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The Pink Elephant in the Room — Having Hard Conversations with Clients

The Pink Elephant in the Room — Having Hard Conversations with Clients

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Have you ever avoided a difficult conversation with a client or parent because it felt too uncomfortable? You’re not alone.


In this episode of MI for Change, Dr. Monica Gilbert explores the “pink elephant in the room” — those unspoken issues that fill our emotional cup until it overflows.

Through a simple (and slightly wet!) metaphor, Monica illustrates how avoidance can build frustration and burnout — and how Motivational Interviewing (MI) gives us the tools to face those moments with courage and empathy.

You’ll learn:
✅ How to recognize when your “cup” is getting full and what to do before burnout hits
✅ Ways to address uncomfortable issues with clients using reflections, affirmations, and open-ended questions
✅ How to reframe confrontation as collaboration
✅ Real-life examples of boundary setting and repair from the field


💬 “When clients push back or avoid, that’s not rejection — it’s an invitation to communicate.”

If you’ve ever dreaded a hard conversation, this episode will help you build confidence, compassion, and connection — one reflection at a time.

💬 Join the Conversation:
What’s one tough conversation you’ve been avoiding — and what MI skill could help you approach it differently?
Reply or share your reflections in the comments!

Learn more about Motivational Interviewing and explore on-demand courses at www.drmonicagilbert.com

Join the MI Academy for practical training and resources — and enjoy an exclusive 15% off with code MIFORCHANGE at checkout.

📲 Connect with me on Instagram: @drmonicagilbert


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