Love looks different after ten years.

After three kids.
After sleepless nights, hard conversations, growth seasons, and choosing each other again and again.

This Valentine’s bonus episode opens with laughter because joy matters, but moves quickly into something deeper.

We talk about:

• The changes love goes through after the butterflies
• Why love requires adjustment
• How faith anchors marriage when emotions fluctuate
• The quiet tension between growth and comfort
• Why self-reflection is one of the most loving things you can offer your spouse

This isn’t a perfect-love story. It’s a formed-love story.

A love that has been stretched, refined rebuilt and still learning.

Because real love isn’t static. It grows, if you let it.

Every home has a battle.

It’s not always loud.
It’s not always visible.
But it’s shaping everything.

In this episode, we unpack the unseen influences that quietly form our marriages, our parenting, and the culture inside our homes. The voices we allow in. The beliefs we inherit. The patterns we repeat without noticing.

Because the real battle isn’t always between people.

Sometimes it’s between formation and drift.
Between intention and influence.
Between who we say we are and what we’re actually building.

We talk honestly about prayer, responsibility, transformation, and the courage it takes to confront what’s shaping your family before it shapes the next generation.

If leadership starts at home, this conversation matters.

What We Explore:
• The unseen influences shaping your home
• Why formation matters more than control
• How personal transformation impacts parenting
• Creating intentional culture inside your family

Topics Covered:
marriage
family leadership
parenting
faith and formation
home culture
personal growth

Marriage isn’t 50/50.

And if you’re keeping score, you’re already losing.

In this episode, we talk honestly about partnership not as a slogan, but as a discipline. Agreement sounds simple, but in reality it requires humility, sacrifice, and alignment long before decisions are ever made.

We unpack:

• What real unity looks like (and what it doesn’t)
• Why leadership in marriage isn’t dominance
• How disagreement can either divide you or refine you
• The quiet power of presenting a unified front to your children

We also explore the 90 - 10 reality of marriage, how seasons shift, responsibilities flex, and how self-sacrifice strengthens rather than weakens partnership.

Agreement isn’t automatic. It’s built.

And when a husband and wife learn to move in alignment, it doesn’t just change their home, it changes the atmosphere their children grow up in.

This conversation is honest, practical, and rooted in lived experience.

Because unity isn’t emotional. It’s intentional.

What We Explore:

• Why 50/50 thinking quietly damages marriages
• The difference between control and leadership
• How alignment impacts your children’s security
• Why unity must be chosen before it’s tested

Most couples build a wedding. Very few build a foundation.

In this episode, we share the real story of how ours began falling in love on a mission trip in Africa, and stepping into marriage before fully understanding the weight of covenant.

We talk about what changes when friendship becomes responsibility.
When love becomes leadership.
When “us” becomes something that must be protected and formed intentionally.

Marriage doesn’t drift toward strength. It drifts toward what it’s built on.

Through humor, honesty, and reflection, we unpack what it means to build on something deeper than feelings, something that can hold when life applies pressure.

If you’re married, preparing for marriage, or trying to rebuild what feels shaky, this conversation matters.

Because every house stands on something.

The question is what is yours built on?

What We Explore:
• What intentional leadership in marriage really looks like

• What intentional leadership in marriage really looks like