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The Origins Of Loving Us

The Origins Of Loving Us

By: Will Ray & Co Host: Chan
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Join Will Ray and Co Host Chantal, as they get real about the aftermath of relationship breakups. By using raw honesty, they share their experiences and opinions on: healing, accountability and vulnerability. They’ll take deep dives into the complexities of concepts like black love, self love, emotional growth, discernment, conflict management, helpful communication and more.

They blend personal stories with wisdom and comedy, so this podcast offers practical advice and heartfelt insights to help you work through the ups and downs of your next relationship. Nothing is off limits!! Just candid conversations to inspire growth, connection, and understanding.

Everyone experiences break ups but it doesn’t have to be nasty or toxic. We can navigate through these awkward feelings and situations like adults. Together. Our community used to thrive off of love & now, it seems like nobody believes in it anymore. Can Will & Chan help get us back on track? Tune in to find out.


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Episodes
  • We Ain't Have To Get Here !!!
    Feb 14 2026
    • “Why did we create this podcast? What’s our objective?”
    • What needs to be said:
    • What did we realize?

    Every break up aint a loss

    GET THE LESSON AND MOVE ON

    • Story time: 1 of the worst/best breakups of my life (explain this but Chan has to explain why she’s never had a “bad” break up)

    Who’s fault is this? Was it theirs? Was it yours? Was it ours? What did we learn?

    Alone vs. Lonely.

    • 1. What’s the difference?
    • 2. Do you like yourself when you’re “alone”? (let’s start there)
    • 3. Things that can happen when you get “lonely”


    The Inner Fight: From sex whenever I wanted to no sex at all ; Call or don’t call; healthy/safe space vs losing a friendship

    Whats Next? Tell them the next topic...

    #theoriginsoflovingus

    #afterthebreakup #nocontact

    #toolu


    @chanbepoddin /IG/ Twitter

    Chanbepoddin.com


    @therealwillray Twitter

    @willraycomedy TT/IG

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    2 hrs and 6 mins
  • The Origins Of Loving Us
    Jan 20 2026

    Join Will Ray and Co Host Chantal, as they get real about the aftermath of relationship breakups. By using raw honesty, they share their experiences and opinions on: healing, accountability and vulnerability. They’ll take deep dives into the complexities of concepts like black love, self love, emotional growth, discernment, conflict management, helpful communication and more.

    They blend personal stories with wisdom and comedy, so this podcast offers practical advice and heartfelt insights to help you work through the ups and downs of your next relationship. Nothing is off limits!! Just candid conversations to inspire growth, connection, and understanding.

    Everyone experiences break ups but it doesn’t have to be nasty or toxic. We can navigate through these awkward feelings and situations like adults. Together. Our community used to thrive off of love & now, it seems like nobody believes in it anymore. Can Will & Chan help get us back on track? Tune in to find out


    https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/


    ~~~

    Follow us for more information:

    IG : @willraycomedy @chanbepoddin

    Visit chanbepoddin.com

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    2 mins
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