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Unexpected Rules for Navigating a New Food Culture

Stepping into a new country is a thrill—but stepping into its food scene can feel like another world. For many who move to places like China, the mix of sizzling woks, bold aromas, and unreadable menus brings both excitement and paralysis. You crave adventure… yet dream of a simple cheese sandwich. This isn’t just about food—it’s about finding your footing in a new life.

In an episode of The Global Educator podcast, hosts Alex and Sam unpacked how to face this challenge with courage, curiosity, and kindness. Their roadmap? Eat bravely, pace yourself, and never feel guilty for missing home.

1. You’re an Explorer, Not a Critic

When faced with an unfamiliar dish, skip the question “Will I like this?” and instead ask, “What is this?” You’re not hunting for food you already approve of—you’re discovering something new.
China, for example, isn’t one cuisine but a constellation of flavors: fiery Sichuan spice, subtle Cantonese dim sum, rustic Hunan heat. Food here is connection, celebration, and heritage. Every bite teaches you about the soul of the place. Approach each meal as a cultural handshake, not a test of taste.

2. Make Your Culinary Courage Sustainable

Don’t try to conquer the entire menu in one go. Instead, adopt the “One New Dish a Week” rule—a gentle, ongoing adventure. Point to a photo, mimic what a local orders, or ask colleagues for suggestions.
Each experiment—whether it’s discovering your new favorite or swearing off chicken feet forever—is a success. You’ll gather not just flavors but stories that weave into your journey abroad.

3. Write Yourself a Permission Slip for Pizza

Here’s the paradox of adaptation: being brave includes knowing when to rest. Craving pizza or pasta after a long week doesn’t make you weak—it keeps you human. Homesickness often speaks through hunger. A familiar meal can refill your emotional tank so you’re ready to explore again tomorrow.
Balance is the secret ingredient to thriving abroad: adventure paired with comfort, discovery paired with gentleness. And in most cities, delivery apps ensure that comfort food is only a few taps away.

Bonus: Three Pro-Tips for Your Expedition

1. Use Your Camera. Snap photos of crowded food stalls or intriguing dishes. Later, show them to locals—they’ll love your curiosity and guide you through the mystery.
2. Learn “Zhège.” Pronounced juh-guh, it means “this one.” A simple phrase that unlocks entire menus.
3. Find a Food Sherpa. Let a local colleague or experienced expat lead the way. You’ll discover hidden gems—and learn the etiquette behind each meal.

The Final Thought

Adapting to a new food culture isn’t a contest of bravery—it’s a rhythm of curiosity and compassion. Each meal is a small lesson in trust: trust in your senses, in the people around you, and in your ability to belong.
You’re not just eating; you’re learning how to live fully in a new world. The greatest adventures aren’t always out there—they’re often on your plate.

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Episodes
  • The Surprising Superpower You Discover in Your Messiest Year Abroad
    Oct 29 2025

    The Surprising Superpower Hidden in Your Messiest Year Abroad

    Your first year abroad is rarely the cinematic montage you imagined. It’s a glorious, chaotic storm—wrong buses, awkward hand gestures, and meals that turn out nothing like you expected. From the outside, it looks like adventure. From the inside, it feels like survival.

    And yet, in that chaos lies a secret superpower: documenting it.
    Writing, filming, or even voice-noting your experiences can completely reshape how you see your journey. Here’s why it matters.

    1. Your Journal Becomes a Time Machine

    Culture shock blurs your sense of progress. Every day feels like a test. But those small notes—the coffee you ordered with charades, the day you braved the supermarket—become proof of growth.

    When you look back weeks later, you’ll see the mountain you’ve climbed. What once felt like fumbling now reads like transformation. It’s your personal highlight reel, a reminder that you’re thriving more than you realize.

    2. You’re Practicing “Cheap Therapy”

    Let’s be real—living abroad can feel emotionally expensive. Documenting it is how you process the noise.
    Writing helps you “organize the chaos,” giving shape to the blur of emotions, language barriers, and small victories.

    In a world where you can’t control much, this act reclaims a bit of power. Or as one traveler put it, “It’s cheap therapy—and it works.”

    3. You Take Control of Your Narrative

    Sharing your experiences—even with a small circle—gives you control over how your story is told.
    You stop repeating the same updates and start shaping your legacy. Loved ones no longer just worry; they witness. They see your real life—not filtered through fear, but through your perspective: vibrant, messy, alive.

    You stop being the friend “who moved abroad” and become the main character in an unfolding adventure.

    4. Consistency Beats Perfection

    Forget polished travel vlogs and viral posts. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s presence.
    What matters is showing up for your own story, one entry at a time.

    Try this:

    • A few lines in your Notes app each week.
    • A rough video rant after a long day.
    • A private blog no one ever reads.

    Those imperfect entries? They’re the gold. As one creator said, “My first vlogs were just me, sweaty and rambling about humidity—now they’re priceless.”

    5. You Become the Author of Your Adventure

    A year from now, you’ll reread those words, rewatch those clips, and realize—you didn’t just survive; you evolved.
    You’ll see bravery where you once saw fear. Growth where you once saw confusion.

    Your story abroad is bigger than the chaos. It’s your proof of courage, your therapy, and your legend in the making.

    So pick up the pen. Open your camera. Press record.
    You are the hero—and no one else can tell this story like you can.

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    14 mins
  • Unexpected Rules for Navigating a New Food Culture
    Oct 28 2025

    Unexpected Rules for Navigating a New Food Culture

    Stepping into a new country is a thrill—but stepping into its food scene can feel like another world. For many who move to places like China, the mix of sizzling woks, bold aromas, and unreadable menus brings both excitement and paralysis. You crave adventure… yet dream of a simple cheese sandwich. This isn’t just about food—it’s about finding your footing in a new life.

    In an episode of The Global Educator podcast, hosts Alex and Sam unpacked how to face this challenge with courage, curiosity, and kindness. Their roadmap? Eat bravely, pace yourself, and never feel guilty for missing home.

    1. You’re an Explorer, Not a Critic

    When faced with an unfamiliar dish, skip the question “Will I like this?” and instead ask, “What is this?” You’re not hunting for food you already approve of—you’re discovering something new.
    China, for example, isn’t one cuisine but a constellation of flavors: fiery Sichuan spice, subtle Cantonese dim sum, and rustic Hunan heat. Food here is connection, celebration, and heritage. Every bite teaches you about the soul of the place. Approach each meal as a cultural handshake, not a test of taste.

    2. Make Your Culinary Courage Sustainable

    Don’t try to conquer the entire menu in one go. Instead, adopt the “One New Dish a Week” rule—a gentle, ongoing adventure. Point to a photo, mimic what a local orders, or ask colleagues for suggestions.
    Each experiment—whether it’s discovering your new favorite or swearing off chicken feet forever—is a success. You’ll gather not just flavors but stories that weave into your journey abroad.

    3. Write Yourself a Permission Slip for Pizza

    Here’s the paradox of adaptation: being brave includes knowing when to rest. Craving pizza or pasta after a long week doesn’t make you weak—it keeps you human. Homesickness often speaks through hunger. A familiar meal can refill your emotional tank so you’re ready to explore again tomorrow.
    Balance is the secret ingredient to thriving abroad: adventure paired with comfort, discovery paired with gentleness. And in most cities, delivery apps ensure that comfort food is only a few taps away.

    Bonus: Three Pro-Tips for Your Expedition

    1. Use Your Camera. Snap photos of crowded food stalls or intriguing dishes. Later, show them to locals—they’ll love your curiosity and guide you through the mystery.
    2. Learn “Zhège.” Pronounced “juh-guh,” it means “this one.” A simple phrase that unlocks entire menus.
    3. Find a Food Sherpa. Let a local colleague or experienced expat lead the way. You’ll discover hidden gems—and learn the etiquette behind each meal.

    The Final Thought

    Adapting to a new food culture isn’t a contest of bravery—it’s a rhythm of curiosity and compassion. Each meal is a small lesson in trust: trust in your senses, in the people around you, and in your ability to belong.
    You’re not just eating; you’re learning how to live fully in a new world. The greatest adventures aren’t always out there—they’re often on your plate.

    Show More Show Less
    14 mins
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