Ep. 86 Burnout or Disconnection: Know the Difference

Ever found yourself exhausted despite getting enough sleep? The culprit might not be what you think. In this thought-provoking conversation, Jake and Braxston challenge the common assumption that fatigue equals burnout, suggesting instead that many of us are experiencing something different: a disconnection from our purpose.

The hosts share personal experiences of managing energy rather than time. Jake discusses his constant battle to prioritize energy-giving activities while fulfilling responsibilities, while Braxton reveals how he mistakenly labeled his departure from his protein donut business as "burnout" when he was actually questioning his passion. Their candid conversation offers a fresh perspective on why we feel drained and what to do about it.

What makes this exploration particularly valuable is the practical advice woven throughout. From the friend who tracked energy-giving versus energy-draining activities for two weeks, to questions about spiritual alignment and physical health, the episode provides actionable steps for anyone feeling stuck. The hosts emphasize that disconnection isn't failure—it's a warning light indicating it's time to realign with your why. Whether you're questioning your career path, feeling overwhelmed by responsibilities, or simply lacking motivation, this conversation offers the space to recognize that you're not broken; you might just need to plug back in to what truly matters to you. Ready to distinguish between true burnout and disconnection in your own life? This episode might be exactly what you need to hear.

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EP. 85 The Cost of Comfort

What's the true price we pay for staying comfortable?

Most of us don't realize how much our avoidance of discomfort is costing us. When we dodge difficult conversations, stick to familiar routines, and always choose the safe option, we're quietly trading our potential for convenience. This invisible transaction might be the biggest reason people remain stuck in life.

The world constantly trains us to seek comfort and instant gratification, yet history shows that meaningful growth happens through challenge. Think about it: from biblical figures facing resistance to achieve greatness, to the concept that hard times create strong people who then create good times – discomfort shapes us. We explore this fascinating cycle and what it means for current generations who might be missing crucial growth opportunities in an increasingly cushioned world.

What about our children? How do we balance wanting to give them advantages while ensuring they develop resilience? We dive into this parenting paradox and share personal stories about life-changing moments where stepping into discomfort completely transformed our trajectories. The truth is, that feeling of resistance when facing a decision is often your internal compass pointing toward growth.

Ready to embrace discomfort and unlock your potential? Listen now and discover why that uncomfortable decision you've been avoiding might be exactly what you need. You're always just one choice away from a completely different life – make it count.

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Ep. 84 Building Your Legacy

What will people remember about you when you're gone? Your car, your house, your money? Or the person you were?

In this deeply personal episode, Jake and Braxston tackle the challenging topic of legacy building—specifically, how to create lasting impact without sacrificing what matters most along the way. Drawing from their own experiences, they explore the disconnect between outward success and meaningful living that so many high-achievers encounter.

Braxston shares his observations of successful CEOs who reached their professional goals but regretted the corners they cut with family and relationships. "Once they finally get there, whatever 'the top' looks like to them, they realize how much they've messed up along the way," he notes. Meanwhile, Braxton candidly reveals his behind-the-scenes hustle—door dashing between deliveries to fund his dreams—demonstrating that real legacy building happens in those quiet, unglamorous moments nobody posts about.

The conversation offers practical takeaways for intentional legacy building: writing your own obituary to clarify priorities, keeping journals or video messages for your children, and consistently evaluating if what you're building is worth what it's costing you. As Braxston powerfully summarizes, "Legacy isn't what you leave in your will—it's what you live." If you're working to build something meaningful that outlasts you while navigating the daily grind, this episode provides both the inspiration and practical framework to stay the course.

What parts of your life speak louder than your words? We'd love to hear your thoughts on legacy building in today's comments.

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