So, I took my spare time to create the new eBook ‘It’s OK to Hate Your Ex’. It took a while to complete it. It’s way different than people think it would be. Rachel and I discuss the book and a bunch of other things - as we do! Discussions of long term relationships count too, fertilizer stinks, give yourself grace to heal, people do better and ‘you is beautiful and you is smart’. There is so much to this podcast. Basically we want people to do better. And there is a free gift to the first 15 listeners that jump on it after the podcast! And most people love free.

Subjects of:

How did you table your hate?

You is healed

My care column is narrow

Need to balance the soil

Weed can be family members too

Forgive yourself first

I think I’m a cat

Caddyshack

Find your peace

Riding the storm out

Parts of the cogs of divorce recovery

Be gone before someone drops a house on you

Giving no f*cks or just being cynical

AARP

Hate can be subjective

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Amazon Link ‘It Ok to Hate Your Ex’

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This is the most impromptu podcast we have tried as of yet. We both came to the studio with no plans of a topic and pulled one out of the sky. And, it turned out pretty well. Guild and blame can derail your divorce recovery in many ways. Conversations of self-retrospection, guilt can enable you, it’s ok to take some blame and be wrong sometimes, and take a pause. This episode is kinda all over the place but you can see where we landed in the end - and that’s all that matters. Thanks for your patience with this one. It was interesting!

Topics of:

Sageness

Didn’t sh*t my pants today

How to train your dragon in a Nissan Rogue

F*ck them people

Blogging is like journaling

Your divorce does not define you

Wallowing in a cesspool of guilt

Are you the problem?

Do you have a bad picker?

Sperm thinker

Flabby Dubby

Glycemic Index

It’s just a fart!

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One of our favorite subjects… the X factor. In our divorce recoveries we have both experienced different X factors. We do agree that you have some sort of compass in order to start healing, and that X factor(s) are them. What is yours??

Discussions of:

Finding your funny

Co-parenting dogs

Can’t let her win

Pulled the trigger twice

Looking down the road

What is pulling you out of the ditch

Sharing your story

Figure out who you are as a whole

Serial dating

Realize you will have steps backwards

Either I change or the world changes around me

Setting boundaries

The best version of myself

Versions of the truth

Why worry?

They are a great person, just not my person

Don’t vacation in the pain

‘K’ text

Insanity

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It’s another fun Divorce Devil Podcast. Our subject today is the interesting wins and fails in dating during divorce recovery. So many things to cover here. We feel we only scratched the surface. Discussions of you are never really ready to date, phone a friend, there is always some baggage, Rachel swiped her thumbs raw and you need to go through the sh*t relationships. Basically, Rachel and I agree that probably the first few times you get out there - it’s a sh*tshow. So, please go into them with realistic expectations. It turns out better that way. And, in all seriousness, take care of you in the process. Self-care is not overrated!

Interesting Points:

Special code with the bartender

Don’t talk about your divorce on your first dates

Go play pickleball

Watch out for the narcissist

Cut before you get cut

Red flag collector

Don’t get a project

You can’t fix people

Little divorce lies

Don’t date for marriage

Not looking for rings

No judgment or shaming

How they treat the waitstaff

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Well, we are finally at the last episode of the 10 part series of feeling better in your divorce recovery. It is so important to celebrate you every now and then. You deserve it! Taking time for you is paramount. Your value is intrinsic even though you take one step forward and two steps back sometimes. We hope that the 10 part series was of some value to you and your journey in your divorce recovery. We strive to provide more value to assist you in your divorce recovery destination in the months to come!

Discussions of:

The trash takes itself out

Fix the curtains please

Throat punch Thursday

No fun or laughter at first

Vision board or goals

Forgiveness and celebrating you?

Celebrate each tiny step or small win

Preventive care podcast

Your have to be selfish
Fighting lightsabers in the dark

Positive collateral damage

Choose yourself

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We are almost done with the 10 part feeling better in your divorce recovery. Today is day 9 and it’s all about owning your divorce story. We feel you should not be ashamed of your divorced status and we provide tips not to. Your divorce story becomes less important as time goes on.

We also discuss how the perception of our own divorce stories has changed over time and how it has become less of a defining factor in our lives while stressing the importance of setting boundaries and giving 100% in relationships. We encourage listeners to write their own divorce stories and explore different versions of their experiences. Ultimately, you need to love and embrace your own story, no matter how it may have unfolded.

Important points:

Let them

Insanity

Anger eyes

No matter what your story is, love your story and love yourself

My friend is almost my twin

Roles vs boundaries

Divorce is a rebirth not a death

Make your happy

Learn the game

Born a poor black child

Be prepared

Kiss my lips bitch lips

Be healed

Communication and then some

Change the divorced box to healed

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Day 8 people - are you learning from your past? We feel that it is so important to do just that. You need to reflect on what your marriage has taught you (good or bad), don’t let the past define you and on your journal prompt…. What do you need to leave behind? What version of your past do you tell people? We agree that letting things go, eventually, is less of a burden, self-care is most important, be selfish and take care of you, control is a large issue in divorce recovery and you might need shoes in order to go to school. Take heed and go get your happy and continue to heal.

Discussions of:

Fake it to make it

Divorce taught Rachel to communicate better

Negative self-talk

kiss my grits!

Great or grape nuts

Serial dating

Take back your power

Insecurities, doubts and confidence

Milk takes on the taste of the cereal

Don’t fix it just listen

Do it on your own time

We are not a family anymore

Envy

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In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the financial changes that occur after divorce. They share personal experiences and insights on topics such as living a comfortable life, making financial decisions as a couple, and considering the future. They also discuss the challenges of surviving financially after divorce, the importance of financial awareness and responsibility, and the emotional aspect of financial changes. The episode concludes with advice on financial independence, finding stability, and preparing for the unexpected.

They have to apologize for the sound quality up front. Not being in the studio because of a raging snow storm in our fair city…. we couldn’t go to the studio, so just listen to the content. Sorry!

Takeaways and subjects:

Financial changes are inevitable after divorce, and it is important to be prepared and informed

Both partners should take responsibility for their own finances and have open discussions about financial decisions

Surviving financially after divorce can be challenging, but it is possible to rebuild and find stability

Financial support and understanding are crucial during the transition from separation to divorce

It is important to educate oneself about finances and seek help when needed

It’s a comfort space

Don’t be afraid to ask for help

The cheating decree

It felt like a foreign land

Evening the scales

We need to learn financial responsibility sooner

A rental fee

Women pay alimony too

The money and the mindset

Divorce is not free!

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