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The Weird Years

The Weird Years

By: Lydia Vornweg
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The Weird Years is the podcast for anyone Googling "How to make life decisions" at 2AM. We thought we had time but life moved fast, the rulebook disappeared, and the next step feels like a big fat ? Each week, Lydia (@lydsie) and a guest dive into the big, weird, and messy realities of career, relationships, health, identity and more. There's no sugarcoating, no perfect answers, but a lot of laughs—just real talk about figuring it out together. 🎧 New episodes every Tuesday. Follow on IG now & join the conversation. https://www.instagram.com/theweirdyearspodcasCopyright 2025 Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Rethinking Alcohol in Your 30s with Emily Syphas
    Dec 23 2025

    What happens when you remove the most popular social lubricant and fully meet yourself in your thirties?


    In this episode, I’m joined by Emily Syphas, founder of Sober & Social and one of the UK’s leading voices on sober curiosity, hangover-free living and rethinking alcohol in your 30s.


    Emily shares her personal journey from heavy drinking in hospitality, to years of full sobriety, to finding a hangover-free relationship with alcohol.


    Together, we explore what actually changes when you question the social rules we’ve inherited around drinking, and what clarity replaces the blur.


    We get into:

    🧠 Sobriety as a journey, not a destination

    🧠 Whether hangover-free living is a 30s cheat code

    🧠 How alcohol, anxiety and confidence interact

    🧠 The clarity that comes to dating and friendships without alcohol


    This episode isn’t about quitting drinking. It’s about outgrowing versions of yourself that relied on numbing, distraction or validation and stepping into what comes next.


    🎙️ Follow us: @theweirdyearspodcast

    🚀 New episodes every Tuesday — hit subscribe to navigate the weirdness together.

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    1 hr and 21 mins
  • Navigating the Minefield of Wellness with Emilie Lavinia
    Dec 9 2025

    What if trying to be our best, healthiest, most beautiful selves is actually… stressing us out?


    In this episode, I’m joined by Emilie Lavinia, Fitness and Wellbeing Editor at The Independent, to make sense of the ever-expanding world of health, wellbeing and beauty in our thirties.


    This is not yet another podcast episode with a list of everything you need to be doing — it's Emilie's stripped-back, honest perspective shaped by years inside the beauty industry.


    We get into:

    ✨ How to spot products with actual research behind them

    ✨ Why women are ageing under a microscope while men get to call their facelifts “biohacking”

    ✨ The difference between doing wellness and feeling well

    ✨ Why going back to basics might be the best wellness glow-up you have


    If you’ve ever felt like beauty and wellness is a treadmill where you can't keep up, this episode is your reset.


    📲 Follow Emilie Lavinia: @emilielaviniauk

    🎙️ Follow us: @theweirdyearspodcast

    🚀 New episodes every Tuesday — hit subscribe to navigate the weirdness together.


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    1 hr
  • Weirdly Personal: The Arguments That Actually Improve Your Life
    Dec 2 2025

    What if the arguments you’re avoiding/repeating/stuck in… are the exact ones that could make your life better?


    In this week’s Weirdly Personal, I’m getting into the fights we should be having in our thirties — and the ones we can finally stop wasting energy on.


    After spending way too much time arguing with men on the internet (productive? questionable), I realised just how much of our energy goes into the wrong conflicts - and how powerful the right arguments can be.


    Arguments aren’t about winning; they’re about understanding, clarity and connection.


    In this episode, I break down:

    ✨ The five arguments you never need to have again

    ✨ The fights that actually improve your life - values, alignment, accountability and equality

    ✨ How to spot the real issue underneath a conflict

    ✨ How to argue in a way that brings you closer, not further apart


    If you’ve ever replayed a conversation 47 times, avoided a necessary conflict, or found yourself knee-deep in a pointless debate, this one will shift how you think about arguing in your thirties.


    Listen, reflect, and maybe send this to someone you’ve been avoiding a conversation with.


    🙏 Follow us at @theweirdyearspodcast

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    50 mins
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