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The Elevated Man

The Elevated Man

By: Apollonia Ponti
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This podcast is here to help inspire you in your life and better understand your relationships so you can maximize the potential of your love life along with your personal life. What you will find here is dating, relationship, and life advice from your host along with some amazing interviews with some pretty amazing experts!Apollonia Ponti Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Social Sciences
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  • Understanding Dark Psychology of Women! (How to get any woman you want using this!)
    Dec 22 2025

    Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

    Understanding Dark Psychology of Women! (How to get any woman you want using this!)

    In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down what dark psychology really means in dating and how subtle psychological triggers influence attraction. Apollonia explains the core dynamics behind emotional variability and why understanding these patterns can completely change the way women respond to you.

    We explore why men who have female friends and strong social circles often appear more attractive, how mixed-gender environments elevate perceived value, and the powerful role emotional variability plays in maintaining interest. Apollonia also contrasts healthy push-and-pull with flatline behavior, helping you recognize what builds attraction versus what quietly kills it.

    Finally, we discuss scarcity in dating, the Laws of Vision, and what actually happens when you become emotionally and energetically scarce in the right way. Apollonia shares how to apply these concepts without manipulation—so attraction grows naturally through confidence, clarity, and self-respect.

    If you've ever felt stuck, overlooked, or unsure why attraction fades, this episode offers insight, strategy, and a deeper understanding of the psychology that drives modern dating!

    Key points in this episode!

    • 1:15 – What is Dark Psychology? Apollonia breaks down the core psychological triggers.
    • 2:17 – Why women are often more attracted to men who have female friends.
    • 3:33 – How mixed-gender social groups positively influence men's perceived value.
    • 4:17 – Emotional Variability: what it is and why it matters in attraction.
    • 5:36 – A real client example of Emotional Variability in action.
    • 6:48 – What healthy push-and-pull actually looks like.
    • 7:21 – Emotional Variability vs. Flatline behavior: key differences explained.
    • 8:22 – The scarcity mindset in dating—and how it affects attraction.
    • 9:26 – The Laws of Vision: why this principle is so powerful.
    • 10:37 – What really happens when you become scarce.
    • 11:16 – How to apply scarcity the right way.

    Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!

    "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's's lives!

    All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

    Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

    Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

    Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

    Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

    Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

    dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching

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    14 mins
  • The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!)
    Dec 15 2025

    Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

    The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!)

    In this episode Apollonia Ponti , we break down the painful emotional experiences many men face in dating—and how to ensure it doesn't happen to you. Apollonia explains why women pull away and what's truly happening beneath the surface when emotional distance appears.

    We explore the difference between low-value and high-value responses, highlighting why chasing, overreacting, or losing focus often pushes women further away. You'll learn what a high-value man does when she pulls away, why keeping your purpose first is essential, and how emotional control strengthens attraction.

    Finally, we discuss what happens when a high-value man pulls away and later returns—and why this shift often leads to greater respect, confidence, and stronger connection.

    If you've ever felt confused or hurt when someone you care about suddenly becomes distant, this episode offers clarity, direction, and a healthier mindset for navigating modern dating.

    Key points in this episode!

    • 0:33 - The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!)
    • 1:22 - Why do women pull away? Apollonia explains why.
    • 2:12 - How most men respond to these situations. Low vs High value men.
    • 3:03 - What high-value man does when she pulls away?
    • 4:27 - They keep their purpose first.
    • 5:16 - Why happens when a high-value man pulls away and comes back?

    Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!

    "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's's lives!

    All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

    Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

    Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

    Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

    Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

    Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

    dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching

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    7 mins
  • 5 Phrases That Make You Look Desperate! (She STOPPED Texting)
    Dec 8 2025

    Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

    5 Phrases That Make You Look Desperate! (She STOPPED texting)

    In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down five subtle phrases that instantly kill attraction, even when your intentions are good. From comments that create pressure to lines that reveal hidden insecurity, these phrases explain why women pull back, act distant, or stop responding altogether. Apollonia helps you understand how certain words shift the dynamic, signal neediness, and lower a woman's interest without you realizing it.

    Apollonia explains why each phrase damages the connection, what it triggers emotionally in women, and how small adjustments in communication can completely change the way women respond to you. With clear guidance and real-world examples, this episode shows you how to communicate from a place of confidence, value, and grounded masculine energy.

    If you want women to respect you more, stay attracted, and feel safe leaning into their feminine energy—rather than pulling away—this episode is for you!

    Key points in this episode!

    • 0:31 - She passes the soft no test, but you texted her, and she stops texting. What happened?!

    • 1:08 - Why specific phrases kill attraction for women! Apollonia will break down which ones

    • 1:31 - The first phrase.

    • 2:22 - The second phrase

    • 3:47 - The third phrase

    • 4:22 - The fourth phase.

    • 5:15 - The fifth phase.

    Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!

    "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's's lives!

    All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

    Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

    Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

    Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

    Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

    Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

    dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching

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    8 mins
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