• Are You Truly Your Own Best Investment?
    Mar 3 2026

    How much are you willing to invest in your future health and happiness today? Jesse de Leon opens up about the reality of turning 62 and why he believes you are your own best investment. This episode dives into the crucial intersection of financial planning and physical well-being, urging listeners in their 20s, 30s, and 40s to start planning now. Jesse discusses the "rainy day" realities of home maintenance, the transition from expensive vintages to $15 wine gems, and the importance of whole foods over statins. He offers a vulnerable look at the ups and downs of entrepreneurship, admitting to times of overspending and the discipline required to course-correct. By looking at retirement through the lens of spirituality and common sense, Jesse provides a refreshing perspective on aging with grace and intention.

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    00:00 Introduction to The Knowing Podcast

    00:48 Facing the Reality of Retirement

    01:13 Feeling Young While Turning 62

    01:34 Health and Diet as Investments

    02:14 Defining "Enough" for Your Future

    02:48 Calculating Real Retirement Expenses

    04:13 Lessons from My Younger Years

    04:47 Creating an Expenditure List

    05:15 Financial Discipline for Self-Employed

    06:05 Investing in the Stock Market

    06:55 Advice for the Next Generation

    07:44 Being Vulnerable About Financial Mistakes

    08:24 Cutting Costs Without Losing Quality

    09:46 Navigating Social Security and Medicare

    10:30 Seeking Advice from Financial Experts

    11:23 Power of Community and Feedback

    12:05 Health Habits for Longevity

    13:00 Identifying What Makes You Happy

    13:58 Take Action and Final Blessings

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    15 mins
  • Why Do We Shut Down When the Stakes Get High?
    Feb 17 2026

    Feeling unsafe during a conflict usually leads to one of two things: explosive anger or total withdrawal. Jesse de Leon explores the middle path in this moving episode, documenting his journey from "shutting down" to standing his ground with grace. Jesse discusses the importance of eye contact, active listening, and the bravery required to call out inappropriate behavior in real-time. Whether it's a sibling, a partner, or a lifelong friend, the people who matter most deserve your honesty, not your absence. Tune in to hear how Jesse navigated a heated debate to reach a place of mutual respect and renewed trust.

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    00:00 Welcome to The Knowing Podcast

    00:48 Power of Empowering Conversations

    02:00 Crucial Conversations Book Review

    03:00 Childhood Impact on Communication

    04:00 Tools for High-Stakes Talking

    05:10 The Christmas Eve Conflict

    06:45 Managing Anger and Confusion

    07:50 Addressing Conversation Hijacking

    09:25 Value of Vulnerability

    10:45 Breaking Old Habit Patterns

    11:55 Handling Abrupt Communication

    13:40 Learning Assertiveness Skills

    15:05 Repairing vs Running From Conflict

    16:40 Role Models in Communication

    18:15 Healing Relationships Through Action

    20:25 Staying in Important Relationships

    21:40 Final Thoughts and Resources

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    22 mins
  • Is Your Confidence Real or Just a Great Outfit?
    Feb 3 2026

    Stepping into a room with confidence doesn't mean you are without fear; it means you are acting despite your doubts. Host Jesse de Leon explores the fascinating gap between how the world perceives us and how we truly feel inside. After a period of feeling uncharacteristically down, Jesse rediscovered his spark by challenging himself to meet one new person every day—proving that most people are just waiting for someone else to be brave enough to say "hello" first. This episode offers a refreshing look at finding joy in the mundane, from hot cocoa on New Year's Eve to the power of a well-fitted pair of Wranglers. Join us for a discussion on why spiritual health and internal joy are the ultimate foundations for a life well-lived.

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    00:00 Introduction to The Knowing

    00:46 Defining True Confidence

    02:03 Observing Confidence in Public

    02:58 ChatGPT Definition of Confidence

    03:47 Projecting Images vs. Reality

    04:20 A Low-Key New Year's Eve

    05:58 Overcoming Post-Holiday Depression

    06:58 Starting Resolutions in October

    08:02 Overcoming Social Anxiety

    09:02 The Power of Saying Hello

    10:05 Confidence Beyond Designer Labels

    11:51 Don't Let the Car Fool You

    12:48 Finding Joy Within

    14:05 Prayer for Minnesota and Compassion

    15:03 Final Blessings and Farewell

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    15 mins
  • Merry Christmas | Happy Holidays
    Dec 16 2025

    In this episode I talk about what Christmas means for me, the highs and the lows of coming home for the holidays, how giving doesn't have to cost a thing, and more.

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    18 mins
  • Do Those We Love, Love Us Less?
    Dec 2 2025

    In this episode I talk about love, trust, expectation, control, sexuality, and Jesus.

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    20 mins
  • Happy Thanksgiving!
    Nov 18 2025

    In this episode I talk about the importance of expressing that which we are thankful and grateful for.

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    20 mins
  • Just Because We Can… Doesn't Mean We Ought To
    Nov 4 2025

    In this episode I talk about temperance, what it means, and how we use this gift of the Spirit to manage our alcohol consumption, eating, shopping, exercising, and even sex. Exercising moderation is a beautiful thing.

    "Everything is always working out for me." by Aaron Wdowin on Instagram at coverthree

    Cover Three | Brain Health

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    22 mins
  • Meal Prep
    Oct 21 2025

    In this episode I talk about my meal prep plan for the week, what it consist of, the amount of meals I eat per week, and that meal prepping doesn't have to be boring, overwhelming, nor restrictive.

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    22 mins