Why do good men fall for women who embarrass or disrespect them publicly? In this video, we’re breaking down the 5 real reasons men keep choosing the wrong kind of love — and how to recognize when peace is being replaced by pride. If you value loyalty, emotional security, and God-centered relationships, this one’s for you.

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– How emotional guilt keeps men stuck

– When loyalty becomes self-sabotage

– The “peace vs. pride” decision moment

– How men can break the cycle through faith and discipline ❤️

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Ladies ❤️ if you’re tired of confusion, mixed signals, and chaos disguised as confidence — this one’s for you. Tonight we’re talking about how to recognize a high-value man based on his zodiac sign. Each sign has a healed version — calm, confident, emotionally intelligent — and tonight we’re breaking it all down. Joined by my panel — Rhonda and Mabricio — we explore how each zodiac sign loves when he’s grounded and ready for a real relationship. 💬 Drop your sign in the comments and tell us which energy feels safest to you. 🔥 Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE — we’re building a community for people who value peace over pressure. 📖 Grab my new book Ashes Between Us on Amazon Kindle — it’s all about rebuilding love from the ground up after heartbreak.

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Ladies — stop waiting for love to magically appear. The truth is, high-value men move differently, and you have to know where to find them ❤️. In this video, I reveal the Top 5 places to meet a man that’s truly a catch — and why it’s not about his looks or personality first, but his profession. From chamber of commerce meetings to coffee shops, these are the environments where men who lead, build, and create value spend their time. 💍 If you want clarity, not confusion, and love that lasts, this episode is for you. 👉 Watch ‘til the end — and let me know in the comments: which one of these surprised you the most?

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Love should feel safe, not confusing ❤️. Cardi B left Offset over cheating, only to face more drama with Stefon Diggs — now expecting his child while he has another new baby on the way. But this isn’t just a celebrity headline… it’s a lesson every woman can learn from. In this week’s podcast, I break down 5 clear signs that show if a man is really a catch — from grooming and discipline to how he spends his time. These are the clues that help you build love that lasts, instead of falling into heartbreak. 💍 Watch the replay now and share your thoughts in the comments — which of these 5 clues do you think matters most?

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🚨 Men — it’s cuffing season, and here’s the truth: Too many so-called 50/50 relationships end up 100/0 because men never take the lead from the beginning. In this episode, I break down the Top 5 Questions Men Should Ask Women BEFORE going on a first date — the questions that reveal if she has depth, values, and vision beyond just surface-level conversation. From asking about her proudest accomplishment, to who her mentor is, to what book she last read — these questions will show you if she’s ready for a real relationship, or if she’s just for the streets. 👉 Fellas, if you’re tired of wasting time, watch this before you step into cuffing season. And ladies, let’s see how you’d answer these questions in the comments 👇

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Ladies, let’s keep it real… most women think they know what keeps a man happy — but the truth is very different. In this video, I break down the 5 things women never do that men secretly want: from really listening, to protecting your relationship from family interference, to why men NEED 2 hours of peace every day. Plus, I’ll drop a bonus truth that’ll change how you look at relationships forever. 👉 If you want unfiltered relationship advice that men won’t say out loud, this is it. Watch until the end, subscribe for more raw conversations, and tell me in the comments — do you agree or disagree?

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The viral dating trend “Shrekking” is blowing up online, and it has people questioning modern love. According to the New York Post, Shrekking is all about “dating down” — choosing a less-attractive partner in hopes of finding stability, loyalty, or avoiding competition in relationships. But experts warn that it could backfire, leading to resentment, insecurity, or settling for the wrong reasons. In this podcast episode, we break down what Shrekking really means, why it’s trending in 2025, and whether “dating down” is smart or a disaster waiting to happen. We’ll also share personal takes, cultural commentary, and stories that will have you laughing while thinking twice about your own dating choices. If you’ve ever been tempted to “Shrek” or wonder if it’s happening in your circle, this conversation is for you. Watch until the end for the funniest takes — and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more unfiltered relationship discussions.

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Modern dating is a mess — and nobody wants to say the quiet part out loud. In this video, we break down the real reasons why dating in 2025 feels more toxic, more confusing, and more exhausting than ever before. From dating apps to ghosting to unrealistic expectations, we’re pulling no punches. Leave a comment below — do you agree, or do you think dating just evolved?

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