This week's discussion is a hodge-podge of topics trending across the internet, along with the usual sidebars and tangential rants. The Bees discuss a young woman making the difficult choice to self-deport from America back to Cameroon, while analyzing the current political landscape in both countries. Other topics include a popular motivational speaker allegedly abandoning his daughter, and a couple of AITA posts from Reddit. We hope you enjoy and as always look forward to hearing your comments.

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There's only one Bee in the pod today! B.E. Lyonga shares her thoughts on today's "attention economy", and the ethics of being entertained by other people's real life experiences such as psychological crises, marital problems, and more. As examples she discusses recent viral videos including: a woman claiming that her psychiatrist manipulated her romantic feelings for him, a wife having second thoughts about her marriage, and a homeless mother contemplating suicide. What is the benefit versus the cost of the current oversharing culture?

It's another throwback! While we're "out of office" again this week, we're replaying an episode from 2024. We discuss the history of feminism, the current wave of feminist movement, and trending discourse on gender roles in heterosexual relationships.

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In this previously released episode of Two Bees in a Pod, the cohosts, Bee Lola and B.E. Lyonga dive into the realities of love and relationships in African diaspora communities, gender stereotypes, roles, and expectations that immigrants have when seeking romantic relationships in the U.S: unpacking how patriarchy back home collides with Western dating ideals. Along the way, they share hilarious and jaw-dropping personal stories, blending cultural insight, humor, and unfiltered honesty in a way only the Bees can.

We're diving into our book of the month for July, "My Parents' Marriage" by Nana Ekua Brew-Hammond. This is a story about a complicated but all too familiar (for us West Africans) family dynamic, and a daughter who is determined not to repeat the past. In this review we discuss various themes from the book including polygamy, secret families, and the games women play to survive in patriarchal systems.

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This week we're clutching our pearls at a scandalous affair, and answering the question "am I the asshole?".

Let us know if you agree or disagree with our takes.

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This week The Bees are joined by Frank Oben to continue our conversation on queer experiences in the Cameroonian community and beyond. Frank shares his story of struggling with feeling different from an early age, and how the weight of tradition and cultural expectations impacted his mental and physical health. He recounts his experience coming out to friends and family, and the journey of finding self compassion while navigating the world as a Black gay man and an immigrant.

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The Bees discuss our June book of the month, "These Letters End In Tears" by Cameroonian author Musih Tedji Xaviere. We examine how the characters in this queer love story navigate a homophobic society where love can cost you your life. We share our thoughts on how class, gender expression, and other factors may shape how queer people are perceived and treated in the world. That and much more in this episode!

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