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The Rebuilt Man

The Rebuilt Man

By: Coach Frank Rich
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Welcome to The Rebuilt Man, I’m Coach Frank, founder of Rebuilt Recovery and we exist here to help you become a better man, by quitting porn, and rebuilding your life. My life changed in 2019 when I finally found freedom from a 20+ year addiction to pornography, and I’ve made it my mission since that day to help other men, just like me & you, find the freedom you deserve. Join us and jump onboard as we provide daily tips and insights to build the necessary mindset to achieve greatness, as well as practical steps to get to the root of our addiction and build a life where pornography is no longer an option. I believe men are called to greatness in this life, and it starts with learning to control our sexual desires. Gentlemen, let’s get ready to Rebuild Your Life and become the man God has called you to be. Welcome to The Rebuilt Man Let’s get in to today’s episode2023 Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success
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  • The Hidden Link Between Nice Guy Syndrome & Porn Addiction | Ep. 287
    Oct 10 2025

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    Most men think they watch porn because they’re horny... but the truth runs much deeper.

    In this powerful episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich exposes the hidden connection between Nice Guy Syndrome and porn addiction and why so many men stay stuck in cycles of shame, avoidance, and false comfort.

    You’ll learn how cultural conditioning trains men to suppress their truth, perform for approval, and seek validation through pleasure instead of purpose. Porn becomes the safe escape for the Nice Guy, a place where he can feel desired without ever facing rejection, risk, or reality.

    Frank breaks down how this pattern weakens masculine power, destroys intimacy, and keeps men spiritually numb and more importantly, how to break free.

    Through truth, brotherhood, and structure, you can learn to confront fear head-on, reclaim your masculine edge, and live as the man God created you to be.

    Expect to Learn:

    • Why most men don’t watch porn out of lust but out of fear

    • How Nice Guy Syndrome creates avoidance, passivity, and emotional disconnection

    • The real reason porn feels safe and why it’s destroying your confidence

    • Why love without truth is manipulation

    • How reclaiming masculine aggression and integrity restores power

    • The role of brotherhood in lasting transformation

    • Why structure, discipline, and truth are the foundation of freedom

    Key Takeaways:

    • Porn isn’t about desire, it’s about avoiding truth and rejection

    • Nice Guys seek comfort over confrontation and that’s what keeps them weak

    • False intimacy through porn leads to shame and disconnection

    • Masculine strength is built through truth, boundaries, and courage

    • Brotherhood and accountability are the antidotes to isolation

    • Freedom requires structure, discipline, and a clear mission

    • The world doesn’t need more Nice Guys… it needs Rebuilt Men

    Connect & Take Action

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for a free 7-day trial and get access to live coaching, accountability, and the tools to finally break free.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

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    9 mins
  • 15 HIDDEN MISTAKES That Keep Men From Quitting Porn for Good | Ep. 286
    Oct 8 2025

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    Most men trying to quit porn are doing it wrong.


    They rely on willpower. They isolate. They treat symptoms instead of getting to the root.

    In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes 15 of the most common mistakes men make when trying to quit porn and why these traps keep even high-performing men stuck in a cycle of relapse, shame, and frustration.

    You’ll discover:

    • Why quitting porn is NOT about willpower

    • How to stop relying on short-term fixes and step into true transformation

    • The role of identity, brotherhood, and vision in long-term freedom

    This isn’t just about quitting a habit, it’s about becoming the man you were created to be.

    If you’re serious about getting free from porn and finally breaking the cycle for good, this episode will give you the clarity, conviction, and roadmap to do it.

    Top Takeaways:

    • Quitting porn requires rewiring your brain, not just resisting harder

    • Isolation keeps you stuck, freedom happens in community

    • You must replace the habit, not just remove it

    • A relapse is feedback, not failure

    • Transformation doesn’t happen “someday”... it starts now

    Connect & Take Action

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for a free 7-day trial and get access to live coaching, accountability, and the tools to finally break free.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

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    14 mins
  • How to Quit Porn for Good: Triggers, Honesty & The Real Path to Freedom (Q&A Episode) | Ep. 285
    Oct 6 2025

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    In this first-ever Rebuilt Man Q&A, Coach Frank Rich is joined by Head Coach Arnold Czibrik to answer real questions from men inside the Brotherhood community and audience.

    They tackle three powerful questions every man in the struggle has asked:


    1️⃣ Why can’t I stop watching porn?


    2️⃣ How do I tell my wife about my addiction without breaking her heart?


    3️⃣ Why do I get triggered out of nowhere?

    Frank and Arnold break down the mindset shifts, practical steps, and deep truths every man needs to hear if he’s serious about walking in freedom. Expect raw honesty, biblical wisdom, and real solutions to help you stop fighting lust and start rebuilding your life.

    Expect to Learn

    • Why asking better questions leads to breakthrough

    • How radical honesty rebuilds trust in marriage

    • The truth about “random triggers” and emotional awareness

    • How to move from victim mentality to full ownership

    • Why desire—not discipline—is the real key to freedom

    Powerful Quotes

    “You don’t beat porn by fighting harder — you beat it by outgrowing the man who needs it.”

    “Radical honesty is painful at first, but it’s the only path to rebuilding trust.”

    “Triggers don’t come out of nowhere — they come from a lack of awareness.”

    Connect & Take Action

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for a free 7-day trial and get access to live coaching, accountability, and the tools to finally break free.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

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    33 mins
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