Divorce doesn’t have to be devastating.

It can be empowering when approached with clarity and the right support.

In this episode, I sit down with Karen Covy, divorce coach, attorney, and mediator, to explore how women can take control of the divorce process. We talk about choosing the right process for your situation, understanding your finances, and why preparation and strategy make all the difference in creating a smoother transition and stronger future.

Key Takeaways:

• The importance of choosing the divorce process that best fits your goals and circumstances
• Why most lawyers promote only the process they practice, and how coaching helps you find the right one for you
• How planning early and understanding your financial picture can prevent years of regret
• What it means to become the “CEO of your own divorce” and coordinate your full team
• Practical first steps to start regaining confidence and clarity if you feel stuck or afraid to move forward
• And more!

Resources:

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• Free Divorce Process Comparison Chart

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• LinkedIn: Karen Covy
• Website: Karen Covy
• Facebook: Karen Covy
• Instagram: @karencovylawyer
• X: Karen Covy
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About our Guest:

Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach, Lawyer, Mediator, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster. She coaches busy professionals and business owners all over the world to make clear, confident decisions about their most important relationships. She also helps them navigate through divorce with less conflict, unnecessary expense, and needless drama so that they can create the life they truly desire sooner rather than later. Karen is the author of When Happily Ever After Ends: How to Survive Your Divorce Emotionally, Financially, and Legally. She is also the creator of the online divorce programs, The Divorce Road Map 3.0 and How to Successfully Mediate Your Divorce, as well as the host of the podcast, Off the Fence: Mastering Decision-Making Divorce and More.

Understanding Social Security can feel complicated, especially when life events like divorce or widowhood come into play.

In this episode, I join Karen Covy on her podcast, Off The Fence, to walk through the rules that often matter most for women.

We discuss how full retirement age works, how spousal, ex-spousal, and survivor benefits are determined, and what to know about the 10-year marriage rule. Our conversation also covers the Social Security Fairness Act and how it affects certain workers with pensions.

Together, we outline key considerations that can help listeners better understand their options when planning for future income.

Key Topics:

• How full retirement age determines your benefit amount and why this number is critical to every Social Security decision
• The difference between spousal, ex-spousal, and survivor benefits, and how remarriage affects your eligibility
• The 10-year marriage rule for divorced individuals, and what documentation you need to claim benefits
• How the Social Security Fairness Act eliminated penalties that primarily affected women with pensions
• Strategic timing considerations when you’re still working and approaching retirement age
• And more!

Next week, Karen will be joining me on the Simply Retirement Podcast to discuss how women can move forward with strength and strategy after divorce. Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss it.

Resources:

• Get Your FREE Simply Retirement Roadmap
• Ultimate Guide to Women’s Social Security Success

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• www.TheSimplyRetirementPodcast.com
• Join the Simply Retirement Newsletter
• Ask a Question or Suggest a Topic for the Podcast
• Blake Wealth Management
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Connect with Karen Covy:

• LinkedIn: Karen Covy
• Website: Karen Covy
• Facebook: Karen Covy
• Instagram: @karencovylawyer
• X: Karen Covy
• YouTube: Karen Covy
• TikTok: Karen Covy

About our Guest:

Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach, Lawyer, Mediator, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster. She coaches busy professionals and business owners all over the world to make clear, confident decisions about their most important relationships. She also helps them navigate through divorce with less conflict, unnecessary expense, and needless drama so that they can create the life they truly desire sooner rather than later. Karen is the author of When Happily Ever After Ends: How to Survive Your Divorce Emotionally, Financially, and Legally. She is also the creator of the online divorce programs, The Divorce Road Map 3.0 and How to Successfully Mediate Your Divorce, as well as the host of the podcast, Off the Fence: Mastering Decision-Making Divorce and More.

Many people nearing retirement are unsure how recent rule changes might affect what they can receive.

What happens when long-standing limits disappear, and families finally gain access to benefits they were denied for years?

In this special replay, we revisit one of our most crucial and widely discussed episodes of the year: the one focusing on the Social Security Fairness Act.

I walk through the details of the Social Security Fairness Act and highlight its significant impact, especially on survivor and spousal benefits for women across the country. I explain how removing the Windfall Elimination Provision (WEP) and the Government Pension Offset (GPO) could open new income opportunities. Additionally, I discuss what these potential changes mean for teachers and public sector workers, and the immediate steps listeners should consider taking now.

Key takeaways:

• How eliminating WEP and GPO shifts eligibility for many women previously reduced or blocked from benefits
• Why survivor and spousal payments may now be available even if pensions once prevented them
• How timing, age, and filing strategies still influence benefit amounts
• Action steps for reviewing statements, applying promptly, and preparing for retroactive payments
• Why staying informed is essential as Social Security adjusts to this major policy change
• And more!

Resources:

• Get Your FREE Simply Retirement Roadmap
• Visit SSA.gov: To check Social Security statements and eligibility
• #14 – Top 5 Things Every Woman Should Know About Social Security
• #24 – Understanding Spousal (and Ex-Spousal) Social Security Benefits
• #32 – The Essentials of Social Security: An Insider’s Insights to Help You Plan with Confidence
• #37 – Top 5 Questions on Social Security Survivor Benefits

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• Ask a Question or Suggest a Topic for the Podcast
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Retirement planning doesn’t end once you stop working; it evolves.

In this episode, I wrap up my seven essential strategies for successful investing in retirement, focusing on two of the most pivotal: managing your tax burden and deciding whether to work with an advisor.

I share how to plan ahead for taxes, the importance of timing withdrawals, and why every woman deserves a seat at the financial table.

Key Takeaways:

• Why emotional decisions during market downturns often lead to poor outcomes
• How to manage your lifetime tax liability, not just your yearly one
• Why your retirement income plan should start 2–5 years before retiring
• The key questions to ask before hiring a financial advisor
• The importance of involving both spouses, especially women, in financial conversations
• And more!

Resources:

• Get Your FREE Simply Retirement Roadmap
• Website: Savvy Ladies
• Website: Purse Strings
• #48 – How to Pay Taxes in Retirement: What You Need to Know
• #54 – How Social Security Gets Taxed: What You Need to Know
• #65 – How the New Tax Law Could Impact Your Retirement
• #75 – Year-End Tax Planning Checklist for 2025
• #80 – Investing in Retirement – Part 1: It Starts with a Plan
• #81 – Investing in Retirement – Part 2: Changing the Way You Think About Retirement
• #82 – Investing in Retirement – Part 3: The Building Blocks of Your Retirement Portfolio

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Investing in retirement requires a completely different mindset, one focused on income, not just preservation.

In this episode, I continue our Seven Strategies for Successful Investing in Retirement series by explaining Strategy #4: Understanding the Role of Stocks in Retirement, and Strategy #5: The Value of Dividend Growth Investing.

Together, these two approaches show how stocks can generate sustainable income and growth throughout your retirement years.

Key Takeaways:

• Why stocks shouldn’t be viewed like gambling, and what their long-term record actually shows
• How a balanced stock and bond mix can fuel income growth over decades
• The real-world power of dividends to combat inflation and support retirement income
• Why reacting emotionally during market downturns often hurts long-term outcomes
• How dividend growth investing can provide ongoing income, compounding, and stability
• And more!

Resources:

• Get Your FREE Simply Retirement Roadmap
• #80 – Investing in Retirement – Part 1: It Starts with a Plan
• #81 – Investing in Retirement – Part 2: Changing the Way You Think About Retirement
• S&P 500 at Your Fingertips – Political Calculations (data for dividend and portfolio growth 1993–2022)
• Historical Returns of the S&P 500 – Aswath Damodaran, NYU Stern School of Business
• S&P 500 Earnings and Dividend Data – Aswath Damodaran, NYU Stern School of Business:
• The Power of Dividends – Hartford Funds / Ned Davis Research (Dividend growers vs. non-dividend payers, volatility comparison)
• Deconstructing 10, 20 & 30 Year Stock Market Returns – Ben Carlson, A Wealth of Common Sense

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• eric@blakewealthmanagement.com
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The S&P 500 Index is an unmanaged index of 500 large U.S. companies. It is not possible to invest directly in an index. Index returns do not include fees or expenses.

What if the way you’ve been told to protect your money in retirement is actually putting your future at risk?

In this episode, I continue our series on the seven essential strategies for successful investing in retirement. We tackle one of the most misunderstood aspects of retirement planning, defining the real purpose of your portfolio and reframing how you think about risk. This conversation is designed to shift your perspective from fear and preservation to growth and resilience.

Key takeaways include:

• Why “not running out of money” and “preserving principal” are often conflicting goals
• The impact of inflation and longevity on retirement income needs
• A real-life story about my grandmother’s retirement and long-term care costs
• How the financial crisis illustrates the value of having a retirement “war chest”
• Risk in retirement as “years of income” rather than portfolio percentages
• And more!

Resources:

• Get Your FREE Simply Retirement Roadmap
• #80 – Investing in Retirement, Part 1: It Starts with a Plan

Data References:

• Average Life Expectancy at Birth (U.S.)

• Across all demographics, the average life expectancy at birth in the U.S. is in the late 70s.
• Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), National Vital Statistics Reports

• Inflation & Purchasing Power
  • Historical U.S. inflation has averaged around 3% over the long term.
  • Source: U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics CPI Inflation Calculator
• 2008 Portfolio Decline (70/30 Portfolio)
  • A 70% stock / 30% bond portfolio declined approximately 24% during the Great Financial Crisis (calendar year 2008).
  • Source: Can Your Retirement Portfolio Survive a Stock Market Crash? Here’s How to Tell
• Great Financial Crisis Recovery Timeline
  • Source: The S&P 500 at Your Fingertips

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• eric@blakewealthmanagement.com

Retirement is shifting in ways that require new thinking, new planning, and new strategies.

In this episode, I launch a new series on the seven essential strategies for successful investing in retirement. I explain how today’s retirement looks different than past generations, why the Great Wealth Transfer is so impactful for women, and why starting with a clear financial plan is more important than ever.

In this conversation, we cover:

• How the retirement landscape has changed
• Why investing in retirement is different than investing for retirement
• The Great Wealth Transfer and its impact on women managing wealth for the first time
• How values and goals form the foundation of your financial roadmap
• Why a financial plan is the cornerstone of all retirement strategies
• And more!

Resources:

• Get Your FREE Simply Retirement Roadmap
• #50 – Women Will Soon Control the Financial Landscape – But Is the Financial Services Industry Ready?
• #56 – What Will You Do with Your 1,000 Hours a Year in Retirement?
• #72 – Exit Planning for Business Owners: Preparing Financially, Personally, and for Legacy

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Retirement isn’t just about slowing down. It’s about stepping into a chapter that feels alive with meaning and joy.

In this episode, I speak with Joy Levin, President of Gen X Exec Encore and Certified Professional Retirement Coach, about how Gen X women can reimagine retirement as an encore to life. Together, we explore how to shift from career identity to personal fulfillment, build meaningful relationships, and create a future that truly lights you up.

Joy discusses:

• The challenges Gen X professionals face when leaving long careers and redefining purpose
• Her “Mix Tapes to Meaning” framework, built around the five Rs: rewind, remix, reset, reconnect, and revive
• The role of consulting, volunteering, and passion projects in crafting an encore life
• How small actions and social connections can transform fulfillment in retirement
• Practical ways couples can align different visions of their retirement years
• And more!

Resources:

• Get Your FREE Simply Retirement Roadmap

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• www.TheSimplyRetirementPodcast.com
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Connect with Joy Levin:

• LinkedIn: Joy Levin
• Website: Gen X Exec Encore
• Email: jlevin@genxencorelife.com

About our Guest:

Joy Levin is the Founder and President of Gen X Exec Encore. In working with Gen X high-achieving professionals, she recognizes that for many, this next phase isn’t about traditional retirement—it’s about creating an encore that blends passion, purpose, and new opportunities.

As a market research consultant and entrepreneur for nearly three decades, Joy has guided executives and business owners across industries in making strategic, well-informed decisions. Like many Gen Xers, she wants a future in which she can remain productive, explore meaningful pursuits, and build new connections. With an honest, warm, friendly and highly professional approach, she guides accomplished professionals to discover their next purpose-driven chapter, empowering them to create an encore life with confidence and clarity.