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The Starting Messy Podcast

The Starting Messy Podcast

By: Misty Jayne
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On this show, we're flipping the script on perfectionism and embracing the messy, imperfect journey of growth as a hairstylist. Your host, Misty Jayne a life and money coach for beauty professionals ready to turn their desires to reality, invites guests to share the truth behind what it means to START MESSY and why it’s ALWAYS worth the leap. You can follow her on instagram for more: https://www.instagram.com/_mistyjayne_/Misty Jayne Art Economics Leadership Management & Leadership Personal Development Personal Success
Episodes
  • The Art of the Pivot: Knowing Who You Are Changes Everything w/ Kelly Cahen
    Mar 16 2026

    What happens when the business blueprint isn’t enough? In this raw and honest conversation, Misty Jayne sits down with seven-figure entrepreneur, published author, and salon owner Kelly Cahen to talk about the pivot that changes everything — not just in your business, but in how you see yourself.

    Kelly built two thriving hair salons and spent years coaching other salon owners on systems, financials, and management. But she kept hitting the same wall: her clients had all the tools and still weren’t moving. Why? Because the real entry point to business success isn’t strategy — it’s self-leadership. It’s knowing who you are, what you stand for, and what you’re no longer willing to tolerate.

    If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who’s been doing all the things but still feels stuck, afraid to raise your prices, terrified to lose clients or team members, or quietly wondering if this is really what you want — this episode is your mirror.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    1. Why salon owners know exactly what to do — and still don’t do it (hint: it’s not a strategy problem)
    2. The "Who the f*ck are you?" moment that reframed everything for Kelly
    3. How fear of losing clients and team members keeps hairstylists stuck in their own way
    4. Why pivoting your business identity feels like losing yourself — and how to do it anyway
    5. The difference between awareness, acceptance, and actually making a decision
    6. What self-leadership really means for women who wear too many hats
    7. How to stop over-explaining, stop seeking approval, and start making choices for you
    8. The friendship audit every woman in the beauty industry needs to take
    9. Why the stories we create about other people’s opinions are keeping us small
    10. Misty’s personal journey of stepping away from alcohol, identity shifts, and learning to experiment without commitment

    Perfect for: Hairstylists, salon owners, beauty entrepreneurs, and any woman in the service industry who is ready to stop people-pleasing and start building a life that actually feels like hers.

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    58 mins
  • Trying to control everything isn't doing what you think it is
    Mar 9 2026

    Looking for support Mastering Your Mess: Apply here

    If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who loves personal development, this episode might feel like a little bit of a wake-up call.

    In this episode , Misty is sharing the perspective that took her years to understand: personal growth isn’t about controlling everything. It’s about learning how to respond differently when they show up.

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    17 mins
  • How Decision Fatigue Is Quietly Burning Out The Hair Industry w/ Chrystal Graves
    Mar 2 2026

    In this episode Misty sits down with Chrystal Graves Founder of Liquid AI Salon Assistant (TRY IT HERE FOR FREE & tell it Misty sent you) to talk about decision fatigue in the beauty industry and why mental burnout has less to do with long days… and more to do with constant decision-making.

    They cover:

    1. Why stylists feel overwhelmed even when they’re fully booked
    2. Confidence vs. discipline (and why motivation won’t save you)
    3. Why Instagram isn’t your business coach
    4. Small pricing shifts that create big income changes
    5. How to retain clients without chasing new ones

    If you’re growth-minded but tired of overthinking every move in your business, this conversation will help you simplify, get clear, and move with intention.

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    1 hr and 7 mins
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