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The Self-Confidence Project

The Self-Confidence Project

By: The Self-Confidence Project with Kimberly Hill
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The Self-Confidence Project is a weekly podcast featuring conversations on life, dating, relationships, confidence and motivation. In each episode, your host Kimberly Hill talks candidly about the stuff we all face in life and love. She shares an honest perspective to bring you the truth you need to hear - even if it's not pretty. If you're looking for relatable content and inspiring advice on how to transform your relationship and dating experience, tune into The SC Project.The Self-Confidence Project with Kimberly Hill Social Sciences
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  • Ep#259 - Stop Confusing Intensity With Intimacy (How to Stop Making Painful Dating Decisions)
    Dec 18 2025

    In this episode, I'll be sharing essential insights on why the intense feelings you might experience when dating after a divorce, separation, or the end of a long-term relationship are often misinterpreted as love. You'll learn the signs of nervous system activation versus genuine intimacy, how the anxious-avoidant rollercoaster can affect your relationships, and tips to differentiate between short-term excitement and lasting love. This episode is packed with practical advice to help you break the cycle of confusing intensity with intimacy and move towards healthy, fulfilling relationships.

    P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch it here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Ready for tailored support? ⁠⁠Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and let’s map out your next steps.

    If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Look here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.

    See you next week,<3 Kimberly

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    25 mins
  • Ep#258 - Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out
    Dec 11 2025

    In this episode, I'll be sharing the subtle signs and signals that indicate a woman is interested in you. Many men wish dating were more straightforward, but understanding female interest requires recognizing patterns in body language, verbal cues, and situational signs over time. I'll walk you through these key indicators, why women signal instead of directly pursuing, and how to confidently respond to these signals. Perfect for men re-entering the dating scene, especially after a divorce or long-term relationship, this guide will help demystify the dating world and enhance your relational success. Plus, get tips on communication with my audio masterclass.

    P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch it here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Ready for tailored support? ⁠⁠Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and let’s map out your next steps.

    If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Look here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.

    See you next week,<3 Kimberly

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    21 mins
  • Ep#257 - Divorced Men: This Is Why You Feel So Alone (And How To Regain Yourself)
    Dec 4 2025

    In this episode, I'll be sharing an important discussion about the intense feelings of loneliness that men often experience after a divorce. You'll learn that these feelings are natural reactions to the disruption of your attachment system. I'll explain why this loneliness feels so powerful for men and how you can respond to it constructively. I'll guide you on how to avoid falling into the traps of desperation or unhealthy relationships. Understand the importance of reconnecting with yourself and your social infrastructure first before diving back into romantic relationships. Join me as we navigate the complexities of post-divorce recovery and emotional growth.

    P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch it here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Ready for tailored support? ⁠⁠Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and let’s map out your next steps.

    If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Look here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.

    See you next week,<3 Kimberly

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    21 mins
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