Do you ever wonder why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns, even when you know better? Or why you feel totally secure with some people but anxious, avoidant, or distant with others? The truth is, your attachment style might have more to do with it than you think.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with clinical psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Judy Ho to talk about her new book, The New Rules of Attachment. We break down how your attachment style shows up in every area of your life—not just relationships—and what it really takes to move toward secure attachment. Dr. Judy and I talk about how to reparent your inner child, nurture your authentic self, and finally create the kind of security and connection you’ve always wanted.

If you’ve been stuck in the same emotional cycles and want to feel grounded, secure, and confident in your relationships again, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The New Rules of Attachment by Dr. Judy Ho: https://drjudyho.com/books/the-new-rules-of-attachment/
• Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
• Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche
• Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/

What We Discuss:

• 00:22 What attachment styles are and why they matter more than you think
• 05:58 The four main attachment styles and how they form
• 15:34 How attachment styles connect to love languages
• 18:47 What reparenting your inner child really means
• 25:33 How to nurture your inner child’s unmet needs
• 26:11 Why your authentic self and inner child are deeply connected
• 27:37 Can you really change your attachment style? (Dr. Judy says yes!)
• 34:58 How parenting style and temperament affect your child’s attachment
• 42:13 How to find balance in your parenting style

Find more from Dr Judy Ho:

Website: https://drjudyho.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjudyho/

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Are you getting likes, comments, and DMs on your posts but no actual clients? It’s one of the most frustrating parts of building a coaching business online. The truth is, engagement feels good, but likes don’t pay the bills. Without a system to turn those conversations into conversions, you’ll stay stuck in the “almost” phase.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m breaking down the three simple shifts you can make to turn engagement into paying clients. You’ll learn how to lead conversations naturally (without feeling pushy), how to use your Instagram Stories to create connection and build trust, and how to make it easy for people to understand what you offer and take the next step.

If you’ve been stuck in the “people love my content but no one’s buying” loop, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

What I Discuss:

• 01:26 The 3 simple shifts that turn engagement into clients
• 04:12 Why you need a clear system behind your content
• 06:37 Practical tips to start turning likes into paying clients

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever looked around at the life you've built—the family, the job, the routines—and wondered, “Is this really what I want?” Not because anything is necessarily wrong but because something deep inside you is whispering that it’s no longer right.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by the incredible Kute Blackson, a transformational teacher and bestselling author of The Magic of Surrender. We dive into what it really takes to get honest with yourself, let go of the identity you've outgrown, and step into the next version of your life even when it’s terrifying.

If you've been feeling stuck, uncertain, or like you're outgrowing the life you worked so hard to build, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
• Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche
• Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket

What We Discuss:

• 01:23 Why you might feel stuck, even when life looks “good”
• 03:06 How fear and ego keep you from moving forward
• 06:18 What happens when you keep suppressing your truth
• 15:51 The sneaky ways we self-sabotage (and why we do it)
• 19:00 Digging into the unconscious reasons you stay stuck
• 30:04 Kute’s advice for women who feel like something’s off
• 31:31 A personal story about attracting the wrong partners
• 38:58 Kute’s surprising morning routine
• 39:41 How relationships are mirrors for growth
• 53:04 Who The Magic of Surrender was really written for

Find more from Kute Blackson

Website: https://kuteblackson.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kuteblackson

Boundless Bliss Event: https://www.boundlessblissbali.com/

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com