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The MUST Mindset

The MUST Mindset

By: Stacey Chillemi
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 The MUST Mindset Podcast is where personal development stops being motivation and becomes a non-negotiable way of life.

Award-winning author, renowned attorney, and motivational speaker Stephen Rue—writer of Must: Becoming the Person You Are Meant to Be—dives into real stories, hard-hitting truths, and battle-tested tools to help you break through trauma, crush self-doubt, and step into the future you know you’re built for.

Each episode is a call to action: clear frameworks, practical shifts, and “no excuses” coaching to help you stop drifting and start living your MUST—the life you were meant to lead.

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Episodes
  • Feeling “Not Enough”? Here’s How to Break It

    Feeling “Not Enough”? Here’s How to Break It
    Dec 26 2025
    If you keep thinking “I know what to do… so why am I still stuck?” this episode will help you find the belief underneath—and change it now.

    Lisa Urbanski sits down with Stephen Rue (lawyer, coach, and author of the MUST series) to break down limiting beliefs, self-love, and why identity comes before goal setting.

    You’ll learn 👇

    🧠 How limiting beliefs form and how they show up in your language
    ✍️ The “I am…” exercise to uncover what’s running your choices
    🧺 The “Suffering Basket” method to shrink loneliness and pain
    ❤️ Why self-love is the foundation for real change
    🎯 “I Am Smart to Act”: identity-first goal setting that sticks

    ⭐ CONNECT WITH STEPHEN RUE ⭐
    🔗 Website: https://stephenrue.live/ stephenrue.live

    📘 MUST: Becoming the Person You Are Meant to Be:
    Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Audible, and more.

    📱Social Media:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/STEPHENRUE
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/southernfriedlawyer
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StephenRue-zj5fe
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephen-rue-957933139/
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    44 mins
  • MUST Mindset Mastery: How to Design the Life You Want

    MUST Mindset Mastery: How to Design the Life You Want
    Nov 26 2025
    This is the blueprint for going from survival mode to unstoppable mental performance.

    Host Stacey Chillemi sits down with motivational powerhouse Stephen Rue to show you how to turn stress, trauma, and pressure into a MUST-level life you actually want, inspired by his award-winning book MUST: Becoming the Person You Are Meant to Be.

    You’ll learn:
    🧠 How the “Must Mindset” rewires your brain under pressure
    🔥 Simple daily habits to crush stress before it crushes you
    💪 How to turn past trauma into fuel for growth and confidence
    🚀 A step-by-step way to design the life you are truly meant to live

    ⭐ CONNECT WITH STEPHEN RUE ⭐
    🔗 Website: https://stephenrue.live/ stephenrue.live

    📘 MUST: Becoming the Person You Are Meant to Be:
    Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Audible, and more.

    📱Social Media:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/STEPHENRUE
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/southernfriedlawyer
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StephenRue-zj5fe
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephen-rue-957933139/
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    57 mins
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