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The Whole Damn Pie

The Whole Damn Pie

By: Amalia Martino
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We’ve all felt the need to settle at one point or another. To settle for a “slice” of life when – whether we know it or not - we really want the whole pie. What is the whole pie? It’s health, fulfillment, that promotion, to make more money, to impact our community, to leave a lasting legacy, to live up to our own expectations and on and on. It’s different for everyone – and that’s the point. This is why The Vida Agency founder and president Amalia Martino brings you a series of fulfillment-focused conversations in “The Whole Damn Pie” podcast series. She speaks to guests on a variety of topics from living a more fun and balanced life to how we view money, even tackling equity and social justice work and much more. An expert on nothing but her own professional and personal experiences, Amalia approaches conversations with a willingness to learn and genuine desire to have the necessary conversations. She’s a well-respected business owner, mom, and community advocate to name a few. When she’s not hosting the Whole Damn Pie, she’s running The Vida Agency a full-service marketing & communications firm in Seattle or doing Hot Yoga to unwind. Enjoy!2021, The Whole Damn Pie Economics Leadership Management & Leadership Marketing Marketing & Sales Personal Development Personal Success
Episodes
  • The Importance of Identity and Feeling Like You Belong
    Feb 4 2025

    Ruchika Malhotra is a keynote speaker, inclusion strategist, and the bestselling author of Inclusion on Purpose—an intersectional approach to creating a culture of belonging at work. She is also the founder of the inclusion strategy practice CANDOR.

    Amalia and Ruchika chat about individuals being made up of a multitude of identities, battling the underestimations of others, and how western feminism hasn’t given us that promised liberation.

    They also discuss how Ruchika started her career in the “overwhelmingly white and overwhelmingly male” journalism industry and Ruchika shares her many experiences of having her name deliberately mispronounced or being ignored by coworkers due to the way she looks.

    Key Takeaways:

    • The shame of a name: Ruchika explains how it took her “decades to reclaim agency and connection over my own name, which tells this beautiful story of a heritage and all this meaning and is so powerful.”
    • Unravelling systems of oppression: Ruchika shares a sneak peek at her new book coming out fall 2025. She speaks to how humans are conditioned to believe in survival of the fittest and put self above community when we should be spreading the wealth and helping others grow alongside us.
    • The Whole Damn Pie means: aspiring to a garden. For Ruchika, it’s looking after herself so she can replant seeds and give to others.

    Learn more about Ruchika and her book here: https://www.ruchika.co/

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    37 mins
  • The Fight for Identity as an Asylee in the US
    Jan 21 2025

    “When you’re a woman of color in leadership, why wouldn't you have an identity crisis when the standard for you, even in the position of power that you are in, is different from your white co-workers and colleagues. You have to spend time and emotional labor to advocate to people why you are even here in the first place.”

    Qurat Ul Ain is an immigrant, an asylum seeker, and a leader in the legal fight for women's rights across the country.

    Amalia and Qurat Ul Ain speak about feeling like you need to whitewash yourself, the many challenges and sacrifices you face as a refugee in the US, and having to hide parts of your personality or your beliefs and opinions to fit in or earn your visa. They also connect over Qurat Ul Ain’s work at Legal Voice, including operating on a shared leadership model and the shocking fact that crisis pregnancy centers aren’t protected by HIPAA.

    Key Takeaways:

    1. Feeling the need to show up as a “model brown person”: Qurat Ul Ain details her decade-long experience of fighting her case as a religious and a political asylee in the US.
    2. Her work with Legal Voice: In her “dream job” as Development & Communications Director, Qurat Ul Ain helps the immigrant community and people who speak English as a second language to understand their rights.
    3. The Whole Damn Pie means: being accepted and belonging somewhere. For Qurat Ul Ain, it’s being able to step out confidently, not being put in a box, and not having people ask, “So, where are you really from?”.

    Learn more about Legal Voice here: https://legalvoice.org/

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    43 mins
  • Community, Collaboration and Giving Everything Your All
    Jan 7 2025

    “When you have an opportunity to play a big role with young people in the community, you have to take that seriously. That's an honor. Everybody doesn't get to do that.”


    Jace ECAj is an activist, an emcee, and half of the hip hop soul duo Black Stax. He’s also a well known and inspiring leader in the community and, in his role as Director of Community and Artist Development at The Residency, he gets to teach young artists and help prepare them for their future.


    From being a great listener to showing up authentically and staying true to the things you believe in—Jace and Amalia chat about what this role entails. They also explore what hip hop means to Jace and how it’s shaped so many aspects of his life.


    Key Takeaways


    Being “Black and Alive”: Learn more about the motto Jace lives by and the meaning behind it.

    Being an Activist is a Compliment: Jace shares his experience of getting his “hands in the mud” and standing up for what he believes in.

    The Whole Damn Pie means: For Jace, it’s living life holistically and giving every individual aspect its fair share of attention.

    Learn more about the incredible work The Residency are doing here: https://www.theresidencyseattle.org/

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    38 mins
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