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The Spiritual Grind

The Spiritual Grind

By: Dr. Jenni and James
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Dr. Jenni PhD,RN,CHLC,CH and medium and Rev. James ORD, MhsB have spent countless years studying and practicing many modalities within the "Spiritual" domain. Dr. Jenni has dedicated her life to helping others by attending countless schools and developing each of her practices and strategies. Rev. James has studied many modalities and Native American practices and they have Both decided to open their library of knowledge to share this information with everyone in a down to earth style, with hope to assist in making your journey easier and more abundant.

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Episodes
  • Finding Gratitude in Life's Everyday Moments
    Aug 26 2025

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    Appreciation carries a frequency that can transform your entire reality, but many of us get caught in negative thought loops that keep us stuck in patterns of lack and limitation. In this intimate conversation, we explore how shifting your perspective from complaint to gratitude creates profound changes in every area of life.

    The secret to escaping financial struggle isn't necessarily making more money—it's changing how you relate to the money you have. We share the startling statistic that 92% of upper-class individuals (making over $220,000 annually) still don't have six months of savings, revealing that prosperity is about mindset, not just income. When you approach your finances from appreciation rather than scarcity, you interrupt the "if you think broke, you'll be broke" cycle.

    For those deeply entrenched in negative patterns, we offer practical strategies to begin the shift. Start with appreciating something as simple as your morning coffee, a houseplant, or your ability to walk. These small appreciations build momentum, gradually rewiring your neural pathways and energy frequency. Though it may feel artificial at first, consistent practice leads to genuine transformation.

    The appreciation practice extends beyond money into relationships, health, and personal growth. Rather than focusing on what your partner isn't doing, appreciate their presence. Instead of lamenting physical limitations, be grateful for what your body can do. This shift in perspective isn't about toxic positivity—it's about consciously choosing where to direct your energy.

    We also announce exciting new offerings, including our Salty Tarot store featuring oracle cards, merchandise, and spiritual tools, plus our upcoming 16-week "Power of Positive Thoughts" workshop in Florida. Use discount code "podcast" for $5 off your first store purchase!

    Ready to break free from negative loops and experience the transformative power of appreciation? This episode provides the roadmap to start your journey, one small gratitude at a time.

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    50 mins
  • Redefining Intimacy: From Societal Pressure to Authentic Connection
    Aug 21 2025

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    What happens when we strip away the layers of societal conditioning around sex and intimacy? In this boundary-pushing conversation, we explore the profound disconnect between authentic sexual expression and the performance-based approach many of us have been taught.

    The core revelation centers on a simple but revolutionary truth: sex does not equal love. This false equivalence has created generations of confusion, particularly for women who've been socialized to offer sexual intimacy as proof of love, while simultaneously being shamed for expressing their sexuality too freely. Meanwhile, men struggle with conquering mindsets and performance anxiety that prevent true connection.

    We share powerful real-world examples, including a story about a professionally successful, naturally beautiful woman who faced workplace discrimination simply for embracing her authentic self. Through these narratives, we illustrate how judgment and comparison poison our capacity for genuine expression and satisfaction.

    Our three-step process for reclaiming your authentic sexuality starts with identifying the societal beliefs that have shaped your perception of intimacy. Next, understand your true motivations – are you seeking pleasure and connection, or using sex to fill an emotional void? Finally, own who you are without apology. When your sexual expression aligns with your authentic self rather than external expectations, intimacy transforms from obligation to genuine connection.

    Whether you're in a committed relationship, exploring multiple connections, or focused on self-discovery, this episode offers a judgment-free framework for examining your relationship with sexuality. Join us as we challenge conventional wisdom and invite you to discover what true spiritual sexuality means for you. What beliefs are you ready to release to experience more authentic connection?

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Our Computer Died, But Our Conversation About Sex Is Just Getting Started
    Aug 19 2025

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    What happens when a broken computer leads to a breakthrough conversation about sex? In this raw and revealing episode, we dive deep into the baggage we all carry into our intimate relationships and how these unconscious patterns shape our experiences.

    Starting with an unexpected tech failure, we discover how looking for the "why" behind challenges isn't always as important as making the right next choice. This principle becomes our framework for examining the complex, often uncomfortable topic of sex in committed relationships.

    We candidly share how men are often programmed to view sex as conquest and performance, while women frequently approach it as obligation and duty. These contrasting perspectives create disconnection right where we most crave intimacy. Through personal stories and professional insights from our counseling work, we illustrate how sexual expectations can either strengthen or sabotage relationships.

    The conversation explores society's damaging templates around sexuality – from the "wifely duty" mindset that turns intimacy into a chore, to the manipulation tactics that use sex as currency. We examine how childhood exposures and parental modeling shape our adult behavior, sometimes in ways we don't recognize until they're causing problems in our relationships.

    Most importantly, we emphasize the power of authentic communication. The ability to openly discuss desires, boundaries, and feedback without shame or defensiveness transforms sex from a potential battleground into a genuine spiritual connection. When partners can speak honestly about what works and what doesn't, they create space for true pleasure and intimacy.

    This episode marks the beginning of a series on spiritual sex – reclaiming the natural, joyful exchange of energy that gets buried under societal programming. Join us for this candid conversation that will have you questioning your own beliefs and perhaps opening new dialogues with your partner.

    What beliefs about sex are you ready to examine? What conversations have you been avoiding? Share your thoughts in the comments, and don't forget to subscribe for part two of this important discussion.

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    57 mins
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