The Inner Room: Everyone Wants to Know What Side You’re On
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The Inner Room: Everyone Wants to Know What Side You’re On
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About this listen
The world feels louder when everything is framed as a side to choose.
In this episode, Vanessa explores the emotional and relational impact of binary thinking: in culture, in parenting, in advocacy, and in how we judge one another. She reflects on the invisible pressure to be seen as “good,” “aware,” or “on the right side,” and how that pressure can quietly shape our nervous systems and our relationships.
Drawing from her own experience with perfectionism and moral identity, Vanessa looks at what happens when we assign intent to people we don’t actually know, and how quickly silence becomes a story instead of a question.
This episode isn’t about having better opinions. It’s about creating more room for complexity, for growth, and for the uncomfortable but human experience of not always knowing where you stand or why someone else stands where they do.