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The High Value Woman's Playbook

The High Value Woman's Playbook

By: Amanda Carroll
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 Welcome to The High Value Woman’s Playbook — the no-BS podcast for successful women who are done wasting time on situationships, unavailable men, and “good on paper” guys who leave you bored out of your mind. If you’ve ever thought, “Maybe I’m too much, maybe there aren’t any good men left, maybe I should just settle…” — girl, stop lying to yourself. You’re not too much. He’s just not enough.

This season, we’re blowing up the old dating rules. No more waiting to be chosen. No more outsourcing your love life to matchmakers. No more pretending “fine” is good enough. High-value women don’t need a provider. We need a partner. And I’m giving you the exact playbook to attract one. Every week, I’ll drop savage truth bombs, scandalous stories, and the strategies that will get you into a committed, passionate, high-value relationship in 5 dates or less. Period. This is raw. This is real. This is where you stop auditioning and start doing the choosing.Brave Podcast Network Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Men (and How to Build Reciprocal Love That Lasts)

    Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Men (and How to Build Reciprocal Love That Lasts)
    Nov 12 2025
    High-achieving and still feeling lost in love? In this episode, Amanda Carroll unpacks why smart, successful women keep choosing the wrong men—and how to break the cycle fast. You’ll learn how the “sex & status” blueprint conditions you to confuse adrenaline with chemistry, why your nervous system panics around healthy men, and the exact steps to rewire attraction toward reciprocal love—a partnership built on safety, respect, and mutual growth. In this episode, you’ll learn:
    • The real reason you’re drawn to emotionally unavailable men (it’s not your fault)
    • How “sex and status” trains your body to chase chaos over connection
    • What Reciprocal Love is—and how to recognize it on date one
    • The 6 Roots of Real Love to spot in a healthy partner
    • A simple nervous-system strategy to make peace feel like passion


    ❤️ Ready to stop chasing chaos and start attracting calm, committed love?
    Book your free Dating Strategy Call with Amanda Carroll.
    👉 Follow Amanda on Instagram @theamandacarroll for daily high-value woman mindset and dating tips
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    29 mins
  • Charlie Kirk Said Taylor Swift Should Submit—Here’s Why That Belief Breaks Relationships

    Charlie Kirk Said Taylor Swift Should Submit—Here’s Why That Belief Breaks Relationships
    Sep 16 2025
    I want to be clear: I am heartbroken that Charlie Kirk was murdered. My heart breaks for his wife, for his two young children, and for everyone affected by this tragedy.

    But I also want to be clear about something else: he should not be made a Christian martyr. Charlie Kirk built a platform that promoted racism, misogyny, and a relationship model that has harmed generations of women—telling us our highest calling is to stay home, have babies, and submit to our husbands.

    He even said Taylor Swift should “submit to her husband.” I said: Absolutely not. In this episode, I’m breaking down the real damage of patriarchal relationships—for women, for men, and for everyone. I know the cost because I paid it. I was the stay-at-home, Proverbs 31 wife. And it didn’t protect me. It broke me. Now I’m calling out the systems that keep women silent, broke, and stuck—and I’m giving you the tools to break free.

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    Get it Here: 10 Questions to Find an Emotionally Equal Partner
    Download your free guide: The High Value Woman’s Guide to Dating


    Want a high-value relationship without playing small? Let’s build your plan.
    📞 Book your free Dating Strategy Call with Amanda today

    DM Amanda:
    Want the checklist sent straight to you? Message me on Instagram @therealamandacarroll with the word FILTER.

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    36 mins
  • Dating in Your 40s: The Bad Bitch’s Guide to Believing in Love Again

    Dating in Your 40s: The Bad Bitch’s Guide to Believing in Love Again
    Aug 19 2025
    Welcome to the brand new High Value Woman’s Playbook — the no-BS guide to believing in love again. In this raw and unfiltered season premiere, Amanda Carroll shares why your love life doesn’t start in your bed — it starts in your head. If you’ve been stuck replaying “I’m too much” or “all men are trash” scripts, Amanda is going to teach you how to dismantle those mental blocks and rewire your thoughts for high-value love. Inside this episode:
    • The 5C Thought Capture Method to reset your dating mindset.
    • Why chemistry without consistency is chaos (and how to spot the difference).
    • How to date like a CEO: slow to hire, fast to fire, never rehire.
    • Where high-value men actually spend their time (hint: not in your DMs).
    • How to turn yourself on daily so you attract from overflow instead of lack.
    This isn’t another “just love yourself” pep talk. This is science + swagger to help you stop playing small, start setting boundaries, and finally meet the man who matches your ambition.

    ✨ Download your free guide: The High Value Woman’s Guide to Dating

    📞 Book your free Dating Strategy Call with Amanda today
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    48 mins
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