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The Missing Ingredient in Most Marriages

The Missing Ingredient in Most Marriages

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When was the last time your marriage felt fun—not just functional?

In this episode, we’re talking about how to bring playfulness, laughter, and connection back into your marriage, especially in seasons where life feels heavy, busy, or all about survival. Because marriage isn’t meant to be another to-do list—and fun isn’t something you grow out of once kids, careers, and responsibilities pile on.

We dive into why fun often disappears first, how stress and mental load impact connection, and simple, realistic ways to reconnect without forcing “date night perfection.” From small playful habits to mindset shifts that invite joy back into everyday moments, this episode is a reminder that intimacy grows when fun is allowed back in.

In this episode, we cover:

  • Why fun fades in marriage (and why it matters)

  • How playfulness strengthens emotional and physical connection

  • Simple ways to laugh and flirt again in everyday life

  • Releasing pressure and perfection in your relationship

  • Rebuilding connection during busy or disconnected seasons

If your marriage feels more like co-managing life than enjoying it together, this conversation will help you find your way back to joy—one small moment at a time.


If this episode made you smile or sparked an idea, share it with your spouse or send it to a friend who could use more fun in their marriage. Subscribe, leave a review, and DM us on Instagram to tell us one playful thing you’re going to try this week.


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