• Casa BruMar Foundation: Fighting for LGBTQ+ Rights, Resources, and Housing Advocacy in Virginia
    Nov 23 2025
    In this episode of The Spectrum (Episode 32, recorded November 20th, 2025), we sit down with Evelyn BruMar, the Executive Director of the Casa BruMar Foundation. Find out how this **Latina-led LGBTQ organization** serves as a crucial home and resource hub across the **whole Commonwealth of Virginia**. Evelyn, a first-generation American of Mexican and Chumash descent, shares her deeply personal motivation for this extensive advocacy work, including her experience living on the streets after being disowned as a minor. Her commitment solidified in Virginia when the state barred her and her wife from adopting a foster child. **What does Casa BruMar Foundation do?** The mission of Casa BruMar is built on providing protections and access to resources that were historically absent in Virginia before 2020, when it was legal to discriminate against LGBTQ people. They work tirelessly to "cut through red tape" and navigate local laws (from school board policies to foster care). Core services include: * Connecting people, including those displaced or struggling with affordable housing, to existing county programs. * Helping young people obtain a **GED or high school diploma**. * Ensuring the **elderly population** is not discriminated against in faith-based hospice facilities. * Operating the **Rise Up Scholarship**, named after a friend named Marja, which helps LGBTQ young adults (ages 18-25). **Facing the 2025 Crisis** Evelyn confirms a significant **uptick in people reaching out for help in 2025**, including LGBTQIA+ individuals, as well as straight or cisgender people who face hate for how their children identify or how they are perceived. **Innovative Solutions & Advocacy** Learn about Evelyn's creative solution for same-sex couples before marriage equality was legal: **forming a business (an LLC)** to protect assets and ensure rights. Evelyn and her wife, Heidi, adopted the name "BruMar," legally established themselves as a business, and protected their assets by putting them into the company's bank account. Furthermore, Evelyn details the life-saving **crisis intervention training** Casa BruMar provides to **first responders and law enforcement** in Manassas and Prince William County. This training is designed to foster empathy and provide officers with the appropriate language needed to engage safely with people experiencing trauma, including non-binary and trans youth who are often misgendered or dead named. **Support the Future of Advocacy in Virginia** Looking ahead to 2026, the foundation is focused on closing the housing gap and advocating for simple but crucial policy changes, such as mandatory single-stall, private bathrooms in public facilities and schools, which Evelyn argues protects all children, especially the most vulnerable. The foundation is planning to open a new **community center in Woodbridge, Prince William County** in 2026, which Evelyn believes will be the first community center in Virginia with an attached **pride clinic and pharmacy**, alongside social services. To support this vital work or inquire about resources, visit **CasaBrumarFoundation.org**.
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    29 mins
  • ARE and The R.I.S.E. Center
    Nov 7 2025
    n this episode of The Spectrum, we visit the R.I.S.E. Center at the AIDS Response Effort (ARE) in Winchester, Virginia. Executive Director Katie Vance and Co-Director Matt Buracker share the inspiring story behind ARE’s 35-year mission to support people living with HIV and to build community through the newly established LGBTQ+ R.I.S.E. Center. Learn how ARE provides medical and non-medical case management, free HIV and STI testing, harm reduction programs, and vital community resources like a food pantry, LGBTQ+ library, and gender-affirming clothing closet. Katie and Matt also discuss the challenges of funding cuts, the importance of inclusive spaces, and how people can help sustain this vital community work through donations, volunteering, and advocacy. 👉 Learn more: https://aidsresponseeffort.org 👉 Donate: https://aidsresponseeffort.charityproud.org/Donate/?cid=25863 👉 Volunteer or get involved: https://aidsresponseeffort.org/get-involved/ If you enjoyed this conversation, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share to help spread awareness of the important work being done by ARE and the R.I.S.E. Center.
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    17 mins
  • The Transgender Scare: McCarthyism for the 21st Century
    Sep 28 2025
    Are we reliving the McCarthy era? In this episode, we connect the dots between Joseph McCarthy’s 1950s Red and Lavender Scares and today’s attacks on transgender people. Just as McCarthy fueled fear and persecution of suspected communists and gay people, today’s right-wing movement uses the same playbook—demonizing transgender Americans to consolidate political power. We explore how fear-driven narratives have been recycled, from baseless accusations of “communist infiltration” to today’s rhetoric portraying transgender people as threats. Along the way, we examine the role of groups like the Heritage Foundation, the rise of anti-trans laws, and the chilling parallels to America’s past. This isn’t just about history—it’s about what’s happening right now in 2025. If we don’t recognize these patterns and act, the consequences could be devastating for democracy, freedom, and basic human decency. 00:00 Introduction 00:17 McCarthy 00:36 First Red Scare 01:17 Second Red Scare 01:35 Lavender Scare 02:22 2024 Election 02:59 2025 Election 03:33 Charlie Kirk murder 05:47 Why Should You Care? 10:39 Conclusion
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    11 mins
  • Emma's Story, Part 3
    Sep 16 2025
    This is part three of a three part series that explores the life of a transgender woman. We're calling her Emma here but this is not her name. She has chosen to remain anonymous to protect her and her family from the harassment so often directed at transgender people today. To protect her identity, we've digitally altered her voice and appearance but the emotion you will hear is hers.. This part of Emma's story covers the time period from when she decided to have gender confirmation surgery through the present. 00:00 Introduction 00:34 Deciding on surgery 01:12 Party 02:23 Surgery 05:24 Next Phase 07:38 Reflecting on her life 09:12 On gender-affirming care 12:01 Conclusion
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    13 mins
  • Emma's Story, Part 2
    Sep 1 2025
    This is part 2 of a three part series that explores the life of a transgender woman. We're calling her Emma here but this is not her name. She has chosen to remain anonymous to protect her and her family from the harassment so often directed at transgender people today. To protect her identity, we've digitally altered her voice and appearance but the emotion you will hear is hers.. This part of Emma's story covers the time period from when she decided to see if transitioning was an option for her through making her transition. 00:00 Introduction 00:46 Finding Help 03:09 Support Group 04:54 Telling People 09:43 Testing the Water 12:24 Life Test 13:21 Father's Rejection 14:53 Work Transition 20:03 Conclusion
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    20 mins
  • Emma's Story, Part 1
    Sep 1 2025
    This is part 1 of a three part series that explores the life of a transgender woman. We're calling her Emma here but this is not her name. She has chosen to remain anonymous to protect her and her family from the harassment so often directed at transgender people today. To protect her identity, we've digitally altered her voice and appearance but the emotion you will hear is hers.. This part of Emma's story covers her early childhood through what she calls her breaking point. 00:00 Introduction 00:41 Start of Emma's story 01:26 Earliest Memories 03:19 Elementary School 05:58 Junior & Senior High School 06:24 College 09:55 Trying to cope 11:57 Deciding 13:20 Condlusion of part 1
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    14 mins
  • Shenandoah County Public School Update August 2025
    Aug 16 2025
    In this episode, we break down the new policy in Shenandoah County Public Schools that bans transgender students from participating in athletics according to their gender identity. Learn why this policy, which claims to "protect girls," could actually harm all female athletes by putting them under a microscope and discouraging participation. It's not just about trans students; it's about creating a hostile environment for any girl who excels. Here is how to contact the Shenandoah County School Board: https://www.shenandoah.k12.va.us/en-US/school-board-98fe2482 Here is a link to the current (as of August 2025) policy GBAB/JFHAB: https://spectrumpodcast.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/policy-jfhab-gbab-privacy-dignity-and-respect-for-all-students-and-parents-in-shenandoah-county-public-schools.pdf Here is a link to the proposed changes: https://spectrumpodcastorg.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/2025-07-10-proposed-change-to-section-iii.h.-of-code-jfhab_gbab.pdf
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    7 mins
  • Susie Wilburn Interview
    Jul 31 2025
    Join us for a conversation with Susie Wilburn. She is the president of the Woodstock, VA chapter of PFLAG. We discuss the history of the local.chapter, what the chapter does and Susie's motivation for becoming involved. Even if you aren't local to Shenandoah County, this can give you some insight into what P:FLAG is and perhaps encourage you to find your local PFLAG chapter or another local LGBTQ+ organization.
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    29 mins