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HELLO Diva, welcome to this week's episode of The Universe Is Your Friend Podcast!
This week’s episode was heavily inspired by a spicy little nugget from this month’s Book Club read, Super Attractor by Gabby Bernstein (if you’re not in the self-development book club yet… get on that babe).
Gabby’s “Spiritually Aligned Action” method got me thinking in my little brain — specifically Step 1: Is your desire backed by positive inspiration or service?
Cue the soul-searching spiral.
So today’s chat is all about what’s really driving your manifestation. Is it rooted in worth and alignment? Or is it lowkey coming from lack, fear, or a childhood wound?
Hot tip fresh off the press: the why behind your desire is everything. It shapes your energy, your belief, your alignment - all of it. Two people can want the exact same thing, but depending on their energy, one will manifest it with ease and the other will stay stuck wondering why The Universe is being such a C**t.
What we’re unpacking in this episode:
- Why manifesting from desperation, ego, or unhealed wounds actually slows you down
- What “positive inspiration” really means (and no, it doesn’t mean your desire has to be world-changing or holier-than-thou to be valid)
- How your reason for manifesting either reinforces belief or sabotages it
- What to do when you realize your desire isn’t coming from the right place (without spiraling into “omg have I wasted my time” mode)
I’m also walking you through the 3 steps to realign your desire so it actually feels empowering again:
1. Heal the root wound.
Like… actually go there. Journal it. Inner child it. Therapy it. Whatever you need to do to stop asking your manifestation to fix something it was never designed to fix.
2. Identify the deeper feeling you actually want.
Most of us aren’t just manifesting a “thing” - we’re manifesting the feeling that thing brings. Security. Belonging. Peace. Love. Etc. So skip the middleman and start manifesting the feeling itself now (this doesn't mean you can't eventually refocus in the physical desire btw, if anything, this will attract it by default).
3. Rewire the desire with a new WHY.
Once you’ve done the inner work, come back to your original manifestation — but this time, choose a reason that’s rooted in inspiration, purpose, and your highest good. Trust me, it'll make everything 10x easier and juicier.
Because Queen - you deserve to manifest things that make you feel proud. That feel expansive. That aren’t carrying the weight of childhood trauma or society’s expectations. This isn’t about giving up your dreams — it’s about upgrading them.
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