• Providing Hope in Ukraine
    Jun 11 2025

    What did you think? Text us by clicking here! We are unable to reply on this app, so include phone # or email address.

    In this episode, host David Nakhla speaks with Elder Mark Agarkov of Kharkiv Presbyterian Church and OPC missionary Heero Hacquebord to get an update on the situation in Ukraine, now three years into the war. Mark shares about the ongoing suffering in the eastern region of Kharkiv—just 20 miles from the front lines—the support they've received from generous U.S. donors, and the deep sense of care they've experienced amid hardship. He also reflects on how many are being drawn to Christ through their suffering, the work that the ministry of the church is doing, and the lasting physical and emotional toll the war is taking. Heero provides updates on his family, his church, and the ongoing work of Crates for Ukraine, an initiative of the Presbyterian Church in America that continues to bring aid to those in need.

    Referenced in this episode:

    Listeners can find more details and make direct donations on the Kharkiv Presbyterian Church website: https://www.kharkivpresbyterianministry.com. There, you can also subscribe to receive their monthly updates. Alternatively, you can email Mark Agarkov, and he will add you to the list: mark.agarkov@gmail.com.

    Additionally, here is the link to their WhatsApp group where they regularly post photos: https://chat.whatsapp.com/FhrlLtJWtdB4sjbizl3FaA.

    Cratesforukraine.com, Heero's (easy) e-mail address ukraine.europe@me.com, and if you would like to get the Hacquebord's prayer letters and read older issues you can do so with this long link: https://us7.campaign-archive.com/home/?u=49d839383d86ec3614b01b767&id=7be70c1b6a.

    Prayer Requests from Mark and Heero

    Prayer Requests from Mark Agarkov (Kharkiv Presbyterian Church)

    • For stable peace in Ukraine, along with lasting justice, national freedom, and the continued blessing of religious freedom.
    • For Ukrainian pastors, elders, and ministry leaders—for courage, endurance, and faithfulness under pressure, as well as for more workers to meet the overwhelming needs of Gospel ministry.
    • For prayer for spiritual revival in Ukraine, that the suffering of war would lead many to seek Christ and that the nation would experience a widespread turning to Jesus.
    • For prayer for their social ministry, as needs grow while donations have declined. He asks that Ukraine would remain on people's hearts and that God would provide resources to serve both now and in the long recovery ahead.
    • For safety, especially for families and children, amid frequent drone attacks and shelling near Kharkiv.
    • For their summer trip to the U.S., that doors would open for them to travel legally, that the time would be fruitful, and that th

    You can find all of our episodes at thereformeddeacon.org. Make sure to follow us on your favorite podcast player, so you don't miss an episode. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for giveaways and more information. Find other resources on OPCCDM.org. Make sure to send us some feedback on your podcast player or ask a diaconal question by going to OPCCDM.org.

    Show More Show Less
    49 mins
  • Real World Cases: Unique Financial Circumstances
    Jun 1 2025

    What did you think? Text us by clicking here! We are unable to reply on this app, so include phone # or email address.

    In this episode, host Tim Hopper (Shiloh OPC, Raleigh, NC) is joined by fellow seasoned deacons Lynne Hunter (Harvest OPC, Wyoming, MI) and Bob Keys (Grace OPC, Columbus, OH) to wrestle through several thought-provoking real-world scenarios.

    Consider what you might do if your church had a budget surplus or a woman visits your church asking for rent money for her motel stay; what the proper process is when a charity approaches your diaconate for support or when a church member asks for tuition help for her last semester of art school.

    Tune in to hear how Tim, Lynne, and Bob suggest working through each scenario—and then bring the conversation to your own diaconate! A few of these were submitted by Joel Vander Kooi, a deacon at Redeemer OPC in Airdrie, Alberta—thanks, Joel! (He got a cool The Reformed Deacon t-shirt for his suggestions.)

    Referenced in this episode:

    Suggested guidelines and questions for a deacon to ask a stranger

    You can find all of our episodes at thereformeddeacon.org. Make sure to follow us on your favorite podcast player, so you don't miss an episode. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for giveaways and more information. Find other resources on OPCCDM.org. Make sure to send us some feedback on your podcast player or ask a diaconal question by going to OPCCDM.org.

    Show More Show Less
    38 mins
  • Helping Those Struggling with Mental Health
    May 1 2025

    What did you think? Text us by clicking here! We are unable to reply on this app, so include phone # or email address.

    In this episode of The Reformed Deacon, host Rev. Adrian Crum speaks with Rev. John Fikkert, a mental health counselor and Director of the OPC Committee on Ministerial Care, and his wife, Dr. Lindsay Fikkert, a psychologist at Pella Counseling. Together, they offer deep and compassionate insight into how deacons—and entire congregations—can come alongside those facing mental health struggles such as anxiety, depression, and grief. This conversation is rich with practical suggestions and gospel-centered encouragement for caring well within the church. Adrian also shares personally how John, through his role in the Committee on Ministerial Care, supported him during a difficult season.

    It’s a longer episode, but well worth the time. Don't forget your notepad—you’ll want to remember the many takeaways.

    Referenced in this episode:

    • The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Jonathan Haidt
    • OPC Book of Church Order (chapter 11 on deacons)

    You can find all of our episodes at thereformeddeacon.org. Make sure to follow us on your favorite podcast player, so you don't miss an episode. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for giveaways and more information. Find other resources on OPCCDM.org. Make sure to send us some feedback on your podcast player or ask a diaconal question by going to OPCCDM.org.

    Show More Show Less
    1 hr and 30 mins
  • Flood Insurance
    Apr 1 2025

    What did you think? Text us by clicking here! We are unable to reply on this app, so include phone # or email address.

    In this episode, host Peter Haines, elder at Concho Valley OPC in Concho Valley, AZ, leads a discussion with Brian Tilton, deacon at Trinity OPC in Hatboro, PA, and co-owner of Millham Companies, a personal and business insurance firm in Pennsylvania. Together, they explore the topic of flood insurance—its importance, how it works, and its role in our responsibility as stewards of what God has entrusted to us. They also discuss how deacons can collaborate with congregants to help them make informed decisions about the relevance of flood insurance for their families. We hope this conversation will serve as a valuable resource, particularly for deacons as they assist church families in evaluating their budgets.

    You can find all of our episodes at thereformeddeacon.org. Make sure to follow us on your favorite podcast player, so you don't miss an episode. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for giveaways and more information. Find other resources on OPCCDM.org. Make sure to send us some feedback on your podcast player or ask a diaconal question by going to OPCCDM.org.

    Show More Show Less
    22 mins
  • Helping Your Congregation Understand a Deacon's Role
    Mar 1 2025

    What did you think? Text us by clicking here! We are unable to reply on this app, so include phone # or email address.

    In this episode, host John Stahl (deacon at Immanuel OPC, Wilmington, DE) leads a discussion with Shiloh OPC, Raleigh, NC Deacon Tim Hopper and Harvest OPC in Wyoming, MI Associate Pastor of Youth and Evangelism Adrian Crum to consider practical ways to help your congregation understand that a deacon's role extends beyond taking the offering and performing building maintenance.

    Referenced in this episode:

    • The Letters of John Newton (Hardcover Banner of Truth Edition)
    • The Deacon: Biblical Foundations for Today's Ministry of Mercy by Cornelis Van Dam
    • The Reformed Deacon podcast hosted by the OPC Committee on Diaconal Ministries
    • “Finding the Next Deacon” (S4: E 4 Feb. 2025 episode of TRD)
    • “The Heart of a Deacon” (S 3: E18 Sept. 2024 episode of TRD)
    • “How the Westminster Standards Relate to Deacons” (S3: E 9 April 2024 episode of TRD)
    • “A Study of Acts 6 with RHM Charles Biggs” (S 2: E 12 June 2023 episode of TRD)
    • “The Deacon is No Small Office” C. Nick Willborn (audio from PSE 2018)
    • OPC Book of Church Order (Section 11 on Deacons)
    • The OPC Committee on Diaconal Ministries (CDM) website
    • OPC Presbytery Diaconal Summit 2025
    • OPC National Diaconal Summit 2026

    You can find all of our episodes at thereformeddeacon.org. Make sure to follow us on your favorite podcast player, so you don't miss an episode. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for giveaways and more information. Find other resources on OPCCDM.org. Make sure to send us some feedback on your podcast player or ask a diaconal question by going to OPCCDM.org.

    Show More Show Less
    37 mins
  • Finding the Next Deacon
    Feb 1 2025

    What did you think? Text us by clicking here! We are unable to reply on this app, so include phone # or email address.

    In this episode, Revs. Chris Cashen and Bill Shishko consider how churches might identify men called to the office of deacon, drawing from 1 Timothy 3:8-13. Many congregations and church plants either lack deacons entirely or may not have enough to meet their needs. How can a church discern and recognize those whom God may be calling to this vital role? Join seasoned pastors Bill and Chris as they offer thoughtful guidance on following the Holy Spirit's leading in identifying future deacons.

    Referenced in this episode:
    1 Timothy 3:8-13
    Acts 6
    A Training Program for Deacons

    About the guest:
    Rev. Bill Shishko bio



    You can find all of our episodes at thereformeddeacon.org. Make sure to follow us on your favorite podcast player, so you don't miss an episode. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for giveaways and more information. Find other resources on OPCCDM.org. Make sure to send us some feedback on your podcast player or ask a diaconal question by going to OPCCDM.org.

    Show More Show Less
    44 mins
  • Practical Disaster Response
    Jan 1 2025

    What did you think? Text us by clicking here! We are unable to reply on this app, so include phone # or email address.

    In this episode, host David Nakhla talks with three men: one whose family suffered damage to their home through regional flooding, one whose family suffered devastating property loss as a result of a fire, and one who has aided in a variety of disasters over the years. They share with us from the recipient's perspective in order to aid deacons and church families understand and gain some practical tips for aiding those in crises. Their experiences have taught them an appreciation for being a part of Christ’s church during difficult times, how the actions of others helped them through their ordeal and the lessons that can sometimes come in dealing with the aftermath.

    Referenced in this episode:
    5 Initial Steps to disaster response
    OPC Disaster Response website
    OPC Disaster Response on Facebook
    OPC Disaster Response on Instagram
    OPC Disaster Response effort in western North Carolina
    OPC Disaster Response effort in Florida

    You can find all of our episodes at thereformeddeacon.org. Make sure to follow us on your favorite podcast player, so you don't miss an episode. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for giveaways and more information. Find other resources on OPCCDM.org. Make sure to send us some feedback on your podcast player or ask a diaconal question by going to OPCCDM.org.

    Show More Show Less
    57 mins
  • Thinking Outside the Box
    Dec 1 2024

    What did you think? Text us by clicking here! We are unable to reply on this app, so include phone # or email address.

    In this episode, host David Nakhla talks with two deacons, David Pendergrass, Covenant Reformed OPC in West Plains, MO, and Greg Harrison, Second Parish OPC, Scarborough, ME, who have, through the Lord's leading, found their professional calling largely based in the ministry of mercy. These two unique examples of thinking outside the box may not represent the Lord's calling for everyone, but David and Greg encourage deacons to look for ways in their lives to follow where the Lord is leading as they think outside the box.

    Referenced in this episode:
    Hearts of Hope
    Sweetwater Research
    James 1:27
    John 14:18
    Practicing the King's Economy by Michael J. Rhodes, Robby Holt, Brian Fikkert
    David Pendergrass' church: Covenant Reformed OPC, West Plains, MO
    Greg Harrison's Church: Second Parish OPC, Scarborough, ME
    The Life of Lilian Trasher: Nile Mother by Beth Prim Howell
    Mark and Debbie MacLachlan
    "To the Least of These" David Nakhla’s trip to Romania to visit Greg Harrison
    Jeremiah 29:7
    Contact David Pendergrass (dpendergrass@sweetwaterresearch.org)
    Contact Greg Harrison (gregory26466@gmail.com)

    Prayer requests:

    David:

    • An increase in needed donations for Sweetwater Research
    • Full-time remote work for David
    • Add to Sweetwater board members

    Greg:

    • Praying that people gifted in teaching would come alongside to help teach their kids
    • Looking for a place to purchase
    • A body of Christ to be raised up nearby for the family to be fed spiritually
    • Younger people to help serve with Hearts of Hope
    • Funding to aid additional orphans




    You can find all of our episodes at thereformeddeacon.org. Make sure to follow us on your favorite podcast player, so you don't miss an episode. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for giveaways and more information. Find other resources on OPCCDM.org. Make sure to send us some feedback on your podcast player or ask a diaconal question by going to OPCCDM.org.

    Show More Show Less
    1 hr and 13 mins