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The Real Era with Ms Shanita: Unfiltered

The Real Era with Ms Shanita: Unfiltered

By: I am Ms Shanita
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 This isn’t a podcast for perfection, it’s a space for women healing out loud, growing quietly, and choosing clarity over closure. I’m Ms. Shanita, and here we speak unfiltered truth about love, loss, healing, boundaries, culture, and whatever life throws at us—because real talk isn’t always pretty, but it’s always necessary. From late-night soul talks to viral headlines, we’re peeling back the layers and protecting our peace. 🔥 New episodes weekly 🎤 Real stories. Raw lessons. No apologies. If you’ve been through something and you’re finally ready to grow through it, this is your era.I am Ms Shanita Social Sciences
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  • Ep. 12 When Money Is About Safety, Not Status—Especially When Kids Are Involved

    Ep. 12 When Money Is About Safety, Not Status—Especially When Kids Are Involved
    Feb 1 2026

    Money isn’t about luxury, lifestyle, or impressing people when you’re responsible for children — it’s about safety, stability, and survival.


    In this episode of The Real Era, Ms. Shanita breaks down the truth about how women — especially single mothers — think about money, relationships, and risk in ways that are often misunderstood or unfairly judged.


    This episode explores:

    • ​ Why women don’t gamble with financial stability
    • ​ How motherhood changes the way women approach money
    • ​ Why “just leave” isn’t realistic when kids are involved
    • ​ How financial insecurity traps women in unhealthy relationships
    • ​ The difference between status money and survival money
    • ​ Why emotional safety and financial safety are connected


    If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship, job, or living situation longer than you wanted because of money, housing, or fear of instability — this episode will help you understand why and release the shame around it.


    This conversation is about:

    single mothers, financial security, emotional safety, relationships, parenting, boundaries, survival, and rebuilding stability.


    This is not about being materialistic.

    This is about protecting your future — and your children.


    Welcome to The Real Era.
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    21 mins
  • Ep. 11 Stop Explaining Yourself to People Who Don’t Care.

    Ep. 11 Stop Explaining Yourself to People Who Don’t Care.
    Jan 24 2026

    If someone truly cares, they don’t need a long explanation to respect you.


    In this episode of The Real Era, Ms. Shanita breaks down why over-explaining is often a survival response — and how it keeps you stuck trying to be understood by people who benefit from misunderstanding you.


    We talk about why emotionally unavailable people demand clarity but never give validation, how over-explaining drains your energy, and what it looks like to move with quiet confidence instead of constant justification.


    This episode is for anyone learning how to choose peace, protect their emotional space, and stop performing for people who don’t value them.


    You don’t owe everyone your story.

    You owe yourself your peace.
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    15 mins
  • Ep.10 Seeing Who Actually Values You: Stop Bending Your Needs to Fit Their Patterns

    Ep.10 Seeing Who Actually Values You: Stop Bending Your Needs to Fit Their Patterns
    Jan 10 2026

    In this layered episode of The Real Era with Ms. Shanita: Unfiltered, we explore two deeply connected conversations about relationships, effort, and self-worth.


    Part one focuses on recognizing who actually values you — and learning to stop bending your needs to fit someone else’s pattern. Being valued isn’t about words or occasional gestures; it’s about consistency, emotional intelligence, effort, and follow-through. If you’ve ever felt drained, unseen, or like you’re always adjusting to keep a connection alive, this conversation brings clarity.


    In part two, we go deeper into effort — and the difference between people who truly try and people who only try what’s easy. We unpack why some people react, minimize, or judge when you stop bending, grow, or move differently. This is about understanding emotional maturity, projection, avoidance, and why effort often exposes what others avoided.


    This episode is for anyone navigating:

    • ​ low-effort relationships
    • ​ emotional imbalance
    • ​ boundary setting
    • ​ healing and personal growth
    • ​ clarity over closure
    • ​ self-respect and emotional intelligence
    • ​ recognizing patterns instead of excuses


    This is not about blame.

    It’s about awareness, boundaries, and peace.


    If you’re in a season of growth, healing, and choosing yourself — this episode will help you see clearly and move forward grounded.
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    14 mins
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