If you are intelligent, self-aware, and accomplished yet still find yourself attracting low-effort, inconsistent men, this episode is for you.

This isn’t about being “too much.”
And it isn’t about men being incapable.

It’s about identity.

In this episode of The Magnetic Muse, I break down the evolutionary pyramid that moves a woman from tolerating breadcrumbs to embodying the standards, regulation, and polarity required for conscious partnership.

We explore:

• The foundation of self-worth and self-respect
• Why emotional regulation precedes secure love
• How unhealed attachment wounds collapse polarity
• The danger of over-functioning and becoming the fixer
• Why boundaries without embodiment don’t hold
• How rescuing men inverts leadership energy
• The shift from auditioning to being chosen

I also share personal insight into how unconscious father-wound patterning shaped my attraction to unavailable men and the moment I realised I had inverted polarity by stepping into the role of coach, healer, and stabiliser.

Conscious partnership is not created by chasing, convincing, or over-giving.

It emerges when your nervous system is no longer broadcasting “choose me,” but instead radiating, “meet me here.”

When the foundation is solid: self-worth, regulation, standards, and embodied polarity, you no longer attract projects.

You attract an interdependent partner who initiates, leads, and chooses you freely.

If you’re ready to recalibrate at the root rather than manage symptoms, this is the work we do inside Receptivity Codes.

Because evolution in love begins within.

What is detachment really?

In this episode of The Magnetic Muse, I unpack the difference between emotional suppression and true neutrality. We explore how unresolved abandonment wounds can destabilise you when a man from your past reappears.

After my spiritual awakening in 2019, I learned the power of neutrality, the ability to become the witness instead of collapsing into emotional reactivity. I believed I had healed.

Until a man I once loved came back into my life and triggered a deep, unresolved rupture.

In this episode, I share:

• The difference between healthy detachment and avoidance
• How attachment wounds create chasing, spiralling, and obsession
• Why intensity is often trauma bonding, not destiny
• How childhood abandonment imprints shape adult relationships
• The concept of “standards, not stories”
• Why sacred union cannot enter where rupture is unintegrated
• How to stop outsourcing your self-worth to male validation

If you find yourself spiralling when he pulls away, obsessing over texts, or performing to be chosen this isn’t a mindset issue.

It’s imprinting.

Secure love requires an integrated nervous system and embodied self-worth.

Detachment vs Attachment: Healing the Abandonment Wound & Reclaiming Self-Worth in Love

Detachment is not about not caring.
It’s about not abandoning yourself to get love.

Inside Receptivity Codes, we dismantle trauma bonds, heal the mother and father wounds, and recode the subconscious imprints that keep recreating relational chaos.

Because when you are grounded, regulated, and self-led you don’t wait to be chosen.

You choose.