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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan

The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan

By: Dear Media | MAGS
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What do you get when you bring a curious sex expert together with the nicest woman on OnlyFans? A show that really goes there. Each week, Ruby Rare and Megan Barton-Hanson welcome listeners to an unfiltered, playful and inclusive space to talk about sex in all its glory. They unpick all the big questions like: “How can we talk about kinks and fantasies?”, “Does stress kill the vibe?”, “What place does humour have in the bedroom?”, “How can we banish shame around sexual desires?”, and “Does wearing socks actually lead to a better orgasm?!”. Along the way, they share their own unforgettable stories of sex and dating, and hear from you lovely lot about your sex questions and tried-and-tested sex tips.


A Mags Creative and Dear Media production.

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Episodes
  • Happy Galentine’s Day!

    Happy Galentine’s Day!
    Feb 13 2025

    Galentine’s is a day to celebrate platonic relationships (yay!) and on this podcast we get a front row seat to Meg and Ruby’s gorgeous friendship.

    These are some nourishing moments from previous episodes where Ruby and Meg share dating app advice, give sex playlist tips, and get vulnerable about singleness and weird crushes.

    What are the most important relationships in your life? Get in touch and tell us! Also hot Valentine’s plans for tomorrow? Let us know!!!

    We are taking a little break now - see you soon!


    Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

    Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare

    Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


    Links and resources:

    • Ruby’s steamy sex playlist - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3v2QpYyO0tSz2I5nsbKt6R
    • Ruby’s tender sex playlist - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1UhYyzNIbc22sBQA76NHdR
    • Mozart’s “Leck mich im Arsch” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C78HBp-Youk


    Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:

    • Ruby’s new book - The Non-Monogamy Playbook: https://lnk.to/thenonmonogamyplaybook
    • Ethical porn: Erika Lust, Lustery, Cheex


    Clips taken from the following episodes:

    • Being single: love or loathe?
    • Grindr for girls?
    • Porn: Sexy or unrealistic?
    • Opening up your relationship?


    The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

    Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

    Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

    Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


    This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.


    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    27 mins
  • Our friend, the clitoris!

    Our friend, the clitoris!
    Feb 6 2025

    Did you know the clitoris is a wishbone shape? Or that it’s made up of the same stuff as the penis and testes? Mind blown over here!

    Ruby and Meg get into the anatomy of the clitoris, chat pleasure and tell us about their own personal discovery of the clitoris. Dining room tables and bed frames may be involved...

    Listen with care as Ruby and Meg also briefly discuss FGM. If you have been affected by FGM, the NHS offers information and support: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/


    Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

    Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare

    Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


    Ruby and Meg recommendations:

    • OMGYES: https://www.omgyes.com/join


    The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

    Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

    Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

    Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


    This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    26 mins
  • When you bump into a relative at a sex party…

    When you bump into a relative at a sex party…
    Jan 30 2025
    Wondering if a sex party is for you? Ruby and Meg chat to Logan Star who has been in the sex party and play party space for eight years. Logan created the organisation Little Black Book, which used to run sex parties and now supports people who want to set up their own play parties.Ruby, Meg and Logan get to the bottom of the difference between a sex party, a play party and a fetish party. They talk about what happens at these parties and how consent and aftercare works. They also speak about how to find parties like these, in the first place! As well as sharing some stories of their own…Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.comFollow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_Follow Logan on socials @iamloganstarFollow Little Black Book on socials @littleblackbookpartyLogan’s recommendations:Ethically Non Monogamous Fam London: @enmfamlondon ENM Fam calendar: https://teamup.com/ks2ujdfgkxiyjmkhf1Logan recommendations of sex parties:1. Quench https://www.quenchlondon.co.uk/ https://www.instagram.com/quench_london?igsh=MXNnaDFubnMxNXE3Nw== 2. Riot Partyhttps://riotparty.co.uk/ https://www.instagram.com/riotpartyuk?igsh=d2pqNnp3M3hxbHZo 3. Dominium Vitahttps://dominiumvita.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dominiumvitaevents?igsh=MXhzb3h6bXVjZHd3NQ== 4. One Night Partieshttps://www.onenightparties.com/ https://www.instagram.com/onenightparties?igsh=MTN5c2NmejhvNTdvdg== 5. Scenehttps://www.sceneldn.uk/https://www.instagram.com/sceneldn?igsh=eWYzczMwaXR6MHc5 6. Pinky Promisehttps://www.pinkypromiseland.co.uk/ https://www.instagram.com/pinkypromise.world?igsh=eTFhdjZ5c3Rxejly 7. Lucidhttps://www.instagram.com/lucid_sober_events?igsh=MTJkYTI1ejRoMzNnYQ== The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-GaleEditor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast HouseExecutive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit MilsomThis podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    39 mins

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