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Today, I answer a question submitted anonymously through my Dear Fumi column! If you would like to submit your own question, you can do so anonymously here, on my site.

Here is the question that I answered:

"Hi, I wanted to ask your opinion on a dating situation I had recently since I agree with and like a lot of your content. I posted in another black women uncensored group and they were basically saying I'm the problem and should be grateful he asked me out somewhere and not to his house. I admit I could've communicated a bit better and let me expectations be more known but do you think i was completely in the wrong for wanting concrete plans? I have screenshots you can read with this. Not sure how to attach them."

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Yes, I NEED a Man: Successful Women Discuss Dating, Healing and Femininity - Feat. Sahar Khorramm

Chapters

00 - 04:56 - intro

04:57 - 08:17 - femininity and impostor syndrome

08:18 - 10:13 - big law 10:14 - 15:09 - hypergamy and the "I need a man" controversy

15:10 - 16:55 - importance of discernment

16:56 - 21:07 - blueprint to happy and healthy relationships

21:08 - 22:02 - mainstream brainwashing

22:03 - 26:18 - playing hard to get and manipulative dating

26:19 - 30:14 - sahar's dating history

30:15 - 35:20 - the "will I die alone?" panic + mindset that attracted love

35:21 - 38:42 - singleness is a gift

38:43 - 43:06 - let him show his true colors...

43:07 - 45:25 - dating for marriage45:26 - 46:50 - you need to self-nurture

46:51 - 57:38 - be mindful of his needs

57:39 - 1:01:09 - partner poaching and internalized misogyny

1:01:10 - 1:06:43 - nurturing masculinity

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