Episodes

  • Special Announcement: Will Be Back Soon
    Apr 21 2023

    Hey there Money Kinksters!

    This is Phaedrus, host of the Money Voyeur Podcast. I'm currently out of the country with no access to my laptop or recording equipment, so I won't be able to upload any new content for the next month or two.

    I do look forward to uploading new episodes this summer, but I need your help! You see, I have a bunch of ideas in my head of what to cover - topics that I think are interesting and relevant - but what the hell do I know? So, if you have any issues you'd like me to address or topics you'd like me to cover, let me know at money.voyeur@gmail.com!

    Thanks for listening and thank you for your patience. Talk to you in June!




    For more insight into personal finance for those who live and work outside of the mainstream, be sure to follow The Money Voyeur:

    • Website: moneyvoyeur.com
    • Instagram: @moneyvoyeur
    • Twitter: @moneyvoyeur

    If you have any questions related to the fascinating intersection of kink, money, and sex, be sure to send them to: money.voyeur@gmail.com

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    2 mins
  • Personal Finance as Healing: An Interview with the Money Witch
    Apr 13 2023

    In this episode, Phaedrus interviews Jessie-Susannah Karnatz (AKA the Money Witch) who helps people “untangle their financial shadows” by masterfully reinterpreting personal finance as an important part of one’s healing process and self-care. 

    Topics covered include:

    • The Money Witch's journey from successful union organizer at the Lusty Lady Peep Show in San Francisco to tax preparer, bookkeeper, author, financial coach, and healing priestess
    • Critiques of mainstream personal finance and the societal shame and guilt associated with money
    • The importance of acknowledging both personal sovereignty and systemic structures of economic disenfranchisement
    • Post-punk baggage and the difference between being poor and being broke
    • Unique financial and tax challenges faced by sex workers
    • The importance of paying taxes even if you're paid under the table and the source of your income is illegal
    • First steps toward empowered decision making when it comes to money
    • Making space for feelings that arise when redefining and healing your relationship with personal finance


    Special thanks to Jessie-Susannah Karnatz (AKA the Money Witch). Be sure to check out her links here:

    https://www.moneywitch.com/

    https://www.instagram.com/money.witch



    For more insight into personal finance for those who live and work outside of the mainstream, be sure to follow The Money Voyeur:

    • Website: moneyvoyeur.com
    • Instagram: @moneyvoyeur
    • Twitter: @moneyvoyeur

    If you have any questions related to the fascinating intersection of kink, money, and sex, be sure to send them to: money.voyeur@gmail.com

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    48 mins
  • Why Banks Are Failing Sex Workers & What You Can Do About It
    Mar 21 2023

    In this episode, Phaedrus explores why banks are shunning sex workers and what you can do to protect yourself and your money.

    Special thanks to Chantelleh23 for sharing her story. Be sure to check out her links:

    • Various Links
    • Online Store (Forbidden Desire)

    Topics covered include:

    • Quick review of current banking crisis
    • Chantelle Howarth’s nightmare saga with the banks
    • Why UK banks discriminate against sex workers
    • Why US banks discriminate against sex workers
    • What is SESTA/FOSTA?
    • What is Section 230 & why is it important?
    • Tips on how to protect you and your money on a personal level
    • Suggestions on what broader actions to take


    References:

    What Is SESTA/FOSTA?
    When Banks Turned Their Backs on Them, Some Adult Entertainment Workers Turned to Cryptocurrency
    Sex Discrimination: Why Banks Shun Workers in Adult Entertainment
    Shut Down & Shut Out: Access to Financial Services and Online Payments for Sex Workers in the U.S.
    Take Action

    Sex Worker Advocacy Organizations:

    Sex Workers Outreach Project USA
    Decriminalize Sex Work
    Urban Justice Center | Sex Workers Project
    Decrim Now UK



    For more insight into personal finance for those who live and work outside of the mainstream, be sure to follow The Money Voyeur:

    • Website: moneyvoyeur.com
    • Instagram: @moneyvoyeur
    • Twitter: @moneyvoyeur

    If you have any questions related to the fascinating intersection of kink, money, and sex, be sure to send them to: money.voyeur@gmail.com

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    33 mins
  • Monetizing Orgasms: One Taste, Sex Cults, and MLM's (Part 2 of 2)
    Feb 10 2023

    This episode is the final installment of a two-part interview with Money Voyeur's very first interview guest "Amy" about the One Taste Urban Retreat Center, part MLM and part sex cult.

    Topics covered include:

    • The validity of One Taste’s thesis
    • Tactics used by cults and high pressure organizations
    • Recruiting techniques such as trauma bonding and “forced teaming”
    • One Taste’s orgasmic meditation (OM) technique and the “science” behind it
    • The more predatory aspects of Nicole Daedone’s narcissistic behavior
    • How to identify and avoid narcissists

    CW: Emotional abuse, sexual abuse, and sexual coercion

    References:

    Caroline Knapp’s ‘Appetites: Why Women Want’

    Ellen Huet’s Substack

    The Exact Words That Could Help a Friend in an Abusive Relationship

    Narcissistic Personality Disorder

    8 Tips For Dealing With A Narcissist

    Julia Cameron’s “The Artist’s Way”



    For more insight into personal finance for those who live and work outside of the mainstream, be sure to follow The Money Voyeur:

    • Website: moneyvoyeur.com
    • Instagram: @moneyvoyeur
    • Twitter: @moneyvoyeur

    If you have any questions related to the fascinating intersection of kink, money, and sex, be sure to send them to: money.voyeur@gmail.com

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    46 mins
  • Monetizing Orgasms: One Taste, Sex Cults, and MLM's (Part 1 of 2)
    Feb 1 2023

    This episode is the first installment of a two-part interview with Money Voyeur's very first interview guest "Amy" about the One Taste Urban Retreat Center, part MLM and part sex cult.

    Topics covered include:

    • A brief description and timeline of the now infamous sexual wellness "company" One Taste
    • Who is Nicole Daedone
    • What's it like to date a top salesman of an orgasm cult
    • Multi-level marketing and cult-like tactics used by One Taste
    • Useful resources to help you identify and avoid MLM's

    CW: Emotional abuse, sexual coercion and assault



    For more insight into personal finance for those who live and work outside of the mainstream, be sure to follow The Money Voyeur:

    • Website: moneyvoyeur.com
    • Instagram: @moneyvoyeur
    • Twitter: @moneyvoyeur

    If you have any questions related to the fascinating intersection of kink, money, and sex, be sure to send them to: money.voyeur@gmail.com

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    42 mins
  • Does Polyamory Make You Poorer?
    Jan 17 2023

    In this episode, Phaedrus will explore economic data that begs the question: Does polyamory make you poorer?

    Topics covered include:

    • What kind of data can be used to make economic observations about polyamory and consensual nonmonogamy (CNM)
    • Federal Reserve data showing married people are wealthier than partnerships who cohabitate but are unmarried
    • Legal and practical benefits of marriage
    • History of monogamy
    • What is polyamory
    • Polyamory as an adaptive strategy for young people whose world is in constant flux
    • Explanations for the wealth gap including criticisms of how statistics can be misleading

    For more information on this episode, click here.

    References:

    Polyamory as an Adaptive Strategy in an Unstable World

    Ethnographic Atlas: A Summary

    Prevalence of experiences with consensual nonmonogamous relationships: Findings from two national samples of single Americans

    Is Gen Z the boldest generation? Its job-hunt priorities are off the charts

    Changes in U.S. Family Finances from 2016 to 2019: Evidence from the Survey of Consumer Finances

    Estimated median age of Americans at their first wedding in the United States from 1998 to 2021, by sex 

    Couple privilege: The wealth gap between single and married Americans has more than doubled in the last decade — how do you get ahead when you're at a 'notable disadvantage'?

    Homeownership Remains Primary Driver of Household Wealth

    The average net worth in America by age, race, education, and location



    For more insight into personal finance for those who live and work outside of the mainstream, be sure to follow The Money Voyeur:

    • Website: moneyvoyeur.com
    • Instagram: @moneyvoyeur
    • Twitter: @moneyvoyeur

    If you have any questions related to the fascinating intersection of kink, money, and sex, be sure to send them to: money.voyeur@gmail.com

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    38 mins
  • Stockbroker & Financial Advisor Turned Kinky Podcast Producer?
    Dec 19 2022

    Ever wondered why a former stockbroker and financial advisor with all the education, credentials, and licensing would start a kinky podcast?

    Listen to Phaedrus (pronounced "FAY-dress") - as he's known within the BDSM community - introduce his new passion project: The Money Voyeur. He'll share what the show is about, what content to expect, and the why behind making this new podcast.




    For more insight into personal finance for those who live and work outside of the mainstream, be sure to follow The Money Voyeur:

    • Website: moneyvoyeur.com
    • Instagram: @moneyvoyeur
    • Twitter: @moneyvoyeur

    If you have any questions related to the fascinating intersection of kink, money, and sex, be sure to send them to: money.voyeur@gmail.com

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    10 mins