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The Midlife Chrysalis

The Midlife Chrysalis

By: Chip Conley
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The Midlife Chrysalis is a one-hour podcast hosted by Chip Conley, bestselling author of Learning to Love Midlife and founder of MEA (Modern Elder Academy). Chip and his high-profile guests – including Maria Shriver, Hoda Kotb, Elizabeth Gilbert, Michael Franti, and more – dive into raw, vulnerable conversations about the profound transitions they’ve experienced in midlife. Listeners get a rare look at how even the most successful individuals have to navigate life’s pivotal changes – and gain practical wisdom they can apply in their own lives for a more fulfilling and purposeful next chapter.Chip Conley Personal Development Personal Success
Episodes
  • How Sara Blakely Built Spanx and Found Her Next Big Purpose
    Aug 6 2025

    What happens when a self-made billionaire steps away from the company she built and faces the big question: What’s next?


    In this inspiring episode, the founder of Spanx opens up about her journey from door-to-door sales to creating a global brand, the emotional challenges of selling her company, and how she’s redefining success, purpose, and identity in midlife. It’s a raw and uplifting conversation about reinvention, intuition, and finding meaning beyond business.


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Intro

    01:56 Family background and kids

    03:47 Childhood struggles and early mindset shift

    06:32 Discovering Wayne Dyer and self-growth

    09:00 Letting go of law school plans

    09:46 Intuition and coping mechanisms

    13:25 Selling fax machines and rethinking her path

    14:17 The idea for Spanx is born

    18:40 Building Spanx and landing Neiman Marcus

    22:37 Growing Spanx without advertising

    25:30 Selling Spanx and facing an identity shift

    31:51 Midlife change and grief

    34:44 Creating Sneaks brand

    43:54 Psychology behind the second venture

    47:32 Perimenopause, health issues, and PMDD

    50:19 Modern Elder Academy experience

    53:37 Focusing on presence and meaning

    55:42 Introverts, extroverts, and integration

    58:17 Feminine energy as a superpower

    59:42 Wisdom bumpersticker

    1:02:26 Chip’s final thoughts


    Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/


    #SarahBlakely #Spanx #FemaleEntrepreneur #WomenInBusiness #EntrepreneurLife #BusinessSuccess #Motivation #Inspiration #FounderStory #StartupJourney #MindsetMatters #SuccessTips #BusinessAdvice #SelfMadeWoman #EntrepreneurMindset #ChipConley #MidlifeChrysalis

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • What 50 Years with the Dalai Lama Taught About Midlife | Pico Iyer
    Jul 30 2025

    What if midlife isn’t a breakdown—but a breakthrough?


    In this powerful conversation, world-renowned writer Pico Iyer shares the surprising lessons he’s learned from 50 years of friendship with the Dalai Lama, losing everything he owned, and finding stillness in the chaos. From walking away from success in New York to building a soulful life in Japan, Pico reveals how true freedom comes not from having more—but from letting go. This episode is a masterclass in finding purpose, inner peace, and meaning in the second half of life.


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Intro

    01:13 Meet Pico Iyer

    02:02 Why TED Keeps Inviting Pico Back

    02:50 Pico’s favorite TED talk

    04:04 Early Life Across Continents

    05:17 What “Home” Really Means

    07:21 Stillness and the Midlife Chrysalis

    12:33 Moving from Park Avenue to Kyoto

    15:31 The Value of Being an Expat

    18:10 Inner Calm in a Chaotic World

    22:31 Everyday Stillness Practices

    29:24 A Lifetime with the Dalai Lama

    37:34 Living in Absence of Answers

    42:29 Pico’s Anticipated Regret

    46:11 What Makes MEA So Special

    50:47 Awe, Community, and Transformation

    53:27 Pico’s Wisdom Bumper Sticker

    56:27 Episode Key Takeaways


    Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/


    #MidlifeChrysalis #PicoIyer #ChipConley #MidlifeTransformation #ModernElder #Stillness #InnerWisdom #SpiritualGrowth #LifePurpose #DalaiLama #HomeAndSoul #ExpatLife #GratitudePractice #Resilience #MindfulLiving

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    59 mins
  • From Famous Father to Finding Purpose: Scott Eastwood at Midlife
    Jul 23 2025

    What happens when a successful actor—and the son of a Hollywood legend—hits midlife and starts asking deeper questions?


    In this powerful episode, Scott Eastwood opens up about building his own identity beyond Clint Eastwood’s shadow, what 40+ films have taught him, and why he’s now prioritizing purpose over fame. He reflects on masculinity, mentorship, mistakes, and what it really means to grow wiser with age.


    What happens when a successful actor—and the son of a Hollywood legend—hits midlife and starts asking deeper questions?In this powerful episode, Scott Eastwood opens up about building his own identity beyond Clint Eastwood’s shadow, what 40+ films have taught him, and why he’s now prioritizing purpose over fame. He reflects on masculinity, mentorship, mistakes, and what it really means to grow wiser with age.Feeling your own shift? Subscribe to The Midlife Chrysalis and explore Modern Elder Academy’s workshops designed to help you thrive in midlife and beyond.


    Timestamps:00:00 Intro00:41 Chip’s Relationship With His Dad 08:28 A Prolific Film Career09:38 Working with Clint Eastwood10:51 Carving His Own Path13:54 New Projects & Genre Exploration15:52 Masculinity in Modern Culture18:09 Growing & Maturing as a Man19:26 Questioning & Redefining Midlife21:32 Childhood Dreams & Creative Shifts24:05 Aging, Directing & Creative Control27:1 Time, Regret & Following Your Gut31:51 The Outpost Movie & Hyperbaric Healing35:07 Real Wellness, Not Wellness Trends37:16 Life Lessons & Emotional Maturity39:44 How Scott Hopes to Be Remembered41:31 Lessons from Mom & Dad43:20 Having Mentors & Becoming One44:13 Scott’s Wisdom Bumper Sticker49:13 Healing a Father-Son Relationship


    Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/


    #ScottEastwood #MidlifeChrysalis #ChipConley #ClintEastwood #MasculinityToday #ActorLife #FilmIndustry #PersonalGrowth #LegacyAndIdentity #MidlifeReflection #LifeLessons #EmotionalMaturity #CreativeJourney #WellnessWisdom #FollowYourGut

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    59 mins
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