In this heartfelt episode of Keys to Harmony, Harmony Butler invites you to pause and answer a powerful question: How are you really doing?

With Valentine’s Day around the corner, Harmony explores love — not in the romantic sense, but the kind of love we have (or want to have) for our work, our teams, and the impact we make every day in veterinary medicine.

Too often, we tie our happiness to someone else’s actions. If they would just change… then I’d love my job. But what if we’ve been setting the wrong goals all along?

Through a simple but transformative mindset shift, Harmony challenges you to identify your true goal — the feeling you’re actually chasing — and shows how you can start experiencing it today, without waiting on anyone else.

If your goal is to love your work, feel free, or create a better culture, this episode will help you take ownership of that experience now.

Because the key to harmony? It starts with you.

1. The real goal isn’t the outcome — it’s the feeling you believe the outcome will give you.
2. Waiting on others to change delays your own fulfillment.
3. You can experience love for your work now — without external validation.
4. Small, intentional actions can shift workplace culture.
5. Personal responsibility is the first step toward creating harmony.