In this episode of Skin Deep Stories, Montreal tattoo artists and moms Kirsten Diachidos and Melanie Belanger get real, unfiltered, and VERY adult as they chat about sex, intimacy, and relationships. Consider this your official warning: this episode is NOT kid-friendly.

Kirsten and Mel talk openly about sexuality and how it evolves through motherhood, long-term relationships, and life in your 30s and 40s. They discuss the importance of intimacy beyond sex, including physical touch, emotional connection, communication, and the fear many couples share of slowly becoming roommates instead of partners.

The conversation explores love languages, mental load, and how acts of service, emotional support, and shared responsibility can directly impact desire and connection. They also talk honestly about how hormones, aging, and changing bodies influence libido, and why intimacy often becomes more psychological than physical over time.

From societal double standards around female sexuality to body acceptance after pregnancy, vasectomies, and the realities of maintaining connection while raising kids, this episode is candid, funny, vulnerable, and deeply relatable. At its core, it is a conversation about communication, self-acceptance, and choosing connection in long-term relationships.

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Kirsten on Instagram: kirstentattooarts

Mel on Instagram: melrocktattoos

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