• 97. Beyond ‘What Do You Do?’: A Gen Z Approach to Authentic Networking with Errika Brooks, Founder of Gen Z Times
    Oct 16 2025

    In episode 97, I’m joined by Errika S. Brooks, founder of Gen Z Times (GZT), a platform created to amplify and empower Gen Z by helping them navigate career challenges, build meaningful connections, and define success in their own way.


    With over seven years of experience across higher education, nonprofit leadership, and youth-focused partnerships, Errika blends strategy, creativity, and student development to design spaces that reflect the needs and values of Gen Z, especially BIPOC and LGBTQ+ audiences. As a youth advocate, community strategist, and Gen Z’s biggest cheerleader, she brings an authentic and heart-centered perspective to every conversation about connection and belonging.


    Together, we explore how Gen Z is redefining networking, moving beyond the question “What do you do?” toward authentic, community-driven connection. Networking has long been seen as awkward or transactional, but Gen Z is shifting that narrative by focusing on shared interests, values, and belonging. Errika shares how her After 5 Experiment networking events help people connect without the pressure of titles or business cards and what professionals of all generations can learn from this human-centered approach to building relationships.


    In this episode, I cover:

    • How Gen Z is moving beyond the question “What do you do?”

    • Why authentic networking starts with shared humanity, not hierarchy

    • What it looks like to create safety and inclusion in professional spaces

    • How to network across, not just up, and why peer connections matter

    • The mindset shift needed to make networking feel natural instead of forced


    Key Takeaways:

    • Networking doesn’t have to be transactional—it can start with friendship

    • You don’t need to “network up” to grow; building across your peers matters just as much

    • Authenticity and inclusion make spaces safer and more effective for everyone

    • Community and consistency are key to meaningful connections


    Chapters:

    00:12 Guest Introduction and Networking Shift

    02:32 Errika Brooks’s Career Journey

    05:39 Critique of Prescriptive Networking

    09:14 Gen Z Networking Principles

    12:53 DC Networking Experiment Format

    17:52 Prompt Effects and Accessibility

    22:37 Networking as Peer Community

    26:53 Alignment, Career Pivots, and Next Steps

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  • 96. How to Make Career Moves Without Second-Guessing Everything
    Oct 9 2025

    In episode 96, we’re talking about how to make bold career moves without spiraling into overthinking or second-guessing every step.


    Big decisions, whether it’s pivoting industries, leaving corporate, or starting a business, will always come with fear and uncertainty. That’s why I use a framework with my clients called the ABC Plan, designed to help you name what you really want, prepare for the hard moments, and create the safety net you need to move forward with confidence.


    In this episode, I cover:

    • How to define your Plan A, your boldest vision, without worrying about practicality

    • Why creating a Plan B helps you navigate the messy middle when things get tough

    • How Plan C builds the psychological safety to take risks without panic

    • Real client stories of making big career pivots, from corporate jobs to new cities and businesses

    • Practical ways to reduce stress, detach from outcomes, and keep momentum even when challenges show up


    If you’ve been stuck in hesitation or caught in loops of “what ifs,” this episode will show you how to ground your decisions in clarity and create the confidence to finally move forward.


    Key Takeaways:

    • Your boldest goals must be named before they can be achieved

    • Challenges are inevitable, prepare for them instead of quitting when they come

    • A safety net creates the confidence to take calculated risks

    • Detaching from outcomes helps you show up with clarity and energy


    Chapters:

    00:00 ABC Plan: Define Plan A Vision

    04:06 Start with a Bold Desired Outcome

    06:41 Plan B: Prepare for Hard Moments

    09:50 Navigating the Messy Middle

    15:04 Plan C: Build Psychological Safety

    18:28 Managing Uncertainty with a Safety Net


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  • 95: You Want to Start a Side Business But Don’t Know Where to Start
    Oct 2 2025

    So many people sit on a side business idea for months or even years because they think they need the perfect plan before taking the first step.


    If you’ve been circling your idea, asking yourself if you’re “ready,” or stuck in research mode, this episode is your reminder that clarity comes from action, not overthinking.


    I’m sharing client stories and my own experience of waiting too long to start, along with the practical steps I now guide clients through to move from hesitation into momentum.


    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why hesitation and self-doubt keep you stuck in the “what ifs”

    • How to start small by offering one simple service with skills you already have

    • The first concrete steps to test your idea with real feedback instead of procrastinating

    • How to identify your first clients and where to find them

    • Why consistency, not intensity, is what builds a sustainable side business


    If you’ve been sitting on an idea but don’t know where to start, this episode will help you move forward with clarity, strategy, and energy that lasts.


    Key Takeaways:

    • The first version of your business won’t be the final version, start anyway

    • You don’t need a perfect plan, you need one clear step

    • Testing with real people builds clarity faster than more research

    • Consistency is what creates momentum


    Chapters:

    00:00 Internal Hesitation Blocking Side Businesses

    03:17 Start Small Using Existing Expertise

    07:38 Concrete First Steps to Avoid Procrastination

    11:17 Define Ideal Client and Test Reach Channels

    13:50 Start Small and Protect Energy


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  • 94. From Career Clarity to Side Business Strategy - How Clients Are Building Both
    Sep 25 2025

    In episode 94, we’re talking about what happens when career clarity sparks something bigger, a vision for your life.


    For many of my clients, clarity doesn’t just lead to the next job title or salary increase. It opens the door to freedom, creativity, and the possibility of building a business alongside their career. In this episode, I share how clients are exploring both paths at once, from testing side business ideas to creating boundaries that prevent burnout, and why you don’t have to choose between being a leader in your career and building something of your own.


    In this episode, I cover:

    • How career clarity often reveals deeper values and life goals beyond titles and paychecks

    • Why you don’t need to quit your job to start a side business

    • The mindset shift required to move away from “all or nothing” thinking

    • How to experiment with small projects before going all in

    • Practical strategies to balance career advancement with entrepreneurship


    If you’ve been wondering whether you have to choose between stability and freedom, or career growth and entrepreneurship, this conversation will show you that it’s possible to build both, without burning yourself out.


    Key Takeaways:

    • Career clarity can reveal bigger life visions, not just job titles

    • You don’t need to burn it all down to start a side business

    • Experimentation creates clarity without the pressure of full commitment

    • Boundaries, timelines, and support systems make balancing both paths possible


    Chapters:

    00:00 Career Clarity Reveals Life Vision

    03:44 Transition Toward Wellness-Focused Work

    07:13 Reframing Mindset for Side Businesses

    11:47 Experimentation Over Full Commitment

    17:01 Parallel Career Advancement and Ventures

    20:42 Practical Pathways for Dual Careers


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  • 93: How My Clients Use AI Tools to Get Unstuck and Land Interviews
    Sep 18 2025

    In episode 93, we’re talking about how AI can actually support your job search and why it’s a tool, not a strategy.


    If you’ve been stuck in research mode, endlessly tweaking your resume, or wondering if using AI is “cheating,” this episode will give you a grounded perspective on how to use it effectively. I share how my clients integrate AI into their job search and career pivots, from resumes and cover letters to networking and interview prep, so they can move faster and with more clarity.


    In this episode, I cover:

    • Why AI alone won’t get you unstuck in your job search

    • How my clients use AI to streamline resumes, cover letters, and LinkedIn updates

    • Ways AI can make networking and interview prep less overwhelming

    • How workshops and accountability create space to learn and apply new tools


    Key Takeaways:

    • AI is a tool, not a job search strategy

    • Clarity must come first, AI amplifies what you bring to it

    • Using AI can speed up tedious tasks so you can focus on strategy and confidence

    • Accountability and community make learning new tools more effective


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to AI in Job Search

    07:16 AI as a Tool, Not a Strategy

    15:10 Streamlining Job Search with AI

    21:44 Workshops and Continuous Learning


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  • 92. Client Interview: How Jasmine Went from Avoiding Networking to Ambassador for Leading 300+ Women
    Sep 11 2025

    In episode 92, I’m joined by my client, Jasmine, who shares her journey from feeling stuck at the manager level to stepping into leadership, building confidence in networking, and navigating a major industry transition.

    Over the last year and a half, Jasmine has transformed how she approaches her career, from advocating for promotions and leading with visibility to embracing new opportunities with clarity and confidence. In this conversation, we explore what it looks like to set clear goals, push past perfectionism, and build a leadership style rooted in trust and celebration.

    In this episode, I cover:

    • How Jasmine went from dreading networking to becoming a city ambassador for a women’s networking group

    • The strategies she used to advocate for a promotion and increase her visibility at work

    • Why direct, concise communication and accountability shifted her confidence in leadership

    • What it looks like to embrace an industry change and lean on transferable skills

    • The role coaching played in helping her stay accountable, celebrate wins, and step into her leadership voice

    Key Takeaways:

    • Networking confidence can be built step by step with the right strategies

    • Visibility and self-advocacy are essential for career growth

    • Celebrating small wins fuels confidence and momentum

    • Transferable skills allow you to thrive, even when changing industries

    Chapters:

    01:32 Introductions and Coaching Context

    04:11 Clarifying Career Goals and Plan

    10:17 Networking Transformation and Strategies

    14:29 Developing Direct, Concise Communication

    19:29 Advocating for Promotion Through Visibility

    25:49 Practical Leadership Development and Decision-Making

    31:19 Emotional Arc of Industry Transition

    34:28 Onboarding Strategies and Managing Perfectionism

    38:44 Changing Industries and Transferable Skills

    44:01 Evaluating Coaching Fit and Next Steps

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    47 mins
  • 91. When You’re Overperforming and Still Undervalued
    Sep 4 2025

    In episode 91, we’re talking about why overperforming is not a strategy for advancement and what to do instead when you’re working harder than ever but still not being recognized.

    If you’ve been the go-to person, taking on extra tasks, staying late, and doing more than your share only to feel undervalued or overlooked, this episode is for you. I’m breaking down why overperforming doesn’t guarantee promotions, the emotional toll it takes, and how to shift into strategies that actually get you seen and supported.

    In this episode, I cover:

    • Why overperforming often backfires when it comes to career growth

    • The hidden emotional cost of working harder but still feeling undervalued

    • How boundaries and visibility create real opportunities for advancement

    • Practical strategies for self-advocacy, recognition, and sustainable success

    Key Takeaways:

    • Overperforming is not a promotion strategy

    • Recognition comes from visibility, not just hard work

    • Boundaries and communication are essential for sustainable success

    • You don’t have to prove your worth over and over, you get to own it

    Chapters:

    00:46 Challenges of Overperforming in Professional Settings

    04:29 Visibility and Recognition in Career Advancement

    09:18 Emotional Impact of Feeling Undervalued

    12:39 Mindset and Self-Perception in the Workplace

    14:04 Setting Boundaries to Prevent Burnout

    17:00 Self-Advocacy for Overperformers

    21:02 Emotional Toll of Overperforming


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  • 90. Is Your Job Slowly Draining You? Here’s What It’s Costing You
    Aug 28 2025

    In episode 90, we’re talking about how to recognize when your job is quietly draining you and the hidden costs that come with staying in misalignment.

    If you’ve been brushing off your fatigue, telling yourself it’s just “busy season,” or rationalizing that things will eventually get better, this episode is your reminder to take those signals seriously before burnout takes over. I’m sharing the subtle signs of early burnout, the deeper costs of staying too long in the wrong role, and client stories that show how confidence and clarity can be rebuilt when you choose change.


    In this episode, I cover:

    • The early signs your energy is being drained (and why it matters to notice them)

    • How staying in the wrong role chips away at your confidence and clarity

    • The hidden cost of overriding your intuition and self-trust

    • Why you don’t have to “burn it all down” to create change and how small, intentional steps make the difference


    Key Takeaways:

    • Ignoring early signs of burnout only delays progress and recovery

    • Staying in the wrong environment erodes self-confidence and motivation

    • You don’t have to wait until everything falls apart to make a move

    • Small steps toward alignment help you rebuild clarity and self-trust

    Chapters:

    00:47 Recognizing Job-Related Exhaustion Signs

    04:21 Creating a Personal Support Plan

    07:58 Hidden Costs of Unfulfilling Jobs

    12:03 Challenges of Career Changes

    17:48 Recognizing Early Signs of Discomfort

    20:02 Aligning Personal Values with Workplace Culture


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