendly

(00:43:12) Women may view interactions differently than men

(00:48:50) Difficulty talking about having sex with potential partners

(00:52:14) Talking yourself out of a play session when you know too much

(00:55:02) Future podcast topic…join the conversation on Peaches’nCream

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Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany explore all the delicious perks of the lifestyle that go far beyond the playroom. From the intoxicating energy of a Bliss event to the thrill of dressing up and letting desire set the tone, these playful vampires share how swinging fuels confidence, deepens connection, and sparks sexual liberation. It’s proof that sometimes the sweetest bites are found in the moments between the sheets.

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(00:00:00) How most couples define success in the lifestyle

(00:01:46) Benefits from Bliss other than playing

(00:03:30) If you’re considering the lifestyle, this is for you

(00:07:00) You can be yourself

(00:08:01) There’s great energy

(00:08:40) There’s warm and comforting, yet also anxious energy

(00:09:25) The razor’s edge between anxiety and excitement

(00:10:51) Reframing and resetting expectations

(00:11:24) Anticipation instead of expectations

(00:11:44) A sexual atmosphere is important

(00:13:06) Bliss group play room

(00:15:24) Bliss Dance ‘n Play

(00:18:17) Redefining success

(00:19:44) Zack enjoys voyeurism

(00:23:18) Josie is more comfortable watching porn than live action

(00:25:10) Scarlet Ranch group playroom

(00:27:29) Better and more fun vacations

(00:29:48) Giving up control and feeling youthful

(00:32:30) Dressing in theme and feeling sexy

(00:35:18) Comments are welcomed in the lifestyle

(00:38:15) If you like it try it, be who you want to be

(00:40:32) Pump up your volume!

(00:42:47) Increased confidence through self expression

(00:45:00) Fake it ‘til you make it

(00:48:06) Squeeze every benefit out of every event

(00:49:25) Exposure to new ideas or kinks

(00:53:35) Experiences, exploration, liberation, communication

(00:56:00) Deeper, more connected relationships

(00:57:32) The lifestyle community is very accepting

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In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany break down why judgment isn’t always a dirty word—it’s simply part of deciding what (and who) makes you tingle. These playful vampires of the mic aren’t here to drain the fun—they’re teasing apart why “judgment-free” might be more fantasy than fact. From judging to being judged, they share stories of decisions (not damnations), kinks that don’t quite fit, and the delicate dance of acceptance versus attraction. Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, this conversation proves that a little judgment can be just as sexy as it is honest.

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(00:00:00) Is the lifestyle really judgment free

(00:04:10) Judgment defined

(00:05:39) An example of judgment

(00:06:16) Why the topic of judgment came up(00:09:12) Digging on use of the word and why we use it

(00:11:06) Politics and other musings

(00:13:27) Not less judgmental just more accepting

(00:14:58) Salted Caramel Cookie and Swappertunity69

(00:16:08) Tell me more about that

(00:18:13) Replace ‘judgment’ with ‘decisions’

(00:19:54) Kinks and preferences that aren’t our own

(00:21:35) Kink vs lifestyle vs swingers

(00:24:02) Judgment and the feelings judgment creates

(00:28:14) Ways to handle feeling judged

(00:31:43) Being accepting doesn’t auto translate to fucking

(00:33:12) Introverts and extroverts experience the lifestyle differently

(00:38:05) Common perceptions of introverts vs extroverts

(00:41:36) A potential strategy for introverts

(00:42:37) Judgments we’ve each made

(00:49:57) Trust and transparency is valuable to us

(00:54:17) Share your opinions with us on Peaches’nCream

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This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into one of the most talked-about topics in the lifestyle: red flags. And this time, it’s not just their own perspectives—they’re debating the warning signs shared by listeners on Peaches’nCream. From couples who feel like “fresh meat,” to partners who aren’t on the same page, to those misleading photos (or no photos at all), the crew unpacks the signals that can make or break a connection. But it’s not all caution tape—there are plenty of green flags, too, from inclusivity to empowerment and stretching comfort zones. With playful banter, candid stories, and just enough bite, this episode will leave you laughing, nodding along, and maybe rethinking your own approach to the lifestyle.

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(00:00:00) We asked our listeners

(00:02:29) Red Flag 1: We are new and feel like ‘fresh meat’

(00:04:41) Being inclusive is more fun for everyone

(00:07:00) Red Flag 2: Disrespecting their own partner

(00:08:48) When one partner isn’t ‘into it’ and needs to drink to play

(00:10:46) Red Flag 3: Too much attention can be a turn off

(00:12:10) Red Flag 4: Name dropping

(00:15:54) Red Flag 5: Misleading or just missing photos…of him

(00:17:17) Meeting virtually before an in-person meeting

(00:21:04) Sunday night booty call

(00:24:16) Everyone gets to do it their way

(00:25:00) Green flags!

(00:30:16) Expanding your comfort zone boundaries

(00:33:00) Sexual liberation and empowerment

(00:35:30) Talking about erections before a play session

(00:40:29) When the dick shot doesn’t work

(00:43:50) Sexual liberation and penis evolution

(00:45:18) Red Flag 6: When couples or singles start messaging outside the group chat

(00:45:42) Hooking up with someone of the same sex without your partner’s consent

(00:48:29) Red Flag 6 may not a red flag for everyone

(00:54:06) Join the conversation on Peaches’nCream!

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