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These Can't Be My Kids

These Can't Be My Kids

By: Karen & Leila
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These Can’t Be My Kids is the #1 podcast for parents of grown kids—or anyone still asking themselves, “Did I really raise these people?” Hosted by two sisters with nine adult children between them—Leila (married, logical, girl-heavy household) and Karen (single, spiritual, and boy-mom to the core)—this show delivers real talk, raw laughs, and relatable breakdowns about parenting long past 21! Feel free to like, comment, subscribe and engage with us.2025 Karen & Leila Parenting & Families Relationships
Episodes
  • Still Mothering: The Mental Load We Carry - Live
    Oct 8 2025

    Motherhood doesn’t end when your kids turn 18—it just changes jobs. In this episode, Karen and Leila unpack the invisible weight moms keep carrying long after their children are grown. From being the “emotional ATM” and late-night crisis contact to managing everyone’s appointments, birthdays, and breakdowns, the mental load is real.

    Karen shares what it’s like to carry it all as a single mom with adult kids still at home, while Leila offers the married perspective—where even with a helpful husband, the responsibility still seems to land on mom’s plate. Together, they laugh, vent, and drop truth about boundaries, burnout, and rediscovering who you are outside of motherhood.

    Because motherhood is forever—but the overwhelm doesn’t have to be.

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    33 mins
  • Red Flags and Blind Spots
    Oct 1 2025

    When it comes to dating, parents spot the warning signs long before their grown kids do. From disrespectful communication and financial messes to couch-surfing partners and drama-filled “situationships,” the red flags wave loud and clear—but love can make our kids blind to them.

    In this episode, Leila and Karen share personal stories, break down the most common red flags in adult children’s relationships, and talk about how parents can respond without pushing their kids further into bad choices.

    👉 Takeaways:

    • Red flags are patterns, not one-time mistakes.
    • Parents can guide, not control—ask questions instead of giving lectures.
    • “A piece of a person” isn’t better than noone at all.
    • Your role isn’t to eliminate pain, but to prepare your child to handle it.

    Because if love is blind, then parents have the best view of the warning signs.

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    36 mins
  • The Empty Nugget
    Oct 3 2025

    🍗✨ What would you do if you cut open your chicken nugget and found… NOTHING?


    Amanda Reed did just that — and her viral call-out to Walmart had the internet screaming. We’re breaking down the saga of the hollow nugget, the audacity of it all, and why sometimes you’ve got to laugh (before you cry over your snack).

    🎧 Tap in to this week’s It’s the Audacity for Me segment — because breading without chicken is a whole new level of disrespect.

    #ItsTheAudacityForMe #PodcastClip #ChickenNuggetGate #ViralMoments #Audacity

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    13 mins
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