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The Fallen But Not Forgotten Podcast

The Fallen But Not Forgotten Podcast

By: Chris Jay
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Bluecoat Foundation's founder, Chris Jay, sits down with family, friends & co-workers of those in law enforcement who have gone through the tragedy of losing loved ones by way of line-of-duty deaths. By discussing the lives of these selfless individuals, Bluecoat Foundation looks to honor their legacies. Through memories, laughter, tears and even at times anger, Bluecoat Foundation seeks to improve the health and safety of those in law enforcement by shedding light onto a topic that can be difficult to discuss.

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  • BATTLES & TRANSFORMATIONS: FROM WARTIME VET TO STREET COP
    Nov 17 2025


    Daniel Malek is a Marine in the United States Marine Corps. He served between 2000-2008 as a corporal and served in Iraq as an OIF Vet. He Joined the LAPD in 2005 where he has worked patrol, the gang unit & is now a field training officer, where he trains probationary officers.

    Malek and I have worked patrol at the same precinct for the better part of 10 years. Him and I have always had intense conversations about what it takes to be on patrol. Through the years I have seen his progression and maturity develop as we have gone through politically murky times.

    He’s a genuine warrior, father and a real cop’s cop. After podcasting with him I can truly say that both young coppers AND brass can learn a ton from his insight and approach to policing.

    Thanks for listening and supporting what we do.

    I hope you enjoy this podcast.

    TIMELINE:

    00:02:00 - The Beard: Yay or Nay

    00:05:00 - Tradition: Marine Corp vs Law Enforcement

    00:08:00 - The "Dragon Wagon"

    00:14:00 - Training: Applying USMC principles to law enforcement

    0018:00 - Transitioning: From Marine to Street Cop

    00:28:00 - Caliber of Probationers, then vs now

    00:37:00 - "Shogun” by James Clavell

    00:44:00 - Transformation

    00:47:00 - Muay Thai

    00:55:00 - Physical Fitness

    00:58:00 - Retirement

    00:59:00 - Hypothetically speaking, advice and insight to his daughter the police officer.

    01:08:27 - In honor of Marine Sgt. Major Robert J. Cottle, Killed in Action March 24, 2010

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • The Bloodhound Warrior: Pain, Peace and the Facade of Perfection, with Joe Cirrito
    Oct 31 2025

    THE FALLEN BUT NOT FORGOTTEN PODCAST:
    “The Bloodhound Warrior: Pain, Peace and the Facade of Perfection, with Joe Cirrito”
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    I sat down with my friend and fellow street copper, Joe Cirrito.

    Joe is a New York City native, who was inspired by his friend, Fallen Officer Dominick Pezullo, to move to Los Angeles California and become a police officer.

    Since then he’s accomplished tons of endurance runs like marathons in uniforms & ultra marathons. He’s ran from LA to Sacramento in full uniform & leads a yearly 24-hour workout on 9/11 named “The Dom” after his friend.

    We take a deep dive into how he gets through the pain of his endurance runs and extreme workouts.
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    TIMELINE:

    00:02:15 - Tobacco Pipes
    00:08::00 - Finding peace in a frenzied mind
    00:11:00 - Trail runs & daydreams
    00:13:20 - Laziness
    00:14:20 - Pain
    00:17:35 - Inspiration
    00:20:20 - “The inner governor” -Goggins
    00:23:00 - The spirit of a bloodhound
    00:24:00 - Extreme measures
    00:28:00 - The power of people
    00:36:46 - The bond with Kristina Tudor
    00:38:20 - Lt Humphries
    00:39:45 - Mileage count vs humility
    00:42:25 - The treachery & the beauty of California’s “Grapevine”
    00:49:45 - Books & leaderships. “The Need to Lead” by Dave Berke & books by Jocko Willink.
    00:55:00 - Perfection in policing
    00:59:50 - Figure it out
    01:04:27 - Skittles galore & brown piss
    01:07:30 - Project Endure 3 and shark repellent
    01:08:10 - What’s next?
    01:13:00 - Joe shares a heartfelt dedication to Deputy Andrew Nunez of San Bernardino County Sheriff's Department End of Watch October 27th 2025



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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • From Tanks to Black-and-Whites & the Letter That Was Never Meant to be Written
    Jul 10 2025

    On this episode I have a conversation with Ismael Carlos. Ismael has worked as an officer for Santa Monica College PD and is currently a police officer fo the Los Angeles Police Department. He served in the United States military as a tanker in the Marine Corps and served in Combat in Iraq. Carlos dedicates this podcast to his Godson, Ethan Carlos, who passed away recently at a very young age. Please support the Ethan Carlos Foundation, a nonprofit organization, by going to ethancarlos.org.

    This podcast holds a ton of value for all of us in law enforcement and for those in the military. Please listen, tell us what you think and share this episode with someone you think it can help.

    Timestamps:

    00:01:25 - 1999: Joining the US Marine Corps
    00:03:00 - Rio Hondo: Paying your own way through the academy
    00:05:00 - We got a tanker job, "Sign me up!”=
    00:06:00 - Straight outtta Whittier
    00:08:00 - From Tankers to Black & Whites
    00:10:00 - Deployment after the September 11th attack
    00:12:30 - Warriorhood
    00:14:00 - Pushing in, arriving in Kuwait
    00:17:00 - The “Death Letter"
    00:19:00 - Faith and survival
    00:21:00 - Survival mode, training, completing the mission then processing
    00:23:00 - Maturity and self-awareness
    00:25:00 - Being scared vs Cautionary fear, mental preparedness of a warrior
    00:27:00 - Experiencing loss during combat
    00:31:00 - Appreciation
    00:33:00 - The newer generation of officers
    00:36:00 - Leadership
    00:45:00 - Getting into a shooting
    00:46:36 - An officer's wellbeing is part of the department's assets
    00:48:00 - Burnout
    00:49:00 - 2020 Riots
    00:51:00 - Empathy-forward leadership
    00:53:38 - Self reflection: What type of leader will I be?
    00:55:00 - Dedication: Ethan Carlos

    #thefallenbutnotforgottenpodcast #bluecoatfoundation #usmc #policeofficer #podcast #lawenforcement



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    56 mins
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