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The Hidden Language of Feedback: How to Give and Receive It Without Defensiveness

The Hidden Language of Feedback: How to Give and Receive It Without Defensiveness

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Feedback is everywhere—but most people deliver it in a way that triggers defensiveness instead of growth.


In this episode of *Speaking With Intent*, communication coach and former military briefer Paul Adams breaks down **the hidden language of feedback** and why even well-intended comments often go wrong.


You’ll learn:


* Why feedback triggers defensiveness—even when it’s meant to help

* A simple 3-step framework to give feedback with clarity and influence

* How to receive feedback without shutting down or pushing back

* What to say when feedback feels unfair or unclear

* How leaders, partners, and creatives can turn feedback into momentum


Whether you’re leading a team, navigating relationships, or trying to grow professionally, this episode gives you **practical tools you can use immediately** to turn feedback into fuel—not friction.


🎯 **Framework covered:** Intent → Impact → Improve

🎧 **Best for:** Leaders, entrepreneurs, professionals, creatives, and anyone who wants better conversations


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