Growing up in a modest household where the top love language was acts of service, I have never learnt how to flirt. In this episode, expert flirtist Blu spills her secret recipe to making everyday flattery a little more grungy, a lot more spicy. From party tricks to Hinge pick-up lines, we cover a lot of ground. There may even be a few stories of past romances sprinkled here and there. Follow along on my journey to spice up my love life :)

Candice, the older sister I've never had, answers my questions about modern dating. Is it possible to date someone without lowering our standards in the dire dating scene of New York City? Why do so many women have a savior complex in romantic relationships? Is delulu really the solulu when you are chasing a relationship that would ultimately lead to ruins? How do we cope with rejection? I learned a lot, and I hope you do too :)

Self-care looks different at different times. Sometimes it is following a wellness influencer and curating that flawless morning routine. Other times, according to Lolly, you might just have to get your armpits waxed... Jasmine thinks that the short answer is: stop procrastinating. Tune in to hear what these two stressed Barnard students have to say about how they've navigated rough mornings and late nights, discovering what self-care means to them.