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The Origins Of Loving Us

The Origins Of Loving Us

By: Will Ray & Co Host: Chan
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Join Will Ray and Co Host Chantal, as they get real about the aftermath of relationship breakups. By using raw honesty, they share their experiences and opinions on: healing, accountability and vulnerability. They’ll take deep dives into the complexities of concepts like black love, self love, emotional growth, discernment, conflict management, helpful communication and more.

They blend personal stories with wisdom and comedy, so this podcast offers practical advice and heartfelt insights to help you work through the ups and downs of your next relationship. Nothing is off limits!! Just candid conversations to inspire growth, connection, and understanding.

Everyone experiences break ups but it doesn’t have to be nasty or toxic. We can navigate through these awkward feelings and situations like adults. Together. Our community used to thrive off of love & now, it seems like nobody believes in it anymore. Can Will & Chan help get us back on track? Tune in to find out.


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  • Feel, Deal, & Heal Pt 3
    Apr 18 2026

    Last bit.

    Part 3

    #theoriginsoflovingus

    #afterthebreakup

    #nocontact

    #toolu

    @chanbepoddin /IG/ Twitter

    rChanbepoddin.com

    @therealwillray

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    1 hr and 21 mins
  • Feel, Deal, Heal Pt 2
    Apr 18 2026

    Still At it.

    Part 2

    #theoriginsoflovingus

    #afterthebreakup #nocontact

    #toolu

    @chanbepoddin /IG/ Twitter

    Chanbepoddin.com


    @therealwillray Twitter

    @willraycomedy TT/IG

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    1 hr and 25 mins
  • Feel, Deal, Heal Pt 1
    Apr 18 2026

    Do I even want to feel feelings again? Right now? At all?

    Too many ppl become okay masking “ I’m okay” or “ I’m over it”… if you aren’t… okay. if is okay to feel ya feelings, because if not now when? When are you gonna address what you need to come to terms with?

    How did you come up with this?

    • Hurting people
    • Getting hurt & feeling how others have felt
    • Getting sick of myself
    • Having a daughter
    • Realizing that men don’t have “safe spaces” to heal


    ... My best was reserved and locked tf away. PRESERVES!!!!

    What did we realize?


    The Inner Fight:

    Do I even wanna get better just to try this bs again?

    Will I know when to pull out faster next time!?!

    Short answer no. Long answer: ain’t no short cuts in real bonding with ppl. Either you try or you die never knowing.


    #theoriginsoflovingus

    #afterthebreakup #nocontact

    #toolu


    @chanbepoddin /IG/ Twitter

    Chanbepoddin.com


    @therealwillray Twitter

    @willraycomedy TT/IG

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    1 hr and 26 mins
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