Maria's Journey to Discovering Her Sexuality in the 80s Club Scene

Maria shares her personal journey of discovering her sexuality during her early twenties. She recalls her experiences frequenting rock and gay clubs in the 80s, developing crushes on drag queens, and experiencing an epiphany about her attraction to women. Maria talks about her relationships, including falling in love with a beautiful trans woman and her first few girlfriends. She candidly describes coming out to her mother and the unexpected and humorous support she received. This heartfelt story highlights the challenges and revelations of understanding one's sexual identity.

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The Moment I Knew podcast mini series aims to share the moment we discovered our own queerness. The goal is to create an ever growing patchwork of experiences. Each episode explores those profound "I knew" moments that shape LGBTQ+ identity with authentic, vulnerable storytelling that celebrates the beauty of self-recognition without shame.

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Ocean shares their personal journey of self-discovery, recounting experiences from primary school to adulthood. They discuss realising their sexuality at a young age, identifying as bisexual during secondary school, and later understanding their gender identity as non-binary or gender non-conforming. Ocean reflects on the fluid nature of their identity, acknowledging ongoing changes and periods of uncertainty.

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T.J.'s Childhood: The Peach Ball Gown and Dreams of Royalty

T.J. recalls attending a play centre as a child and cherishing a peach-coloured ball gown. The gown was significant to T.J., who would become upset if someone else was wearing it upon arrival. Wearing the gown made T.J. feel like the Queen of the world, always dreaming of being a cute damsel waiting for a prince - a dream that eventually came true.

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The Moment I Knew podcast mini series aims to share the moment we discovered our own queerness. The goal is to create an ever growing patchwork of experiences. Each episode explores those profound "I knew" moments that shape LGBTQ+ identity with authentic, vulnerable storytelling that celebrates the beauty of self-recognition without shame.

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Pierre's Childhood Moment of Self-Discovery

In this first episode of The Moment I Knew miniseries, Pierre shares a childhood memory from when he was seven years old in Martinique. During a family trip to the beach, he noticed a man on a ferry and felt a sense of connection. This early experience, free of shame or judgment, played a big role in Pierre's later realisation of his sexuality.

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The Moment I Knew podcast mini series aims to share the moment we discovered our own queerness. The goal is to create an ever growing patchwork of experiences. Each episode explores those profound "I knew" moments that shape LGBTQ+ identity with authentic, vulnerable storytelling that celebrates the beauty of self-recognition without shame.

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In this episode of the Unapologaytic podcast, host Pierre speaks with Rahim Thawer, author of The Mental Health Guide for Cis and Trans Queer Guys.

They delve into the complex dynamics of masculinity, body image, and internalized homophobia within the queer male community. The discussion covers the challenges faced in maintaining social status, navigating mental health struggles, and the importance of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).

Rahim shares insights from his book, focusing on how queer men can address disenfranchised grief and internalized shame.

They also explore the intersection of race, culture, and class, and how these factors impact mental health and community belonging. Rahim discusses the significance of community support and the need for culturally competent healthcare.

The episode concludes with practical strategies for self-help and mental well-being.

The Mental Health Guide for Cis and Trans Queer Guys will be released on 1st June 25.

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00:00 The Unapologaytic Podcast: Rahim Thawer Redefining Queer Wellness: Beyond Traditional Narratives

01:02 Introduction and Welcome

01:17 Meet Rahim Thawar

01:31 Cultural Differences and Eccentricities

01:31 Rahim's Background and Work

03:43 Navigating Identity and Hierarchies

05:40 Intersectionality and Privilege

14:01 Disenfranchised Grief

17:51 Global Perspectives on Identity

22:34 Exploring Social Hierarchies and Mental Health

23:26 Strategies to Overcome internalised Shame

25:25 Personal Experiences and Self-Perception

26:15 Building Inclusive Communities

27:21 Navigating Family and Cultural Conversations 2

8:21 Intersectionality and Disenfranchised Grief

31:27 Cognitive behavioural Therapy Techniques

39:02 Addressing Health and Aging in the LGBTQ Community

44:31 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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👋🏾 About The Unapologaytic Podcast

Hi I’m Pierre. I’m the founder of the ethical gay brand Unapologaytic as well as a male form photographer.

I want to use this podcast to explore LGBTQ+ culture and use this platform to share our stories, struggles and breakthroughs. No matter who we are we’ve all got something to share and learn from each other.

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In this episode of the Unapologaytic podcast, host Pierre speaks with Dr Jason Durant, author of Boy from the North Country, about their shared experiences of growing up in small communities and grappling with masculinity and acceptance as gay men. They discuss the pervasive sense of alienation amongst gay men, even in tolerant places like New York City. Dr Durant delves into the impacts of internalised homophobia, the grief of missed opportunities, and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance. He emphasises the necessity of facing uncomfortable emotions, fostering supportive relationships, and the daily commitment to self-care and personal growth. They touch upon the importance of authentic pride, the healing process of revisiting and comforting past traumas, and strategies for processing anger. Dr Durant also shares the importance of journalling and building a compassionate community to navigate the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:54 Discussing the Book: Boy from the North Country

03:27 Challenges of Growing Up Gay

11:34 Healing and Self-Acceptance

19:36 Community and Support

38:30 Processing Anger and Embracing Yourself

41:22 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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👋🏾 About The Unapologaytic Podcast

Hi I’m Pierre. I’m the founder of the ethical gay brand Unapologaytic as well as a male form photographer.

I want to use this podcast to explore LGBTQ+ culture, art and wellness and use this platform to share our stories and struggles. No matter who we are we’ve all got something to share and learn from each other.

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In this episode of the Unapologaytic podcast, host Pierre engages with painter Dan Swan @danswanart | danswanart.com to explore his representation of the male body in art.

Dan shares the aesthetic inspirations behind his work and the natural beauty and seduction of the male form. The conversation delves into societal attitudes and censorship towards male nudes, contrasts with the accepted portrayal of female nudes, and the influence of iconic artists like Tom of Finland.

They discuss the impacts of Dan's art on traditional masculinity, including depicting queer and transsexual identities, as well as the stigma against straight men appreciating male beauty.

The discussion touches on the challenges of posing for nude art, painting from live models versus photos, and where Dan's work can be found on platforms like Instagram and exhibitions in Brighton.

Dan emphasises the importance of being unapologetic and encourages self-acceptance and celebration of the male form.

Introduction to the Unapologaytic Podcast
Meet Dan Swan: Celebrating the Male Form
Artistic Approach and Inspirations
The Unknown Lover: A Dreamy Representation
Public Perception of Male Nude Paintings
Navigating Art and Eroticism
Influences and Inspirations
Effortless Artistry: The Illusion of Ease
Live Models vs. Photos: The Artist's Perspective
Intimacy and Vulnerability in Art
Challenging Masculinity Through Art
The Unique Style and Message of Dan Swan
Embracing Identity and Authenticity
Where to Find Dan Swan's Art

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Meet Brighton's newest music sensation, the duo LADSCLUB, dubbed as "Pet Shop Boys on acid."

In this revealing and fun-filled conversation, Ed and Greg share the origin of their band name, the process of creating their debut album, and how their real-life experiences shape their music. From the struggles of finding an unused band name to the joy of hearing their music on the radio, LADSCLUB's journey is truly a rollercoaster ride.

Discover the story behind their first song "Disco Prancing," how they came to be known as LADSCLUB, their take on the music industry, and how being a gay couple influences their music. We also deep dive into the themes explored in their album, their plans for the future, and much more.

Interview Begins [00:00:00 - 00:02:59] Pierre introduces LADSCLUB, and the duo clarifies a common misconception about their self-description. They discuss how a catchy review quote became an integral part of their identity.

The Story Behind "LADSCLUB" [00:03:00 - 00:05:59] The duo shares the story behind their band name, discussing how they landed on "LADSCLUB," their love for irony, and the inclusive nature of their "club."

Personal Background [00:06:00 - 00:08:59] LADSCLUB opens up about their personal lives, how they first met, and their journey as a couple in Brighton.

Music Creation Process [00:09:00 - 00:11:59] The duo discusses their debut album, the process of creating their unique sound, and how their personal experiences influence their music.

The Gay Identity in Music [00:12:00 - 00:14:59] LADSCLUB shares their thoughts on the representation of the LGBTQ+ community in the music industry and the growing prominence of queer women in music.

Challenging Stereotypes [00:15:00 - 00:16:59] They discuss how their music challenges typical narratives and offers visibility for gay men, expressing their desire to be a part of changing the way LGBTQ+ individuals are perceived in music.

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👋🏾 About The Unapologaytic Podcast

Hi I’m Pierre. I’m the founder of the ethical gay brand Unapologaytic as well as a male form photographer.

I want to use this podcast to explore gay culture and use this platform to share our stories and struggles. No matter who we are we’ve all got something to share and learn from each other.

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